Yet again risking my online reputation to write here, since i not only suffered under the redpill but i realized it was getting in the way of my dating life being sucessful. I have a post that explains how to get out of there.

Basically i argued very lenghtily that ppl started staying too much time at home and going from work to their computers so natural interactions were not as common, hence so many people are not getting sex and consequently turning to these gurus, and that to fix your sex life you simply need to GO OUT and do normal human stuff without obeying any cultish dogmatic rules.

But i want to go deeper and clarify some stuff; what do i mean by cycle scam?? Well, the redpill gives you so much stuff to overthink that it actuallly hinders not only your sex life, but your social life aswell. When you start to follow Redpill doctrine, you start acting weird and thus pushing people away from you. The scam? One of the CORE TENETS/DOCTRINES of the redpill is to always take the blame for everything and shift responsability of all failures to you. That makes redpillers think they failed themselves, insted of thinking they are acting super weird around women.

So basically:

They give you harmful advice, you try it IRL, and that drives women away, then it makes you feel its your fault for not following said advice, correctly, and you come back. The cycle repeats itself untill either the person leaves the cult or has a depression crisis or mental breakdown. It's a loop scam.

And why do i believe the "blaming yourself always" is a CORE ASPECT of their "bible"? Because it is proven to be absurd and stress inducing.

You cannot change other people's opinions about you, you cannot control who likes you and who doesn't. You are not a Jedi Knight.

Yes tru some subcounscious actions we attract or repulse other people. But to suggest you can train yourself to make people like you, suggest you have a formula, say that formula is related to being a bad person, and even comparing that to gorilla hierarchy is absurd. LET ALONE BELIEVING THAT ANY WOMEN ON EARTH CAN BE "YOURS!"

What the "redpill" offers is actually the biggest lie of the "matrix": That you can control the matrix, the world, and if something goes wrong, you must blame yourself for not doing what it's written. You never question the manual, it is foribidden, you just think you're not good enough.

It's frankly so insane i sometimes wonder how i got into that and stayed for so long. I guess the answer is "youth". But maybe it's because it offers an easy (and totally false) answer to an unsolvable question: "How do i get ppl (specially women) to like me?"

Truth is, we (neither me nor albert einstein nor behavioural scientists) don't actually know. We don't have the slightest idea what creates attraction between two people. We understand it as a chemical and behavioural reaciton and process, but we dont know the why. The reasons, the cataclisms.

Since we don't know why two ppl just "click", HOW THE FUCK CAN THEY CLAIM TO KNOW HOW TO MAKE PPL LOVE THEM??

The red pill is more than sexism, mysogeny, absurdity. It is a straight up scam. A self fulfilling prophecy that HINDERS your ability to "mate". I dunno if this intent was malicious since the inception, since it arose out of many guys, or if it just grew into this cult. But it's absolutely insane!!

And the crux of the problem is that when you fail at having sex, you cannot blame the advice, or just admit that person just does not like you, you have to take blame. Hence they have no option but to stay there untill they dont need it or the interest fades tru some really bad experience.

Don't have anger for the ppl there. Have pity. They are tormeted souls looking for an easy way out of their bad life, and they fell prey to something that makes their life even worse.

Hence i must stress, the mission of this sub should not be to shun or hate redpillers, but rather show them the way out. It's not like converting someone out of a religion.

Since it's based on false logic, you can defeat it with actual logic.

Cheers for the spirit of reconciliation. I wish those people can be saved or save themselves, or find something that brings them out before they harm themselves and others any further.

Most of them simply don't know better.

They blame themselves for things out of their control. It's not horrible.

It's downright sad..

Thanks for reading and please leave your thoughts down below.

Edit: English is not my native language and i have made some grammatical and contextual corrections to the extent that it's possible. I have not changed the meaning nor will i add anything further, thank you.