Background:

I have a close female friend (HB6). Long before TRP, she wanted to hook me up with her best friend (HB8). I turned it down because I knew I had no shot.

So, after being around you brilliant fuckers for a couple of weeks, I'm confident enough to revisit the issue and try my luck.

Note that since TRP, I talk a lot about my dating life. You know, since I finally have one in the... eight years we've been friends. We share everything about our lives anyway.

And she's RP enough to give some useful insight, especially since she knows me very well. She corroborates a lot of the stuff (but not everything) I read here.

Body:

This is the gist of the conversation:

Me: Got any single friends?

Her: Nope. They're all happily taken. But to be clear I wouldn't link you up with one of my friends... even if they were single...

M: Interesting. What changed?

H: You're a douche. You wouldn't take their emotions and feelings into consideration with every action you take = douche.

H: You do what is best for you coz you have a purpose you want to achieve...

M: Interesting. You offered [best friend]. I turned it down because I knew I had no shot. Now that I know I can make it work, your friends are off limits.

M: I find that fascinating. Thanks for telling me.

H: I liked you more when you were humble... maybe it's just you being a guy.... but I don't like this side of you...

H: I trusted you would be great with [best friend] coz you great with me as a friend.... but yeah... it's different... so nope

So, Blue Pill Me could have had any of her friends on a silver platter. Red Pill Me ain't getting shit. Yet she's expressed no problems in giving me RP advice to use on the girls I mention to her.

If it matters, I'm 100% certain she's not into me.

Questions:

  • What's happening here?

  • Is being called a douche to be expected with TRP? Or am I possibly becoming an actual asshole?

  • Why is Blue Pill Me worthy of an all-access pass, but Red Pill Me banned from the playground?

  • And why does she "not like this side of me" when she's basically helping me RP other girls?