A gentle reminder to avoid marriage and paternity test your kids... He could still be on the hook in some states.

Naru4odo · 2021-06-03T10:36:29+00:00

Isn't it wonderful how she tried to flip this as the husband's fault. " My husband broke the trust".

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2021-06-03T10:28:26+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

supremekin59 · 2021-06-03T12:11:33+00:00

I love how her friends, co workers, and family all blocked her. Finally someone pays the price for cheating and fucking around. Finally we see a scenario where the woman actually gets punished for cheating. Even though she will definitely use the family courts on him, he at least has the finances and everything to handle it. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

rbep531 · 2021-06-03T12:27:22+00:00

I love how she lies and cheats, but he calls her a few names and she acts like it's the end of the world and she doesn't even know who she married. Hilarious.

retal1ator · 2021-06-03T10:32:15+00:00

Heart warming story, especially the part where she's shunned by everyone for being a cheating cunt.

legion8784 · 2021-06-03T13:13:43+00:00

Remember gentlemen, every man entitled to a paternity test. If that cost gotta come out of your pocket then do it! Better to spend a thousand dollars on a test than thousands over the next 18 years.

NervousShower · 2021-06-03T11:17:55+00:00

What a cunt

DevelopmentMindless8 · 2021-06-03T11:09:38+00:00

Have a good long read bois, this is reality, this is a woman. This is the reason why we go our way, and i bet my next paycheck the chick will definitely aim for that child support. Go your own way, gentlemen, it is simply better in all aspects.

Inside-Party · 2021-06-03T14:04:54+00:00

Why doesn't she target the guy who knocked her up? Lemme guess: this guy from high school is someone with a motorcycle and no checking account.

ConsiderationDue111 · 2021-06-03T14:52:20+00:00

Typical mentality of Certified Cunt Whore!! And this goes on soooo much more than we realize.

Brian-_S · 2021-06-03T08:07:32+00:00

Yea she's done rip

redFenning22 · 2021-06-03T11:44:04+00:00

Best out come for a shit situation.

Paternity tests are a fucking life saver 🙌🙌

womenthro · 2021-06-03T15:06:03+00:00

"I can't believe he would call me a whore".

cheating whore

Darkmaster85845 · 2021-06-03T11:28:27+00:00

Poor victim. I'm sure she expects to get money from both men and sympathy from society. It's the least a cheating woman can expect right?

cleats4u · 2021-06-03T11:54:57+00:00

Oh you poor thing, your husband should understand how his emotional outbursts drove you into another mans arms. Next time to get even, sleep with his brother and at least keep it in the family. Remind him how much he is going to owe if he leaves. That should keep him around.

CockAFuckityFuck · 2021-06-03T15:38:22+00:00

I read that entire post twice and you know what is missing?

Accountability. Look at the words used -

"momentary weakness after a huge argument" - because that other guys cock and semen was the marriage counselor

"tell my husband about my infidelity on my own terms" - naw bitch you were just being a fucking coward because you knew how you would react if your husband fucked another woman

"I didn't have it in me to tell him..." - nope, you were just being a coward

"I don't even know who I married at this point..." - likely a guy who expected his wife to be faithful?

"Ordered paternity tests and administered them without my permission or knowledge" - this isn't France and he doesn't need your fucking permission to get a paternity test done on a kid that is being sold as his.

"I can't believe he would call a woman these things" - what exactly should he have called you?

"I know I messed up but this punishment is too much" - cry me a river, there are men made homeless and commit suicide everyday after their lives are destroyed in family court. Do you hear anything but crickets?

Notice how she doesn't even consider handing the guy she cheated with the bill for child support.

ThanatopsisRex · 2021-06-03T14:22:28+00:00

"I don't want child support but I'm just curious."

LOL

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zeepoopholeloophole · 2021-06-03T13:01:02+00:00

Jesus buttfucking Christ what a cunt

ManofGod1000 · 2021-06-03T13:53:51+00:00

Yep, she does not take responsibility from the start and then also forgets that there is an actual biological father out there. It is the responsibility of the bio father so go after him for child support.

