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Guy's GF wants to go on holiday vacations with another guy; BF blows up Quora

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January 2, 2017
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This is currently trending on Quora: 'My girlfriend is going out with a male friend of hers for 2 days on a small vacation. It is just the two of them. Should I be worried? She tells me nothing will happen. But they are going to the same place where we made out and had a great time. There will also be drinking over there. I told her how I feel but she tells me not to worry and that he's just a dear friend and nothing of that sort will happen.'

link: https://www.quora.com/My-girlfriend-is-going-out-with-a-male-friend-of-hers-for-2-days-on-a-small-vacation-It-is-just-the-two-of-them-Should-I-be-worried

What do you all think?


Post Information
Title Guy's GF wants to go on holiday vacations with another guy; BF blows up Quora
Author danmtz96
Upvotes 64
Comments 66
Date 02 January 2017 11:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/80137
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5lobb5/guys_gf_wants_to_go_on_holiday_vacations_with/
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[–]roseillus136 points137 points  (12 children) | Copy

They're going to fuck, unless the guy's beta. I wouldn't be surprised if they went drinking and she fucked a few more guys. AWALT.

Guy in the comments has it spot on:

Here’s me in your place: I can't stop her from going, I don't own her. But, no, I'm not the least bit worried about her cheating on me. Because she can't cheat on me if she’s not my girlfriend anymore. And she’s not going to be if she does anything other than immediately cancel this trip and never suggest anything like it again. In fact, I'm really leaning towards “we are finished right now” no matter what she does.

If you really love and respect someone, you don't do something like go on a vacation with another person you could cheat with. And you sure as hell don't insist on doing it when your partner has said they are uncomfortable with it. The easiest way to stay faithful to someone is to just avoid situations where you are going to have temptation and opportunity. She’s doing the exact opposite. This ain’t rocket science, people.

This shows a serious lack of respect for your feelings. For YOU. I would really think hard about whether you want to continue in this relationship at all.

[–]stephcurrythrowaway34 points35 points  (7 children) | Copy

Flip genders and see all women go.... Crazy

[–]PantsonFire123412 points13 points  (6 children) | Copy

Which is hilarious since it should only increase their attraction if their man is able to pull other women. They lose almost zero commitment when their boyfriends plates some sidechick. Flip it around and your girlfriend cheating just verifies you've got yourself a loose slut. She takes the sex she could be giving to you and gives it to some other dude.

That's like me having a girlfriend and then taking on a second girlfriend and giving her all the attention for a week while ignoring my actual girlfriend.

That's literally what women are doing right now.

[–]stephcurrythrowaway10 points11 points  (5 children) | Copy

I give up on society. Just gonna make money. Do my religious stuff and help the less fortunate.

[–]PantsonFire12348 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

Just adapt, give women the rake because they reap what they sow. Enjoy yourself twice as much because you still get sex and fun times with maytes. They get fuck all because no one wants to stick around.

The number one killer instinct trait isn't size, aggressiveness or intelligence. It's adaptability, those who can adapt to any given situation will pass on their genes and survive.

Humans can adapt to any scenario even this one.

[–]stephcurrythrowaway3 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Yep. I truly believe women who are hypergamous will die unhappy and unfulfilled.

[–]zboo1h2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Realizing this has drastically improved my outlook when it comes to women, actually. In my thoroughly bluepilled beta days I would be depressed about not getting as much sex as I wanted, not getting as much female attention, and that made me unhappy. Truth was I was unhappy with myself for other reasons, and after working on myself I was no longer unhappy. An ancillary benefit was that pussy was suddenly making itself available.

These women will never improve, only decline. They will absolutely die unhappy and unfulfilled, even if some beta schlub picks up their disgusting pieces.

Rejoice in the schadenfreude.

[–]stephcurrythrowaway1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. I'd like to think 80 percent of western women think in hypergamous sense which is why pretty much AWALT exists. The thing is studies are taken and shown that men get happier as they get older and women don't. Women are going their own way with careers but don't feel much satisfaction. More men do. I feel like there's an innate drive to work on ourselves and be builders and creators. I don't know maybe it's just jumbled speculation I'm thinking of.

[–]PantsonFire1234-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Those who play the game stupid a.k.a. Beta women, they will.

[–]StbRPG7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Red Pill truth.

[–]beginner_9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

In fact, I'm really leaning towards “we are finished right now” no matter what she does.

Exactly. Even the idea of such a trip and scheduling it is enough to warrant a break-up. Even if she then cancels it when you object. Women aren't stupid. If she is in to you she wouldn't even think about such a trip.

[–]Toussant0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I gave the guy the benefit of the doubt and assumed the trip was planned before they got together. I've seen ppl do that for specific activities (doing a race together, ie). But if planned after they got together, shouldn't even be a question. Pretty clear way to end it.

[–]desno7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

I read the article and copy & pasted that and sent it before reading this comment. It really is a great example of how you talk RP in real life situations

[–]Viking_RnP47 points48 points  (2 children) | Copy

His turn is over.

