I give up. What do i do with no prom date,No clique? No nothing.

intradasting350 · 2017-03-29T21:01:31+00:00

Prom is overrated

nicetimeisback · 2017-03-29T21:01:46+00:00

my advice: save some money, then travel. alone.

you will meet people, be easygoing and chill, make new friends, fuck new girls, forget about your school and your city.

salezman12 · 2017-03-29T18:19:41+00:00

Is your attitude typically this negative? It's very off putting. I bet you'd have a lot better "luck" if you had a more positive outlook on life.

TheRedStoic · 2017-03-29T18:03:25+00:00

In the words of Charles Bukowski, "find what you love and let it kill you"

So keep trying new things every day, set smaller size goals, and incrementally increase them. Once you find a mission that speaks to you really double down and focus on it. It sounds like you need to find a mission first.

MattyAnon · 2017-03-29T18:03:43+00:00

I really don't want to go.

Then don't go.

Ok, here's what you do... and I do speak from fucking experience so don't bounce this back:

I think you are feeling social rejection. You are trying really hard socially and nothing is working. You're getting a lot of kickback from people, and it's probably making you needy and making people not appreciate your efforts. In other words: you are coming across (for whatever reason) as low SMV and this is causing a feedback loop of social rejection, exhaustion, and depression most likely.

What do i do now?

Here's what you do now.

You develop yourself, your own hobbies, your own purpose in life. This MUST be outside school/college.

Getting yourself in shape is good (what does "my last 45 lbs" mean? If you have 45 lbs of fat to lose you're very fat still).

Or join a public speaking class. Or join a cycling group. Or join a fucking chess club for all that it matters. Point is to do something for you, that you want to do, that doesn't require the approval or permission of others, especially people around you at school/college.

This is NOT monk mode. But don't even try and date in school. Ignore the people around you at school. If they don't accept you, you just blank them and concentrate on either people who will talk nicely to you or ignoring everyone and getting on with YOUR life.

Social shit is important, I'm not saying it's not. But school is rough, so just get through it. Fuck the lot of them. Live YOUR life. Do what YOU want to do. You'll figure the social stuff out as you go.

This stuff is much easier the second you are not in a school environment which as far as I can tell is basically like a prison in its social structure. Without the prison sex. Probably.

Seriously though - get on with your own life. Find a way to do it. And don't go to prom if you don't want to.

sigurd_the_elder · 2017-03-29T22:49:48+00:00

lifting 5 days a week and cardio is why you get no gains.

3 days a week and no cardio.

Ramo029 · 2017-03-29T17:51:36+00:00

you're a retard

abdada · 2017-03-29T17:46:02+00:00

Join a band or two.

weakandsensitive · 2017-03-30T11:57:22+00:00

L O L.

You're a bigger goddamn victim than most feminists I read about on the internet. I wouldn't want anything to do with you either. Are you really going to look in the mirror and say "yeah - that looks like a fun guy I'd like to spend time and hang out with"?

Title	I give up. What do i do with no prom date,No clique? No nothing.
Author	UniversalFapture
Upvotes	1
Comments	28
Date	March 29, 2017 5:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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