LTR (Banana) went out last night with a female friend of hers (Carrots) to a free event. She told me so this morning and she made it seem like it wasn't a big deal or anything.

My problem is that Carrots is a 'bad girl'. I used to like Carrots. I worked with her dad. Her dad seemed very assertive and hard-working. Her mom gave green flags, stays at home to take care of the kids and cooks dinner every night. Carrots would drink occasionally and smoke weed but it was pretty normal in my area.

This was until a few months ago when I found out from Banana that Carrots got herpes from a guy but she didn't know which guy because she had sex with FOUR different guys in one month. Around the same time, I also found out that Carrots would do party drugs on weekends and sometimes black out.

So basically, this girl is terrible. And Banana went out with her last night to some free event and I basically want to tell Banana that Carrots is a bad influence on her and that I definitely don't like the 2 of them going out to some event.

I trust Banana but AWALT.

Side note is that I do take some responsibility for this, because like i said, I thought that Carrots was a 'good girl' until a few months ago, so I was okay with them hanging out before, so the open boundary was there from the beginning. Maybe because I didn't care in the past about them hanging out, Banana still think that I'm okay with it and don't care.

I'm thinking to either A: Tell Banana that Carrots is a bad influence on her (sounds Beta)

B: Be aloof (don't text her) for a few hours, then just hit her up tomorrow like nothing happened. (But what if she hangs out with Carrots again?)

I appreciate the help guys.