[–]whataboutudummy13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's like a "his watch has ended" type of thing.

[–]Tamarin240 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I don't think he ever had a turn...

[–]the-bum-hammer22 points23 points  (7 children) | Copy

There are a lot of pussies in that thread.

[–]traveldeedee13 points14 points  (2 children) | Copy

Of course, it's Quora. I couldn't stand reading those answers. I would've jumped in the screen and choke their avatar.

[–]Ganaria_Gente1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

quora's admins are full on hyper SJW/feminist bigots.

dont ask me how i found out

[–]BusterVadge3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

How did you find out?

[–]JonasBrosSuck2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

good to see most of the top comments now are actually reasonable instead of "you should trust bro it's 2016"

[–]BusterVadge1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Quora is full of girlymen.

[–]stemgrad3141 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Top commenter said it right. He had a clear train of thought that he presented, and I didn't bother reading the rest because he was 100% right.

[–]the-bum-hammer0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes. He nailed it.

[–]nastynickdr12 points13 points  (3 children) | Copy

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[–]srqrox0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Kill me already, who are these blind people!?!?

[–]Icanus0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Best one:
My wife and mother of my three children gets mad when I ask her not to text with her boyfriends while we're on a romantic gettaway. What should I do?

Not on Quora, heard this IRL. That guy is still trying to get his wife back after she's fucked three dozen other dudes. Keeps driving his car, he even pays for her cellphone bill. So beta it hurts...

[–]srqrox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the actual fuhhck?

You hear stuff lile this and you are like why are these stupid people going through this, they are asking for help which means they do know that it is somehow wrong but what is keeping them in the relation?

Beta-ness?

But that's easy, I want to believe there is more to it! There should be more to this cuckoldry, otherwise it is just self inflicted torture!

[–]PantsonFire123430 points31 points  (4 children) | Copy

It just baffles me that women even try this shit. Is this how far we've come that women openly try and pull of their hypergamy? What does it say about women that they have boyfriends whom are so clueless and autistic they feel comfortable acting like this?

What I think is that nothing can save this civilization of ours besides a civil war and allot of blood. This entire generation is ruined beyond repair. The worst part is that this scenario even sparks a discussion. Guy and girl are going on a vacation together. What do you think is gonna happen?

[–]a_real_opinion6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy

Damn dude you're on fire in this thread. Upvoted all your comments without realizing it was the same user at first.

[–]PantsonFire12342 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Thank you senpai

[–]87GNX0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

If you're not reading anonymous conservative's r/K blog, you need to be.

[–]PantsonFire12340 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Damn, that's one of the best pieces I've read in a while. Thanks. With every new bit of evidence the true divide between those Beta and those Alpha really begins to show.

Just like the article states a K selective society will produce superior and faster evolving organisms compared to the R selective one in exchange for the harsher environment they find themselves in.

This falls in line with the evolving notion that both men and women in the west are both showing Beta traits, not just men. It's not simply AF/BB, it's a divergence from the norm humans had to operate from for thousands of years.

Either the K selective society keeps destroying the R selective one or the R selective one has to begin showing genetic anomalies where people don't degenerate despite being prosperous. I think the one trait that is required in this evolutionary step is high intelligence. You can see this in the psychopath mutation in city populations. Even though the psychopath is raised in a lax environment he will show competitive traits.

[–]lanky3211 points12 points  (1 child) | Copy

I actually commented on this post on Quora.

The girl and her friend are going to fuck, that's why they are going alone to a romantic spot.

That is what is going to happen, its crystal clear.

There is no 'maybe, she won't cheat afterall'. Yes she will. She has decided that she will fuck the other guy.

That is pretty much there is to it.

There is some good advice on the thread, while some others are so absolutely stupid.

Some females and manginas blame the BF that he does not trust his gf enough and therefore he is at fault.

LOL, what?

[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

I think homeboy should start fucking new chick(s) in their pad the day his uninformed ex leaves, and notify her when she returns that he's already got a new GF & is seeing [x] other chicks, and thus she can get the fuck out of his life.

[–]srqrox2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If he actually could get girls to fuck whenever he wanted, he wouldn't be posting this shit on Quora.

[–]jb_trp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I like this option. Take the time while they're gone to pack up their stuff, fire up Tinder, and start banging at least 10 women.

Don't even respond when she's on vacation to any text or calls. Let that fuck with her head a little bit and interfere with her stupid vacation. Then when she get home, drop the bomb, give her her stuff, and never speak to her again.

[–]Herdsengineers7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yeah, the dude needs to kick this girl to the curb. Just seriously suggesting it, and actually making real travel plans to do it, that's enough to go radio silent on her, let her go, and then when she comes back, let her wonder why he won't respond to her.

[–]lanky320 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. that's what exactly I would do.

[–]-voteforPepe-4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy fuck.

[–]supernormalnorm4 points5 points  (7 children) | Copy

There's too many disgusting things I've seen in the past couple days: 1. The ending of Netflix's The OA 2. Mariah Carey trying to stay relevant with a NYE "sing slip." 3. This.

