I want to find out about my LTRs past

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-07T21:12:04+00:00

It's common as fuck. Shitty sign altogether.

Guys feel like this a LOT when sex and scarcity is playing a major role in keeping them committed to their girls. Shitty sign because you're paying sex with commitment and it's a bit of a lose lose situation.
If you learn that she gave better sex around for less commitment, you're overpaying. This feeling usually nukes LTRs.
If you don't, the absence of proof will never be proof of absence, you'll always be bugged about it, and you're still overpaying for sex if you're buying it with commitment. You'll be frustrated and your brain has a knack for hacking itself into believing shit to get you to break up.
It's usually better to just hit quits, but if it isn't some OCD like thought for you, maybe you have a shot at fixing.

Don't EVER ask her about her past and increase the kink of sex. See where she comes from, what you know about her, and work from there. Liberal arts student? No? Fatty/image issues? Insecure?

The idea here is to always make sure you're getting her best game ever on bed BEFORE YOU COMMIT, nothing short of her best game ever.

Speedracer1111 · 2017-03-07T23:35:57+00:00

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roseillus · 2017-03-07T20:58:54+00:00

You're acting like a beta

1Pink1Stink · 2017-03-07T22:17:15+00:00

Dumbass. Go ahead. Find out. Ruin your relationship.

Because if the unknown bothers you this much, the truth will eat you inside out.

shadyindividual · 2017-03-08T02:19:52+00:00

Don't ask questions you don't want to hear the answer to

trainwithlino · 2017-03-08T03:20:11+00:00

Spin more plates. Don't gaf about the quality or quality of dick she's had, it makes no difference to a man. It's your turn, so enjoy the shit out of it to its maximum effect.

wheresMYsteakAt · 2017-03-09T12:39:45+00:00

Shes a whore who has and will fuck everyone. Ok now that is out of the way, does she make you happy? Does she fuck and suck you? Does she do shit for you? Yes to all 3? Keep her. Bang other chicks on the side if you want.

XTCMDMAECSTACY · 2017-03-07T21:26:00+00:00

Your choices:

1.) Ignore and have a happy relationship. (This is best choice, as it is the one where you and her are most happy)

2.) Casually bring it up, and probably bundle your delivery and seem desperate. (This choice leaves you with the possibility of her lying and you not liking the answer regardless, making you both unhappy)

3.) Have perfect delivery and she tells an honest answer. (first you'll never truly know, second the question itself is desperate in nature and she'll know. This leaves you with her knowing something about you that will bother you in the future)

Hopefully that isn't as confusing as it seems in my head but really your goal shouldn't be 'I need to know her n count,' it should be 'I need to learn how to make something trivial not matter to me.'

Next her because your probably already leaving a trail of desperateness that she can realize, if not then whatever. Just avoid the subject try to advance your mental state into being able to be ok with it, because it really isn't something that matters.

WhorehouseVet · 2017-03-08T05:11:07+00:00

It's 50.

Your_Coke_Dealer · 2017-03-10T00:56:42+00:00

If you're considering asking, you haven't fucked enough women

Auphor_Phaksache · 2017-03-07T20:56:31+00:00

It's not normal but it's common for people who are new to TRP.

Il128 · 2017-03-07T21:06:35+00:00

Mate guarding is a very bad idea. You're worried about her past? How are going to handle not having your head up her ass 24/7 in the near future?

Title	I want to find out about my LTRs past
Author	roseillus
Upvotes	7
Comments	36
Date	March 7, 2017 8:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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