Last night was the third date with this amazingly cute 27 year old girl I met on Bumble. She seemed like a wholesome girl, considering she goes to church every week and loves working with children. We had tons in common and I really liked spending time with her. After a little bit of drinking she starts opening up about her past. I was thinking "no big deal, it can't be that bad"... First she mentions how she has a restraining order on her ex-boyfriend and how even though she found out he was married to a woman in another state, and was cheating on her with dudes, she thinks she may never find a connection to someone like she had with him. Then she mentions she thought she might be a lesbian, so she's been hooking up with her female friends lately. Then she mentions she's been in FFM and MMF threesomes, including a threesome between the guy she was dating and her most recent ex-boyfriend. Then she mentions there's a sex tape of her on the internet. Then she mentions that she's still sleeping with the guy she has a restraining order on. And at about that time I decide it's time to leave. I told her straight up I'm no longer interested and she called me an asshole. I had 15 missed calls on my phone on the way home.
Why can't I just find a girl with an acceptable past? Someone I wouldn't be embarrassed to bring home to my parents. This kind of shit happens to me all the time and I can't take it anymore.