I've read the 'getting over a break up' post twice already but it doesn't really help.

I was in an LTR for almost 5 years. I decided to bite the bullet and end things 3.5 weeks ago because in a red pilled lens, she wasn't wifey material. We would go out bar hopping and she would end up throwing up and not remember part of the night. She had a party girl friend whom she would go out with a few times.

The break up was tough. She was begging me not to break it off. She was crying a lot, it was rough. I felt extremely guilty that day and I was just crying on my way home and stayed in bed for the rest of the day crying and deleting all her pics from my phone and social media.

Lately I've been doing my absolute best to improve myself and keep myself busy. Been going to the gym 6-7x a week. Meditating as many days as I can. Focusing on my job. I'm in the process of buying a new car (might be able to pick it up today). I follow macros and hit them most days.

It's been very up and down, but mostly down. I've been feeling miserable and honestly I really miss her. We've gone no contact. A few messages from her that I didn't reply to. I've been feeling really stressed lately. My phone broke over the weekend so I've been phone less for like 5 days. The car dealership said I was supposed to be able to pick up the car a week ago. I've also been seeing posts of my ex (from mutual friends). There was one of her at a waterfall with a large group of friends, one of her drinking at a club for a birthday, she went to the same metal show I went to, last night I saw that she went skydiving, and today I saw that she got a new job (I've unfollowed everyone who posts things of her, we had a lot of mutual friends).

I still think of her a lot and I really don't want to. I've been going out and trying to game girls with some luck. I've had no dates, 2 flakes, made out with some drunk HB5 for my birthday at a bar, and danced with a HB7 and got her number last week plus getting a few other numbers.

I've been focusing on increasing my social circle and improving the relationship with my few friends, but it's going very slow and I lost half my friends since they're on her side.

It's just hard for me because I can't feel angry at her. I feel sad and sometimes regretful that I ended things and she's doing more shit than me. I always wanted her to dump me or cheat on me so that I can have that revenge mentality and use my anger to fuel me at the gym and on my game and life. But I dumped her so I can't feel like that.

Sorry for the rant, but are there any personal tips you guys have used to get over an ex? I'm planning on switching gyms so that there's new faces and stuff and also I'm starting Jiu Jitsu. I have a huge metal concert at the end of the month with my best friend, and then we're going skydiving and partying for his birthday in 7 weeks. Then I'm going to a music festival by myself (I'm excited about this challenge) at the end of September. I plan on busting my ass even on weekends until these events come up but that's about all I can think to do. Lift, meditate, jiu jitsu, win friends, influence people, try to get laid, try to get over her.