"I wish women still had to wear dresses to work"

hcinimwh · 2019-01-10T15:43:25+00:00

Fleece. Lined. Tights. = how to wear dresses/skirts in the winter. And a long coat over top

honey-laden · 2019-01-10T15:27:46+00:00

what i really love about your post is your moderation. you really listened to his desires, and managed to submit without being a doormat. it is inspiring to see how you navigated by both explaining the realities of the weather and also agreeing with his statements.

unsure if this is “unsexy,” but i sometimes manage to wear dresses in winter by doubling up on fleece lined leggings! actually very warm!

loneliness-inc · 2019-01-10T18:24:32+00:00

"Sorry, babe, but the kind of dress I would have to wear would be totally not sexy."

Anyone can be sexy, not everyone can be beautiful. ~ me.

Part of my work is with university students. Many of the girls dress sexy. Cleavage popping out of tight(er) shirts, tight pants through which you can see the exact outline of their ass and even their cameltoe etc. Even the ugly girls can grab a guys attention this way by accentuating their sexuality.

Then there's beautiful. Classy, ladylike, elegant. If you have a grandmother who's like this or was like this, think of how she dressed and carried herself. It was beautiful, it was not sexy.

Sexy sends an unspoken message attracting sex. Elegance and classy beauty send an unspoken message attracting the same.

If you want to attract a sexy beast of an alpha male, dress sexy and act sexy. Any girl can do this but she shouldn't be surprised when she gets pumped and dumped because she presented herself as a sex object, attracting men who are only after sex, who will treat her exactly the way she presented herself - as a sex object. It doesn't matter what you think, what matters is how you present yourself.

If you want to attract a responsible, stable, respectable man, you need to dress like, speak like and act like a classy, responsible and beautiful lady. Not every woman is capable of this. Not every woman even wants this.

One thing is clear - you can't have it both ways. You can't be crass and classy at the same time.

byurazorback · 2019-01-10T16:28:41+00:00

I like dresses but i dont wanna wear it and look overlydressed :/ help

Betafemale007 · 2019-01-10T21:18:59+00:00

I really love the 50s styled dresses they sell on amazon, they’re so pretty and modest but also exaggerate an hourglass figure. I love wearing dresses, it just feels natural.

HappyHowly · 2019-01-10T20:10:36+00:00

When I used to work, I was a receptionist and wore dresses every day. I'm not sure what sort of work you do, but for me knee length a-line dresses + tights + a cardigan in a complimentary color was a go to winter look. It's warm, modest but pretty, and comfortable. I never felt overdressed at all, I still dress that way most of the time.

[deleted] · 2019-01-10T20:25:44+00:00

If you search on Pinterest for winter dresses you should find a lot of inspiration! My go-to winter style was jeans and sweaters but I just didn't feel feminine enough in them, so I'm in the process of switching over to winter dresses as well. I've found most full sleeve dresses + tights work fine as long as you wear a warm coat on top.

theawaregirl · 2019-01-10T21:29:35+00:00

You sound like a lucky lady!

Title	"I wish women still had to wear dresses to work"
Author	ChuckUFarlie14
Upvotes	70
Comments	19
Date	January 10, 2019 3:06 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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