[–]PantsonFire123417 points18 points  (5 children) | Copy

Two weeks ago I was attending a party where a friend of mine had invited a girl whom I had fucked last year. She had managed to get a boyfriend in the meanwhile. We all joked about how she would be down to bang again.

In the end she ended up grinding on my lap, begging to go home with me, drunkingly offering FwB if I wasn't interpreted in a relationship. When this didn't work she tried making me jealous in a vain last minute hail mary attempt. Dancing with a mayte of mine, walking past a couple of the guys grinding her ass against them all. Came back to me in the rotation, gave me an ultimatum. I declined. She then puked up the entire office after she drank the whole bosses cabinet. Ended up going home with some fat guy that worked there because she just had to cheat even if it wasn't with me.

During Christmas she updated her WhatsApp profile picture of that of her boyfriend and parents sitting like one big happy family next to a danky Christmas tree. I was both in tears of laughter and incredibly disgusted at the degeneracy. Women can be disgusting.

[–]supernormalnorm4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Damn. That sheet nasty brah

[–]srqrox1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I had this plate, we lasted for like two years or shit, she was cute af but way too dumb.

She got married.

To. A. Very. Close. Friend. Of. Mine.

Initially, I was surprised how my friend could marry a girl he knew I used to fuck up and down but concluded that maybe it was his thing or whatever.

I moved to another city due to studies and job, came back after two years and we are all in this party where plate and her husband, the buddy, are also invited.

Tipsy, she joked about sucking my dick that night in front of a number of people including her husband; in a secluded corner, actually did the deed. Also swallowed.

Her husband came, merely a minute or two later, saw her on her knees with me adjusting my cock, said what the hell was she doing and they both left immediately.

It's been 3 years, they are still happily married.

Women are bad, men are worse with not an ounce of dignity left.

[–]PantsonFire12340 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

There are no words, I know AF/BB and all but it just boggles my mind why a woman would do that. If she's doing shit like this is means she isn't attracted to her husband. If she's not even attracted to him, then why is she with the guy.

Imagine being LTR'd to a fat girl you constantly cheat on and never fuck. That's what this is. It's pure hell and these women are purposefully doing it. I can only conclude that there are some mentally ill people walking around in this world.

[–]srqrox0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There is no other explanation lol.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

What the fuck? I'm not surprised about women who cheat. I'm more surprised a dude can be so cucked he is still in a relationship with this chick. I mean the guy has to know she did this.

[–]cuteman-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

What's wrong with OA? Thinking about watching it. Don't care about spoilers, people that whine about them are children.

[–]pbgswd2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

its all a bunch of lying bullshit. She doesnt respect OP. She can fuck off.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If a woman wants trust then she should act in a trustworthy manner.

This whole modern thing of totally trusting folks by default is dumb ass hell. Plus no one really does that.

[–]deville051 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Quora answers were surprisingly rational

[–]Tom_The_Human1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

lol

[–]Lice1381 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is currently trending on Quora: 'My girlfriend is going out with a male friend of hers for 2 days on a small vacation. It is just the two of them. Should I be worried? She tells me nothing will happen. But they are going to the same place where we made out and had a great time. There will also be drinking over there. I told her how I feel but she tells me not to worry and that he's just a dear friend and nothing of that sort will happen.' to fuck some guy that is not me

fix'd it

[–]Sensei_Hensei0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Some of those comments are mind blowing. One woman says she's torn on this one.....the op has stomped her with his post....it's literally 50/50 in her eyes if he is at fault for this or not.

[–]RichieFinn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

what the fuck do people even need to ask the internet this shit for......cmon, surely they know the fucking answer.

[–]TRP VanguardArchwinger0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

If a guy and a girl are single and they go somewhere alone together, hang out, get to know each other better, see what happens, deepen their relationship, etc., isn't that called dating?

The fact that this girl has a boyfriend doesn't make a romantic get-away with another man any less of a date.

This guy's girl is going on a date with another man, and she apparently expects him to sit at home waiting for her, hoping it doesn't work out.

[–]ecosci0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I was told this once about 25yrs ago it never ends well were just friends hanging out to your not my dad i can see whoever i want i was dumb and lost without options this guy will also learn someday.

[–]_clay_davis-1 points0 points  (8 children) | Copy

I went on a business trip and brought my recently married friend with me. We shared a room. Nothing happened.

[–]lanky321 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

OP's gf is probably not going on a business trip.

[–]_clay_davis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well it was business/pleasure. She mentioned she'd never been to Austin before. My overall point is that not everyone is an animal.

[–]elzafir0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She ugly?

[–]_clay_davis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She'd been my best friends gf for the first 4 years I'd known her, then a roommate, now a close friend and great professional connection. At this point she's more like a sister.

[–]srqrox0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

To be honest bruh, what's the point then?

Edit: to share the room I mean. ;)

[–]_clay_davis0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

This was on my company's dollar so I couldn't justify two rooms. But I could for 1 with double beds.

[–]srqrox0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Power to you mate for such restraint and control.

[–]_clay_davis0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Didn't really take any? But thanks.



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