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How to sexually escalate a normal conversation and know when she is dtf?

by Nikelu | December 07, 2016 | askTRP


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Hey asktrp and fellow trpers, I usually find myself talking very easily with women (note that I am an extreme introvert,I feel great talking 1 on 1 but more people than that and I lag,anyways) and I always feel a connection with them and I certainly feel like they do the same. We talk about all kinds of things, my university studies/fitness/psychology/random shit even politics sometimes I rarely run out of material and rarely had a woman stop talking to me as well; she will always find a subject to talk about.

The thing is , I can't escalate sexually or even know how to hint her that I like her to receive similar notifications from her side. And you know women, they are usually on the defensive on this stuff. How can I provoke her to say or show that she likes me besides checking for IOIs, which I actively don't.

My last 5-10 girls that I either had an Open sexual relationship or was fwb/plates we met at a coffee shop or drink a beverage together and then I suggested her to come to my place and chill or whatever and then I made the move without giving any fucks if luck is on my side or without noticing signs that she was into me.

So I wondered if you could give me routines or phrases that make her react in a way that shows you sexual or general interest. I wouldn't care if a high tier female doesn't fuck on the first night(because morals) but wants a relationship with me. I would like to know the clues and how to transition a great conversation to something more personal and sexual eventually leading me to know that we both like each other .

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Title How to sexually escalate a normal conversation and know when she is dtf?
Author Nikelu
Upvotes 3
Comments 7
Date 07 December 2016 06:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/78737
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5h1e0d/how_to_sexually_escalate_a_normal_conversation/
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[–]burzuei3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy

I made the move without giving any fucks if luck is on my side or without noticing signs that she was into me.

Don't know man, I'd say you have this shit pretty much figured out. I've got this theory that many women won't show you any noticeable signs before you'll make a move. They just work that way.

[–]Nikelu[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I think you are right . And I am either gonna get rejected or have a great lay. So there is not much to lose. I am not seeking for female friends anyway

[–]burzuei0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah. After giving it some thought I'd like to add that when I'm interested in something more than talking to a chick, I just start touching her. You know - basic kino shit, like her arms, hands, shoulders, back, etc and move on from that. If she's ok with you putting your arm over her shoulder you pretty much have to try to go for a kiss.

[–]PepeLePill3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

they say something that can be interpreted as sexual


If they get the reference your work is done for you. If they don't get the reference, after you say it a couple of times, they'll ask about it. A "that's hot" will suffice. The point is, you are stating your current thoughts. Those thoughts are sexual. You can also let them (thoughts) go because you don't dwell on the fact that something is hot. It's just a passing thought process. Any escalation on her part results in you applying Kino

[–]Nikelu[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Not sure how that would be translated to my language,so would like something international.

[–]PepeLePill2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Whatever you use, make it yours. The reference is from family guy. The PUA neighbor says it when something tickles his fancy. I remember an old morning radio show that had one of the hosts ding a bell when he had such a thought.

The point is you are conveying that thought in a quick way and can test her reaction.

[–]htbf0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Just make a pause in the conversation and have prolonged eye contact. It'll send the message.

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