Just thinking about this recently: Is congruity what women really want and need from men? I know I've read that on TRP at some point.

Also, is incongruity actually super damning to a woman's perception of you? I think recently I demonstrated a little boyfriend-y beta behavior to a girl I fucked and since then she hasn't shown any interest. Abundance has kept me from caring too much but here I am wondering about the effects of incongruity and congruity and just how powerful they can be with the female psyche.

If you demonstrate the traits of two or three different types of men, does that just headfuck them and usually cause them to flee?