She leads me the whole day she's coming over to have a nice before bed sex... and then when it's time, she is too tired to come over.

Second time she did this. Soft nexting that bitch.

My question is: after 3 years of trp and lifting, major life changes, frame solid as a rock after 100 plates/ons, this shit still pisses me off. It shouldn't. I don't want it to. What am I doing wrong?
Abundance? Sure, I could have another plate set up for back up. But she clearly manipulated me to have plans for last night, so I didn't make any other. What do you do? Always have 5 backups and ditch 4 on the last minute?