Boy shaming allowed but slut shaming isnt

mgtowolf · 2020-07-23T22:11:53+00:00

Payback is a bitch. Nice to see parents sticking up for the boys for once. Of course that sub ganna go full retard and call them the asshole, how dare they defend someone with a penis?!?!?!

SharedRegime · 2020-07-23T23:06:21+00:00

This shows a bigger issue. This person is concerned they did the wrong thing by giving positive reinforcement for a family member sticking up for another family member strictly because they were a boy.

2020-07-24T01:37:00+00:00

What a guy. Sticking out for his brother. I hope they both achieve great things.

miamimodder · 2020-07-23T22:47:34+00:00

The fact that the comment got over 1500 upvotes is disgusting

Cheezyreddituser · 2020-07-24T03:48:13+00:00

The boy knew he was slut shaming her but he did it to get back it her for leaking a private message and bullying his little brother over it. He knows it was wrong but what she did is arguably worse.

sric2838 · 2020-07-24T00:29:08+00:00

And Chelsea's mother should be explaining to her why she shouldn't be emotion-shaming men.

Here's the deal. Woman bitch all the time that men are allowed to be sluts, so women shouldn't be shamed. Well, women are allowed to be emotional, so men shouldn't be shamed.

Dim6969696969420 · 2020-07-24T04:36:33+00:00

AITA can be an sjw sub at times, I actually desubbed from it the other day because a lot of stuff there rubs me the wrong way and the mods don't help things there either. I catch myself going back there from time to time and then realizing that it's a bottom feeder sub.

Bobbybill123 · 2020-07-24T04:04:55+00:00

Yo momma jokes have been a staple of teenage insults for years, how are these people actually getting offended by that??

cacatod12 · 2020-07-24T04:00:47+00:00

How come the mayority of people are happy to see a video where the bullied kid stands up to beat up the bully and yet most people there responded with YTA to a kid who stood up to his brother’s bully? The hipocrisy is real.

alway122 · 2020-07-23T21:57:35+00:00

Kind of a gamer moment

omarrr17 · 2020-07-24T11:34:19+00:00

slut shaming is a phrase invented to excuse being a slut. there i said it.

2020-07-24T10:08:10+00:00

I'll slut shame a slut. Just how i'll condemn a pedo, yes I know they are not the same thing, but I am entitled to my own opinion and how I express them. I'll teach my sons and daughters the same thing. Shame the act, not the person.

Point, blank, period.

Why_the_hate_ · 2020-07-24T13:19:00+00:00

A lot of people are arguing about how you’re bringing an innocent party into it. The point was that he posted that knowing it would hurt her daughter and it was the most obvious way. Unless the kid does that all the time it isn’t REALLT slut shaming, just revenge. Plus, she’s an adult. She was probably not hurt by a kids statements on a photo she publicly posted or should at least understand why a hormonal kid who loves their brother did what they did. If I was attacked because of a bad mistake I did, I would certainly understand why they did that if I found out my kid did something bad. I probably wouldn’t punish my kid either other than explaining why I’m letting it slide in this instance.

It bothers me that people are saying YTA instead of ESH at the very least.

justquitkid · 2020-07-24T02:03:27+00:00

It's disgraceful that so many people agreed with that person.

proexsniping · 2020-07-24T10:16:10+00:00

People in aita are stupid. I don't even know why people need advice from there.

XenoX101 · 2020-07-24T11:42:33+00:00

Yeah "slut shaming" is definitely the problem, when we're seeing record numbers of STDs such as Chlamydia that affect Women at double the rate of men (overall rate for both genders has doubled since 2000). I'm glad we as a society are targeting the real issues in 2020.

Hetrohuman1989 · 2020-07-24T07:25:36+00:00

My cousin sisters would casually point out my short height. I felt like killing myself. If you call them fat then your some Bollywood villain/borderline eve teaser.

