How do you avoid catching feelings for a plate you see often?

failingtheturingtest · 2017-05-15T03:05:30+00:00

How often?

Because really, the answer is, don't see her often. That's a really big step. Even if you really enjoy her company, being too available changes the dynamic and puts you in the 'more likely to be emotional' state, and her in the "he's always available, so I'm the most important thing in his life" state.

If she's a plate, once a week.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-05-15T03:58:45+00:00

Dont sleep with her overnight.

Space out how often you see each other. Give yourself time to breathe and tend to other aspects of your life. Otherwise youll get oneitis and youll tank that whole relationship. Being a master of your life and your emotions also means setting up boundaries that protect you from these negative things, and having a strong frame enables you to reinforce those boundaries.

See your other plates as often as you see her, to balance things out.

AWALT motherfucker. Shes no snowflake, its just your turn.

legitshitonly · 2017-05-15T04:37:16+00:00

Be in control of your feelings not afraid of them.

I hate the phrase "afraid to catch feelings"

What's the point of fucking?

And also there's a position in between plate and LTR. It's FWB

[deleted] · 2017-05-15T06:20:29+00:00

I'll take " I supposedly have a plate but I'm orbiting this girl" for 1000 Alex.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-15T06:50:45+00:00

See her less often. Oh my god it's like I just solved the greatest math equation of the universe.

Title	How do you avoid catching feelings for a plate you see often?
Author	XZTALVENARNZEGOMSAYT
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Date	May 15, 2017 3:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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