Guy I was seeing is exactly what I'm looking for, and we have a lot in common. He wanted to see me often, was very consistent in communication, took me on a date, etc. Then he all of a sudden said that he wants to slow things down, and that he's not looking to commit to anyone for a very long time since he got out of a relationship in November.
He asked to be exclusive, go on dates and continue our connection but a relationship would be out of the question and not what he's looking for. I said then and there that it's possible I could catch feelings beyond that, and I said no. It was so hard, because he's so attractive and he's everything I would choose in a guy but it wasn't meant to be.
I'm happy I cut it off, but at the same time it's hard because he is my producer for music I am working on with my band. He said he can keep it professional and I can too, but is there any advice moving forward? I want to make sure I did the right thing.
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