What’s up boys. One of my plates (who is lowkey going for ltr) looked at my phone when I was away for a second. She saw another plate professing her love to me on my phone and when I came back she questioned me and said she was upset.

I told her the girl was just a girl who wanted more than I wanted and that I wasn’t interested in anything long term with her so that’s why she is texting me like that. Still, she said she was upset and made snark remarks throughout the rest of the date about the other girl saying maybe I should go be with her.

We have never spoken about exclusivity and I even asked her before things got more serious what she wanted- she told me she didn’t want to fall in love or anything like that, so I assumed I would date who I date and she would date who she dates. I don’t want her dating anyone else but obviously she’s going to. I asked her at the end of the date if she was dating anyone else because I wanted her to fuck off with the hypocrisy and she said she was talking to people but not dating. (Smfh)

Personally I know this isn’t a bad situation because of female social proof, but still. Not sure how to deal with stuff like this during dates. Would like some advice.

I didn’t get defensive and ask her why did you look at my phone or anything like that, which I should’ve because she even looked at my phone yesterday and saw a text from my ex but she didn’t mention it directly, she indirectly mentioned it. I just held frame and deflected questions I didn’t want to answer.

How do you boys handle stuff like this?

If the plate breaks due to this I have one more and some prospects but I do prefer this plate over the other one obviously.