Mehfooz07 · 2020-07-24T11:02:13+00:00

Wahmen good men bad!

mcavvacm · 2020-07-24T11:07:38+00:00

I've unsubscribed from there just recently. I could no longer stand the holier than thou ultra armchair analysts.

I agreed with plenty of verdicts, sure, but it's mostly just people telling other people to destroy their relationships, no matter what happened. Also, the gender bias came through more often than not in the comments.

Ans then there's the plethora of fake posts. Actually, that made me unsubscribe when a very popular thread confessed hours later it was all fake in a way to show she hated how aita had become.

It was funny to see some far-fetched theories be complete nonsense.

LStat07 · 2020-07-24T11:14:38+00:00

This is even fucking worse

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hw7gio/aita_for_praising_my_son_for_sticking_up_for_his/fyy33g7/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Razvedka · 2020-07-24T12:23:28+00:00

View sex in terms of supply and demand, producers and consumers. It's an economy.

The producers will always circle the wagons, when it suits them vis a vis outsiders (non-women). They'll then resort to bitter competition and trying to degrade the status/reputation of their fellow producers afterwards like the solidarity never happened.

cyclone_43 · 2020-07-24T05:47:07+00:00

Aita is a cess pool

IceHot88 · 2020-07-24T02:38:37+00:00

If Chelsea is the one who hurt your brother, how is targeting her mother defending anyone?

2020-07-24T07:02:14+00:00

Didn't that post get taken down for violence of something like that?

therenousername · 2020-07-24T13:22:00+00:00

Can you link the comment of the feminist or the simp

2020-07-24T15:05:23+00:00

Yeah, that sub has a crazy gender bias.

Mdriftda · 2020-07-24T15:28:39+00:00

I mean he took the picture off her fb page so she was clearly ok with it when she posted it. So why does it matter when it was reposted?

2020-07-24T23:16:08+00:00

I'd say they're both in the wrong, at least a little bit. What the girl did was obviously horrible, but calling out her mother was in my opinion not the best way to go. I wouldn't call the boy's mother the asshole any more than I would the girl or even the older brother.

2020-07-24T06:32:20+00:00

Both actions are just shitty.

dorballom09 · 2020-07-24T05:04:21+00:00

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AgentSears · 2020-07-24T08:21:48+00:00

For me this is even about mens or women's rights, that's just a wanky thing she did and sometimes when you see you family hurt like that you are gonna lash out and when family are involved you tend to be slightly more lethal in doing so. In this scenario I just wouldnt give 2 fucks about what people thought of me or what it caused.......fairplay to him exactly like I'd be saying fair play to a girl who did the same for her sister in reverse and calling someone out on their shitty behaviour, sometimes it takes something like this for them to realise I'm not in a position to criticise others. It's Newton's law

ThreeLF · 2020-07-24T10:15:57+00:00

This post (the askreddit thread) is such bait.

OP is posting from a fresh account and the comments read like a young to middle age man going on a gender crusade, not a mother defending her child.

It's good to highlight the clear bias, but this isn't the way to do it. This paints men's issues in a really bad light and perpetuates the us vs them mentality that is already so deeply ingrained in our society.

edit: I mean look at this fucking comment thread: https://np.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hw7gio/aita_for_praising_my_son_for_sticking_up_for_his/fyxwixi/?context=3

Sauce_Dat_Shit · 2020-07-24T03:18:58+00:00

That girl is definitely the asshole, but his son would be too. The daughter absolutely needs to be punished, but the son targeted someone completely outside. That’s not okay, and there should be a respectable conversation about why his son is so out of line.

someNOOB · 2020-07-24T05:10:13+00:00

The sad thing is that sub is overwhelmingly petty. Constantly praising acts that are well outside the scope of "reasonable response" to aggressors of various sorts.

Title	Boy shaming allowed but slut shaming isnt
Author	dorballom09
Upvotes	1211
Comments	65
Date	July 23, 2020 8:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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