How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.

heroic_nincompoop · 2021-01-16T20:36:53+00:00

It's bizarre how many men have no qualms about outing themselves as manipulators. That's what you're doing when you proudly declare that you're attracted to girls with low self-esteem.

It just seems like manipulation is portrayed as this horrible trait on women: Oh, she manipulated him! That witch, that harpy! It's like she cast a spell on him that made him do terrible things!

...yet manipulation is an attractive trait in men. Just look at pick-up artists, how widespread that culture is. It's all about manipulation, playing mind games with women.

Hell, look at business. How many self-help books for businessmen advocate for manipulation? Act more confident than you are. Play mind games on your peers. Dominate, climb the ladder, be two-faced, kick down everyone who's trying to climb the ladder after you. That's why I raise my eyebrow at anyone who describes a woman as manipulative. I just think, "If a man were exhibiting the same behavior, would you be as critical? I doubt it."

carlther · 2021-01-16T20:50:51+00:00

I used to be overweight. I lost a lot of weight to gain confidence in myself and to be healthier and stronger. I've kept it off. Now that I'm more conventionally attractive, guys who wouldn't give me the time of day before have come out of the woodwork to see if they can "get with me." Some have afforded me the compliment "I like girls who have lost a lot of weight or who used to be ugly" with the implication that I must be inside that insecure fat/unattractive girl. It is insulting that I was invisible before I was better looking, as I am the same person after all. And, sometimes I still feel that way, but not enough to get with one of those scroats!

Saitschik · 2021-01-16T20:58:32+00:00

Nothing triggers them more than very beautiful women who know they are beautiful and have the self-esteem to not play it down.

They feel rage and jealousy and want to "put her in her place" but at the same time are desperate to sleep with her and for her validation.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-01-17T01:11:54+00:00

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itschronic_ · 2021-01-16T21:47:11+00:00

Quickest way to get rid of a man who tells you how beautiful you are as their first sentence is to say ‘I know.’ They do not like it and I live for it.

pickadaisy · 2021-01-16T20:58:30+00:00

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Mcccy · 2021-01-16T20:56:12+00:00

"I love when women have no self confidence, I can manipulate them easier and I don't have to worry about them leaving me🥺"

honeybeeroll · 2021-01-16T20:52:32+00:00

I always hated that song by One Direction that was like "You don't know you're beautiful/that's what makes you beautiful" Like ew are you attracted to insecurity? Idgi

Also like.... women know when they are attractive lol. Even during times in my life that I was extremely insecure I still knew that I was hot by outside standards if that makes sense? There's no "not being aware of your looks"

RiasXgremoryX · 2021-01-16T20:39:47+00:00

Translation: "I am a manipulator/abuser who needs a woman with low self esteem who hates herself enough to let me do whatever I want without consequence."

Myplummms · 2021-01-16T22:30:44+00:00

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breadandbunny · 2021-01-16T21:15:55+00:00

This is incredibly true. And I think the reason for that is because when someone is insecure they are more likely to tolerate bullshit from other people. That is what that type of guy is attracted to, because he knows he can treat her like shit and nothing will happen to him as a consequence.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-01-17T01:26:40+00:00

Yes, because if you have low self esteem, it is easier for a man to manipulate and gaslight you. LVM loooove when women don’t know their worth.

2021-01-17T07:35:24+00:00

They call feminine confidence vanity, and then post pictures of themselves with fish on dating apps. The hypocrisy.

ethnicallyabiguous · 2021-01-16T20:52:01+00:00

When a man tells me I’m beautiful, I respond with “I know!” If he gets upset, tells me I’m full of myself, or says I should say “thank you”, I know he’s a manipulator.

pikkpie · 2021-01-16T21:56:56+00:00

A smart woman to point it out. Scrotes really be outing themselves

JN3LL3V · 2021-01-16T23:28:13+00:00

Insecure men prefer insecure women so they have someone to feel superior to.

Mcccy · 2021-01-16T20:56:27+00:00

"I love when women have no self confidence, I can manipulate them easier and I don't have to worry about them leaving me🥺"

2021-01-17T00:35:30+00:00

confidence is attractive. TO THE RIGHT PEOPLE! insecurity is attractive to the WRONG people. my exes all complained that i was too self deprecating or i needed to quit putting my self down...now that i’m more confident and happy with myself my recent ex whom i still live with will make comments if he hears me being confident or if i’m acting confident. like i’m stuck up or something lol sorry bitch i just love ME not YOU

SoybeanApocalypse · 2021-01-16T22:26:58+00:00

IMO, in a world dominated by LVM it is a good thing to be invisible

2021-01-17T06:19:39+00:00

This is why I pretend I have low self-esteem lmfao. scrotes are so easy to manipulate. Sometimes when I get pissed the veneer slips, though that’s rare because unless a scrote is fucking up my bag somehow I don’t care.

daisy_0720 · 2021-01-17T07:44:19+00:00

Women with low-self esteem are like catnip to LVM predators. Now I'm attuned to it, it's unbelievable watching it unfold in real time.

ItsFreezen · 2021-01-17T12:14:06+00:00

And thousands of Scrotes gladly spend money on OnlyFans from girls who flaunt it. What a hypocrite.

libralia · 2021-01-17T00:23:13+00:00

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azureangel35 · 2021-01-16T20:57:29+00:00

damn.