Been on a few tinder/ okc dates the last few weeks after being in a sort of "monk mode" with busy season and school. Since getting back on the dating scene, I seem to struggle with taking charge and having "fun" conversations.

No matter what I try, our convos end up being boring interview type questions where I'm looking nervous as hell and I fail to show sexual interest.

How do you guys interact when out with girls? How soon do you guys get physical into the dates and bring out the more fun/ sexual side?