The speaker is offering advice to a friend (an 'alpha woman', if ever such a woman exists) about her marriage, (which is currently suffering).

"You do not know how to be married. not to a real man, to someone who's your equal, your champion. Who loves you, respects you (and is mad as hell at you)."

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"I plan to grow old with my man, and have old-people sex. Don't you want to have old people sex? That's what you get if you set YOUR ego aside, instead of dismissing me, like you keep dismissing your own damn husband."

Made me think of you guys :)