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Any one else realizing women are not as important as they pretend to be?

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resnine
June 22, 2018
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They are constantly portraying themselves as minor celebrities with their phones out. Is this all an act? Do all the girls everywhere pretend to be super important? Or is this mainly in the west? I am beginning to realize women are not even half as important as they PRETEND to be. Once you get to know them they lead very boring and un-interesting lives. What's with the constant pretending? all them checking their phones with their social media accounts, having that air of super importance in their facial expressions, the way they dress. They constantly have this attitude like they are like Kim Kardashian or something. Why?


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Title Any one else realizing women are not as important as they pretend to be?
Author resnine
Upvotes 92
Comments 47
Date 22 June 2018 05:46 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/789
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8t3aqj/any_one_else_realizing_women_are_not_as_important/
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[–]4SkinFred90 points91 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's what this social game is all about.

We're all selling an image. Even you.

[–]dongpal2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Disgusting, isn't it? Everyone is faking someone they want to be but are far from it.

[–]MuchFIERCE2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

A generation of instant gratification addicts grow people to be more willing to live vicariously through their social medias than to actually improve themselves to become what they actually want to be Edit:spelling

[–]kendallb18343 points44 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ok, let's say it all together, what is it women get from men?! What is it they offer? Sex for attention.

Social media is a huge fuck fest of people getting the attention they need (while real men go actually do shit with their lives and have interesting shit about them)

A woman needs facebook/insta/snapchat for the same reasons and as much as you need porn.

And yes, just because you look at a shit ton of porn doesnt mean you get laid. Just because you can pose and get a lot of likes doesnt mean you have an actual interesting life.

[–]Afrofreak1 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy

Food for thought: If social media is such a necessity for women, why is it that a man created every single one of them?

[–]Merwebb17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is all about cashing it in papi

[–][deleted]3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

What in common daily use was not created by a man or a group of mostly men? In many cases to make women’s lives better or easier? Not a whole lot. I can’t think of a single system or invention that only had women involved but many that were products of just men or a team of mostly men. Men are valued on what we do, Women are valued on what they are. Very little has changed on this no matter how much noise is made.

[–]ppanthero4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cause they usually are better programers and entrepreneurs and are cashing in on the “needs“ of society.

[–]Avertus3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

For the same reason that it was men who founded Maybelline, L'Oréal and Louis Vuitton

[–]kendallb1830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hasn't a man always been the one to capitalize and profit off of making giving someone what they want and need easier? Men think logically, it's no suprise we work to streamline and shorten the logistics of any person's given dopamine fix, and do it for a profit

[–]dongpal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Porn doesnt add value, posting on facebook/insta/snapchat could lead to possible orbiters or connection to Chad.

[–]TheStumblingWolf65 points66 points  (8 children) | Copy

If all you had was your looks, wouldn't you try to cash in on it?

[–]resnine[S] 23 points24 points  (7 children) | Copy

I've had many girls tell me they use their looks to get shit for free. I feel like this is a moral question.

[–][deleted] 40 points41 points  (5 children) | Copy

Women lack the morals men have. Gentleness from a position of power is virtuous. Gentleness from a position of weakness is survival.

Now that women have feminism giving them power, how are they treating men?

[–]mrp_awakening17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nah, I'd say that men lack the options women have. If you could get free shit for being hawt, you'd do it too.

[–]Liu_Wang10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

they don't get free shit for necessarily being "hot", but for the simple fact they have female reproductive organs. and girls know how hard it is being a male, so they prey upon weak men for financial or societal gain

[–]resnine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I truly don't believe they DO know how bad men have it, how could they? They cannot understand our suffering. They are too far removed from it. Just like we have different privileges we naturally have and take for granted or are generally unaware of. They aren't aware of the things that don't affect them directly. Most of it is ignored, for they are more important and above all else.

[–]menial_optimist8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gentleness from a position of power is virtuous. Gentleness from a position of weakness is survival.

Damn...

[–]kendallb1830 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." - Abraham Lincoln 

[–]TheRedKeepx0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

its basic hypergamy. you don't know much about trp, do you?

[–][deleted] 19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Posting a slutty picture on Instagram for a girl is the same as going to the gym and crushing chest and tri's for you and me. Both of these respectively add value to the individual. She gains orbiters and attention from Chad. We gain status via physique (aka becoming Chad).

[–]zboo1h19 points20 points  (3 children) | Copy

They're all just scared little girls that want a strong man to have a family with. Everything else is conditioning and damage.

[–]goldinochic1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is so true

[–]room_3031 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Nope - they have Tinder, Tyrone, #metoo and careers now.

[–]zboo1h2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah just like all these invisible men with their video games, porno, drugs and junk food - they're all set with surface-level pleasures and are rotting inside.

[–]salinorum12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

No one is fucking important.....really. We have to pretend we are important or else the burden of the realization of our insignificance would kill us!

Only those who can distinguish themselves from the crowd, speak from the heart, reveal the soul, and inspire others is worth noting. No one is important who cannot show the fire of their heart

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keeping their orbiters interested.

[–]Casd124 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Smv

[–]3chazthundergut2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pussy will always be important to men.

