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It's a bluepill spiral, here's some annotations. Right from the start:

Needing constant, and often expensive, entertainment. It seemed that her flirty nature didn't stop or become focused on me, she was still the same person.... But I expected more monogamy in our relationship.

He failed to set boundaries with consequences.

I began feeling jealous and resentful of her, and she became bored and disillusioned with me

She was more adventurous than he was, actually doing things and socializing. He notes drugs; she sounds like a party girl--and that's how they socialize. Also, again, no boundaries. Regardless, in her eyes, he became boring and didn't have his own good shit going on.

We even stopped having sex.

Yep. That tends to happen when they don't value and/or respect you as man--the king to her queen.

Somewhere along the way, I developed depression, and I stopped making any effort at all. I stopped looking after myself, stopped making progress towards my goals, and stopped making an effort with her.

!!! Digging a hole for himself. The opposite of what TRP encourages. Yourself and your happiness comes first. Better yourself. She is happy with the relationship when her man's happy. He has to make his own happiness. Don't be lazy and try to leech happiness off of her. Have things besides your relationship that make you happy, that make you work hard and achieve. She is an addition to your life who is happy based on you. She will not fill a hole.

Despite all this, we had had a deep connection, so we struggled on for a few months... She was the first to crack.

Unsurprisingly she was the first. The 'relationship' lasted as she secured her other options.

When we had been doing well and both of us were happy, I had quit the job I had working with her and begun working from home.

Assuming this furthered her view of him as being idle.

At work we had previously spent out free time almost exclusively with the other, so neither of us had developed any real friendships.

When I quit, she began developing friendships with some of the more wild staff. They pointed out how hostile our relationship had become, and started pushing her towards another colleague, a wild, exciting colleague who was moving overseas in a month.

So, he's left with no friends and doesn't get any new ones while in the relationship. Obviously his failure to socialize isn't very valuable. So, she turns to new exciting people and grade-A friend approved cock--leaving in a month with no strings attached.

She started to break it off...her friend had just moved over from her country into the second room, making me the minority in the house.

He felt the pressure of not having any control in his own home. This is another reason to keep your own place and your own space. Never let them move in.

As is often the case, the person being broken up with will try and hold onto the relationship, regardless of how unfulfilling it was. I suddenly went from resentful and angry to desperate and needy. This change turned her resentment into disgust, and our troubles grew worse.

It's good that he sees it at least. Does he have hope? I'll message him about this...

With our increasing tensions and her exciting colleague doing an excellent job of filling in the emotionally supportive gaps for her, she ended up deciding that she would break the lease early and take her friend elsewhere, leaving me to pay off the rest of the rent on the lease.

Ah, let's not forget the other gap he was filling. So, she's going to leave and screw him over. When you're not leading, there's no remorse on how they resent you.

I was a but suspicious when she began inviting him and a few of the girls back from work on a regular basis, and going out on the town with them, with specific instructions for me to remain at home, something we had never done before as a couple.

She eventually began sending romantic and sexual texts to the colleague

"a bit suspicious" ... :-| He must have been filling her 'emotional gaps'.

I confronted her and she admitted everything and she agreed to cut contact, which she went back on almost immediately.

Why did she go back to doing this?? No consequences were given. You can whinge all you want but when your words lack depth, she does was she wants. Give her options instead: 'You can do what you want, but...' (Regardless, at this point, the plug should have been pulled long ago--oneitis coupled with the inability to focus on himself and treat women as replaceable if it came to that--which it had).

She gave up on finding a place for herself and started pressuring me to move instead...she convinced herself that it was supposed to be me moving out all along

This is exactly what we call hamstering. She convinces herself of what she wants to be the truth. Ah, and she doesn't give a shit about him still. Entitlement takes over.

it became too much to bear. I found a place to stay immediately and began moving the things I could transport in my car.

!!!stubbsie208, if you read this...this is TRP. You finally grew a pair and backed yourself up with action and consequence!!!

On the night before I moved the last of the smaller items, we cuddled in bed for the first time in months. I stroke her hair like I had used to, and she pushed herself closer into me.

!!!So what did she do? She became nice finally, and you two cuddled. Do you see? Do you get it?!!

The next night, I received a Facebook message saying 'sorry' and she changed her relationship status. Her friend...informed me that the colleague came over and they had sex that night.

But, his RedPill actions of leaving were too little, too late...not to mention that he caved so quickly. All she needed was to be a little bit nice after he left... and then he came running back. His actions had little strength/substance.

Oh, and, that wasn't the first time they had sex. (Even if you want to believe otherwise, regardless, she would have resented him immensely just for getting walked on and staying in a relationship with her. He was holding her back from guilt-free fucking. Let's not forget "trickle-truth"--everything you hear from her and her close friends--that's the sugarcoated version. Make a minor confession so there's some element of truth).