Not sure WTF is wrong with me, but I am continuously getting oneitis for hot bartenders.

I work 60+ hours a week, don't have much a social circle, and thus find that becoming a 'regular' at a particular bar is kind of a short cut to building a sort of social life.

Problem is, I almost always develop a BP "crush" on any attractive female bartender. I feel like this is a bad habit.

Part of the appeal I believe is that they are a non-moving target. I always know where they will be and when. I also have the benefit that they are giving me alcohol, which makes me feel good and more confident. As a result, I feel that I can "be myself" around them and be more flirty.

I end up sinking a TON of time into these places and girls and I feel like it's dysfunctional.

Here's the twist - most of the time, I eventually wear them down enough to fuck them at some point. This only serves to intensify the addiction.

The true problem is that I end up laser focused on one single hot bartender, and game her night after night until I get my shot.

I don't see any choice since I'm so damn busy that's the only place i can go to have guaranteed interaction with a hot chick.

Anyone else have this fetish for bartenders / service industry girls? Any idea how to get the fuck over it and move my game into the real world while working crazy hours?