RedditMadeMeReddit · 2021-06-03T08:17:04+00:00

This relationship was falling apart before she started cheating. Why does she think this could be fixed? There's no way in hell this would be repairable if the man got another woman pregnant.

bobo007 · 2021-06-03T13:47:27+00:00

The kicker here that she doesn't want child support, she is just 'curious' if he has to pay. After all this shit about wanting to put her life back together and earn back respect of her friend and family she wants to make the STBX pay for another mans kid. Beyond toxic.

macaryl95 · 2021-06-03T14:42:59+00:00

Upvoting the comments some rude person had the indecency to downvote, but also because I agree with them all.

vector5633 · 2021-06-03T14:23:43+00:00

You poor thing. How dare your husband be upset at you and call you all these names. I know you're the victim here. At least that is what you want people to see and think. Lol....

You are a royal cunt! I hope your husband leaves you asap and finds a woman who is worth it and loyal. So take your sorry ass story somewhere else twat!

TeddyMGTOW · 2021-06-03T11:04:20+00:00

Laws vary state to state..he needs legal advise and act fast. Its fixable...

I used to make fun of attorneys until i found out how complicated the legal system is. Almost ever guy here will need an attorney at some point in a matter that involves a women.

My #1 rule, always hire a male attorney. Don't underestimate the power of the "sisterhood". The pit bull female lawyer that works hard for mens rights is a unicorn that doesn't exist.

1st10Amendments · 2021-06-03T15:12:23+00:00

The ONLY thing a man gains from a marriage license that he can’t legally get anywhere else is exclusive access to that one particular set of sex organs. If that is unilaterally denied him, there is literally no reason to get married, and leaving the marriage is absolutely an option.

Arnold_Incelinator · 2021-06-03T16:02:55+00:00

im extremely disgusted by western society.

gewfbawl · 2021-06-03T16:31:12+00:00

He pulled all the funds from their account and now she can't afford to get her own lawyer or pay for therapy. Lol

Does, quite possibly, the most fucked up, low, scum bag thing you could do in a relationship. Says absolutely nothing about it for a year. Receives well deserved consequences.

"I needed his money so that I can pay a professional to help me avoid my consequences and to pay another professional to help me avoid feeling shame and sadness about the fact that I deserve my consequences. Hey, Reddit, help me come up with ideas to cease the consequences and make everything go back to before I caused my consequences, please? Boohoo"

That's all I grabbed from this.

Thebaron7137 · 2021-06-03T17:12:51+00:00

She got what she deserves. She shattered her own life. Look at the audacity of this bitch. Right in the title trying to blame her husband. She scheeted and got knocked up. And still tries to blame him. Wtf. This right here is why women should never be trusted. Thanks to the modern day internet and social net works. All I have to do is sit back and watch women sink there own ship. Thanks social media. Women proving me right again. 🤣🤣

WiscoMitch · 2021-06-03T14:01:30+00:00

This boils my fucking blood. Unfuckingreal.

Big-Result-3160 · 2021-06-03T14:26:48+00:00

Crocodile tears

givemethatrandom · 2021-06-03T16:53:59+00:00

cheat on the man with a highschool acquaintance

gets pregnant

lies about using protection and there's a chance the child isn't her husband

husband wisen up and paternity test his kid

turns out kid isn't his and calls her what she's

"I don't even know who I married at this point. cannot believe he could call a woman these things."

No cunt, he's calling you those names (and deservedly so), not any woman 🤣😭.

Flexed23 · 2021-06-03T15:43:04+00:00

Do we really think this is the 1st time she cheated? She said she has been trying to have A kid with her husband but, he has low sperm count. She just happens to have unprotected sex (that alone is reason to cancel her-bringing possible stds to husband) while trying to have a first baby? We all know never to trust what comes out of a woman mouth unless it’s cum, I don’t trust her story as is as she is a proven lying bitch. She just happened to find A guy she went to HS with one night she had fight with husband? Sure….I bet she has been talking to him for a while and called him to help boost her ego after the fight with husband. The fact it was a HS friend and shes 34yo sounds shady to me. And I wonder what that fight was about that “forced” her to put another man cock into her, and with no protection. A woman who has sec with a man she just met or the first time without protection in my experience is always a lying, stupid selfish slut. If she does it and goes home and sleeps next to her husband then she is full trash. Same for a dude.