[–]oscarasimov5 points6 points  (10 children) | Copy

Any one else realizing women are not as important as they pretend to be?

Sounds like you made it. Welcome to the club

[–]econquest8 points9 points  (8 children) | Copy

Ah yes the club where we spend hours every week reading about, talking about, and practicing on that thing that isn't very important.

You know what isn't as important as it pretends it is? High-school calculus.

You know how you know it's not as important as you think it is? Because if you ignore it goes away forever (if you're not a rocket scientist.) You don't need it.

You can't just ignore women and they go away, because you're a man and want them in your life. Yes they are important to us.

This idea of getting the outcome we want by being outcome-independent is a joke. It's an act men put on.

Why do we tell people coming to TRP for dating advice to lift? Because women aren't important?

Women are very important to us and it's male hamstering to get to the "understanding" that they're not. Oh, sure. I don't care a bout women at all. I couldn't care less about them.

That's why I have ten of them I'm spreading my attention around (plate theory) so they're not overwhelmed by my attention. Because of how little I care.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I agree with most of your points but you seem to misunderstand what outcome independence actually means.

[–]econquest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I know what you mean but "I want a girl in my bed" is an objective outcome. "How do I get a girl in my bed" -- well don't be needy, women can smell that. The way to achieve this outcome is by being outcome independent on any given night out with anyone. But there it is: an outcome. after a few days/weeks/months/years of bettering yourself and being outcome independent you'll achieve the outcome.

[–]sealdream0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Just because you ignore calculus doesn't mean it goes away.

It's just one of the many facets of life you can choose to ignore and suffer some amount of consequences, like lifting, dressing well, hair, for classic RP examples. In calculus' case, the weakness you gain is occasionally revealing your lack of knowledge to other guys without even realizing it when talking about technical matters, and having worse overall intuition on problem solving (not just rocket science).

[–]econquest0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Just because you ignore calculus doesn't mean it goes away.

but it kind of does. (I'll grant your exceptions: "occasionally revealing your lack of knowledge to other guys without even realizing it when talking about technical matters, and having worse overall intuition on problem solving")

If you just "ignore women" it's not the same at all! except if you're gay.

then you can pretty much start ignoring them if you want (I imagine).

but for straight guys, if you start ignoring them you don't just suffer the minor consequences of occasionally showing other guys your lack of knowledge (whenever the subject of women comes up) as well as having poor intuition overall about the behavior of women you have to interact with (or women in public life etc). What you end up missing as a heterosexual man wiht "no women in your life" runs much deeper! -- than, for example, being a waiter with no knowledge of calculus.

unless you're gay, it's something fundamental, and impacts you severely.

[–]sealdream0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

What makes it fundamental? It seems like it’s just a different set of tradeoffs. I’d say technical confidence, not only calculus, but overall breadth of knowledge and strong intuition is more fundamental if the metric is being impactful in your life toward a goal.

Having a mission external to women, pursuing that, and being okay with the occasional girl or girls becoming part of your life, or not, and accepting that, is a totally valid, authentic perspective a heterosexual male can have.

[–]econquest0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Having a mission external to women, pursuing that, and being okay with the occasional girl or girls becoming part of your life, or not, and accepting that, is a totally valid, authentic perspective a heterosexual male can have

Why would reading the red pill be part of that though?

[–]sealdream0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It doesn’t have to be.

But reading the red pill (with grains of salt) helps to reduce the amount of overall cognitive dissonance one has about how the world operates => more accurate decision making => more impact.

[–]econquest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Except that the red pill is dedicated to male sexual strategy.

[–]blister3330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol my thoughts exactly when I read the OP

[–]Downhere_Seeds1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Haha yes! Try marriage, not only are they boring but they want you to be boring as well by ruining all of your hobbies and friendships.

[–]matrixtospartanatLV1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

And when they’re done ruining your shit, they move on to another man with interesting shit, only to eventually ruin him as well.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I am the most important person I have ever met.

You should attain that frame and hold it. Be the greatest man you know, or be working towards it.

Great rant, now go take action.

[–]DanielQuiles0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. And also, water is wet.

[–]abudun790 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

From my experience, it's the same everywhere, but to varying degrees. Haven't been to a country where it was as intense as in the US... which was to be expected if you consider how the society is constructed. Lots of extremely hot girls are not even able to do their nails themselves.

But you find the same in a lot of men as well; just replace Instagram with a business. They are peacocking on how awesome and high quality and money-back-guarantee-proof their business is, and so many of them deliver inferior quality and service (at least in the eyes of a EU citizen) and then try to talk their responsibility down.

But hey, it's a big free country and it seems to work.

[–]lifeisweirdasfuck0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Attention is women’s drug

[–]red_matrix0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

As long as guys give these woman attention online, keep feeding their egos, they'll keep slutting it up online and offline for the highest bidders. Who do you think is paying for their expensive trips to Maui and Dubai? Instagram is an escort site for billionaires. And girls will do anything for a Prada purse. See how the power dynamic slips back and fourth from orbiter to Instagram girl to rich and powerful man? It's nature.



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