Been lifting heavy for half a year and finally out of "junior" body building status. Women have been making open sexual jokes/remarks towards me which is different. One woman I work with made a joke about me making home movies as in porn. Other women often ask if I'm a trainer or shit-test and say I shouldn't get too big. Point is, women are being open about my physical appearance and often in a sexual way which seems like a huge green-light but I'm struggling to escalate the convo in my favor. They seem intimidated when I do start engaging them to the point where it doesn't feel like they're interested.

Here's other concrete examples and where I'm struggling. At the club last weekend I literally sat down and a girl sat next to me, physically close, and started talking about bs and I was amused by it so I kept the convo going for only 2 minutes, had my hands around her waist, and then started making out with her pretty heavy. We break and keep chatting until her friend came over and "asked if she was ok" (lol jealous much?). I just patted the small of her back letting her know she can go with her friends if she wanted to and didn't see her again. I later leaned up against one of the beams in the club and some chick just stood next to me in my peripheral until I called her out on it. We madeout, grinding, and then her friends were leaving so did she (it was about closing time).

finally a short-term plate who follows me on social media earlier this year called me up "asking how I was doing" and wanted me to visit her at work. She ghosted me after I found out she had a bf. I told her I wasn't going to visit her (I literally don't have time anyway) but she can tell me what afternoons she's free. She said she'll text me. So it seems like girls are super down but when I try to make something happen they bail? So they just want my superficial attention.

I'm lost. I know my looks have gone up but I can't make heads of tails where my SMV is so I can game girls better. It's all new behavior from them. And they're still just as flakey. I feel like I'm definitely headed in the right direction though.