Where have the mature adults gone? I’m 43 and I still have and hear about situations that I experienced in my early 20’s. My opinion…Woman don’t respect men anymore. The feminists (usually at least 1 of her friends or an online chat group) brainwash previously decent woman into believing they have the right to do anything they want…married or not. Bf or not. And don’t need to end relationship b4 she does these things. Her husband or man is not a friend, he’s a possession that she controls.

Modern society including SM and all these movements that are creating division in world not unity are destroying the family. We already know BLM wants to break up the nuclear family. Now we have mentally ill parents transitioning their 12yo daughters or sons to trans because it’s hip and they can now be part of the LGBTQ+ community. A community that is isolated from Other communities. I support this group but to a point. When they divide people it’s bad.

The world is at a point similar to the ends of all last great civilizations. We can’t go back and the liberals want to make things better but, only for themselves and they make decisions based on emotion not facts. When we have so many men teaching others to not get married and woman doing everything they can to “advertise” themselves on SM with fake eye lashes to lips to butt to image filters….society as we know it is dead. I never. Luke have imagined when I grad HS in 1995 things would be so pathetic and full of narcissistic people I would have married early. I had so many wonderful big school and early college GFs I treated poorly. Girls who were old school, the feminists did hit them yet. Girls with values and morals. B4 reality TV and the Internet brainwashed them. Now I Put on MTV and the like and want to find a bridge to take a swim from as soon there will be no genders, and the hippie free love culture will be the norm.

The true victims are the Children. I already want to slap every 16-25yo I see as they are absolutely horrible In many ways. I wonder how this cheating bitches kid is going to turn out? I feel bad for the kid

That-Guy-2122 · 2021-06-03T14:24:41+00:00

Oh man its almost as if people dont appreciate it when you cheat on your spouse, crazy.

The_Shorto · 2021-06-03T16:08:52+00:00

Unlike that she put the man she cheated with was (separated) like that makes it ok for her to cheat on HER husband... gas lit him because he called her names... absolutely no remorse on the fact that she cheated only that she got caught.

Good for her family and co workers for shunning her.

Midwinter77 · 2021-06-03T14:18:22+00:00

Gentlemen...I present to you...the modern woman!

Frosty-Gate-8094 · 2021-06-03T08:14:43+00:00

He probably wont be liable for CS.. The bio-father is known and you get 2 months time for revoking paternity..

He just needs to lawyer up and get it done with.

But his attempt at controlling her finances was an asshole move.. Regardless of what she has done.

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KING_CPB · 2021-06-03T15:19:53+00:00

Never commit & never provide. The only winning move is not participating into the rigged game.

2_of_Clubs · 2021-06-03T15:07:42+00:00

Hahahahhahahahhahahahha. Lifefuel.

kevintheredneck · 2021-06-03T15:14:07+00:00

If she is in the United States, the baby is considered to be a product of the marriage. So in all actuality she can file for child support and most likely get it. The ex husband has to jump through some serious hoops to get his name off the birth certificate and not pay out the nose for a child that isn’t even his.

joythegreat96 · 2021-06-03T14:45:45+00:00

still playing the victim card!!! AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH! If I was that husband, I would kill her. Fucking whore!!

megachrispercent · 2021-06-03T20:03:01+00:00

"I had a moment of weakness after a huge argument with lots of yelling and screaming between us, I went out and ended up cheating on my husband with a guy we went to high school with..."

That almost sounds like that happened within the same day. My guess is she actively sought out the guy they knew from high school, likely through social media, if it happened as quickly as it certainly sounds like it did.

Just goes to show how quickly they can have another option ready to go.

delsystem32exe · 2021-06-03T14:56:16+00:00

curious where the original post is from... anyone have a link

TheKnightRunner · 2021-06-03T21:40:59+00:00

She starts by acknowledging that she screwed up, but then follows it up by deflecting blame on her husband, making excuses, and playing the victim when people held her accountable for her behavior. Welcome to life sister; where your choices, especially ones that screw other people over, have consequences. What she did was 100% avoidable, and 100% her fault. I'm guessing the Tinder profile has already been made: "Looking for a good man to join us". And of course will tell every guy she goes on a date with that her husband abused her and that's why she left.

kasiviswanathan94 · 2021-06-03T15:37:08+00:00

What a dumbo.

