When they ask: "can you hold my purse for me?". My normal behaviour is just to be nice and do her bidding; since I don't really give a fuck of doing such a small favor that costs me nothing. The problem is, the girls do care about it.

Such tests are so subtle that I do not even realise until much later. If I comply there has always been a subtle change in their behaviour I realised. Yes. They are tests!

Even if I memorise the type I had failed, so to not repeat the same mistake; another variation of it is thrown at me and I fail again. I do not want to memorise everything, I want to change my mentality to be undefeated!

"You can't order me anything woman!" <---- is this supposed to be my mentality?