Setari · 2021-06-03T19:13:32+00:00

cheats because they can't handle a fuckin argument (yeah right she'd been talking to that other guy for a long time, guarantee it)

husband finds out

waaahhh my husband left because I betrayed the sanctity of our marriage and risked him getting stds waaahh no money because I didn't have a job ever in my life waaahh

Jesus fuck I bet the comments were like "NTA hire a hit man using sex as currency and kill him" or some outrageous shit.

A_Walt_Whitman · 2021-06-03T18:34:40+00:00

Woman fucks up and doesn't want to be held accountable for her actions. Standard.

afrikansavage · 2021-06-03T16:30:20+00:00

Props to this guy for getting a paternity test. Were it not for it, she would’ve probably taken that secret to the grave.

ShakenMemeMagic · 2021-06-04T05:02:16+00:00

"I can't believe he could call a women these things"

Nah chica, more like "I can't believe I got caught being a hoe and my husband isn't okay with it"

No-Atmosphere-8532 · 2021-06-05T16:58:10+00:00

I think it is interesting how she tries to find a bunch of ways to make herself the victim.

She complains that the paternity test was done without her permission or knowledge (he is just trying to find the truth from someone who is a liar), and whines about him getting angry /calling her names. He was deceived and cucked, everyone is going to find out of course he is going to be mad...furious even.

SeptetRa · 2021-06-03T16:57:12+00:00

The idiot still rejected accountability at the end. No surprise there.

expansion420 · 2021-06-03T17:47:48+00:00

What a disgusting person🤮

slab3 · 2021-06-03T10:46:24+00:00

Thats so messed up man

whiskeytango13 · 2021-06-03T17:37:47+00:00

She keeps saying she fucked up.... yup, now here’s the consequences.

EEEGuba69 · 2021-06-04T17:45:52+00:00

Good job on pulling his money out of the accounts before she could do anything

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Praemiaa · 2021-06-08T21:08:20+00:00

can i have a link from the original post please?

Putrid-Department-90 · 2021-06-04T05:22:58+00:00

She deserved every bit of this punishment since men can go to jail for a false accusation.

throwaway6991080 · 2021-06-03T23:06:44+00:00

https://www.removeddit.com/r/relationships/comments/nr40q4/how_can_i_34f_earn_the_trust_of_my_family_and/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Archived link as she's deleted the post.

Dark_Lord_Mr_B · 2021-06-04T04:53:17+00:00

This shit is why I believe every country should have a DNA database for this crap. Cant hide now can ya?

rskindred · 2021-06-03T21:07:02+00:00

Another case where she only feels guilty because she got caught and now no one wants anything to do with her. Oh woe is me.

sumitsaxon · 2021-06-03T16:32:30+00:00

Link?

funny_like_how · 2021-06-03T16:34:08+00:00

Why if it isn't the consequences to my own actions?

CharmanterPanter · 2021-06-03T17:22:26+00:00

Fucking hell

CableEmergency1455 · 2021-06-03T18:05:33+00:00

I’m really surprised things turned out badly for her. Did it really happen like that? That’s how people used to react in the UK back in the 70s…but since then it’s typically the husband being made homeless or living in a bed sit while the wife takes the house and about 40% of his net income.

Ramp_Up_Then_Dump · 2021-06-04T03:58:58+00:00

Poor baby. Her mom hates him/her for ruining her life (she ruined her life), the father doesn't want the 5th baby. A rough childhood and a rough life awaits the child :/

What a cunt

_Okio_ · 2021-06-03T20:17:27+00:00

The title alone is a clear give away that she has yet to accept responsibility for her actions. She and she alone shatter his and their trust.
And then we have the 'moment of weakness' as if her every breathing moment is a struggle not be a cheating C***. Most people have to put in an effort of some description to actively cheat. But for she the effort is in not cheating.
Then we have the "I'm broke (zero cash) but don't want child support" lie.

[deleted] · 2021-06-03T10:04:12+00:00

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Title	A gentle reminder to avoid marriage and paternity test your kids... He could still be on the hook in some states.
Author	throwaway6991080
Upvotes	1
Comments	138
Date	June 3, 2021 7:14 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW2/comments/nr7d1g/a_gentle_reminder_to_avoid_marriage_and_paternity/
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