So some backstory: About a year ago, I wrote a 6 part series I was thinking about including in a blog within the manosphere. I never really got around to it so it's just sat there ever since. But my New Year resolution is to start pushing out this massive backlog of unfinished projects from business, design, and rambling. This is one of them. This is the first part.

The clear conflict between “why men that sleep around are studs and the women that sleep around are sluts” is really a popular issue between the genders these days. Yet, most men deep down understand why there is a difference, whether they are conscious of it or not -- which is why it’s mainly chicks asking this question. Whenever men hear this question, we tend to just look around, wink at each other, and just let the debate go on. After all, it’s a fantastic way for us to figure out who’s the slut, and who’s the LTR material.

Eventually -- it’s the inevitable Godwin that occurs with this conversation -- shut shaming will come up. You’ll notice that it’s directed at men, for some reason, but ironically, it’s really women slut shaming because we encourage sluts for the most part. It makes it easier for us to figure out which vagina worth investing in, and which vagina is trashed up only worth for a good drunk fuck.

What I want to lay out is that it’s important to understand that men view sex completely differently than women -- we have a lovely chemical called testosterone rushing through our body, effecting us both physically and psychologically. We also have entirely different social pressures forcing us to select our mates in a slightly different fashion. What makes a man want to fuck a one night stand like a little slut bent over the couch like a savage, is completely different than what triggers a slut from getting her pussy pounded for the nth time. (It’s important to point out that women do like sex. It could be argued that women even like sex more than men. But that’s irrelevant to the point.) What’s important to note is what mechanisms lay behind the desire for sex. Spoiler: They are completely different.

The desire for a man to find a committed woman to reproduce with is even more important today than ever. In today’s world, if a man is going to make this life long commitment to raise a kid, he damn well wants to be certain it’s his. Despite what some slutty 16 year olds on TV think, a child is a serious commitment: it involves a huge capital investment for the rest of your life, as well as an enormous amount of time. It’s a big fucking deal.

When entering a relationship, men want to make sure that if he ever enters into this investment of having a child with her, and subsequently being a father, he damn-mother-fucking-well want to ensure it’s going to be his. Nobody wants to raise some other kids spawn. And with the rise of shows like “16 and Pregnant” it’s scarier than ever. So what do we do? Well, we look at who she was.

past behavior is an indicator of future behavior

It’s pretty straight forward and simple: if she’s a hoe or was a hoe, it means she has the mentality of a hoe, and once a hoe always a hoe. A hoe doesn’t just wake up one morning and think, “You know what? I’m done being a hoe. I’m just going to magically erase all that baggage that lead me to be a slut, and become a perfect wonderful woman, deserving of the best man in the world.” But back on the real world, it doesn’t work like that. Hoes are broken. Their damaged goods. But god damn, they can be hot and fuck like porn stars. I sure as hell wont marry one, but I’ll put up with her boring stupid stories all day if it means I can fuck her.

## This reminds me of a talk I had a few months back. Ideally, you want a LTR that can suck good dick. But you need to be wary when she sucks REALLY GOOD dick. When a girl sucks good dick, it’s because she wants you to feel pleasure and genuinely cares about how you feel. When a slut sucks dick, it has nothing to do about how you feel. She’s sucking your dick because she can’t stand another second not sucking a cock while having it practically kill her. In her reality you aren’t even there. You know that look. It’s that possessed look when her eyes roll into the back of her head and she’s in some sort of transcendental trance where it’s just her and your cock, and she’s gone two days coming down and is jonesing for a fix. She needs that dick. It’s the best blow job you can ever have. Unfortunately, she’s probably a slut if she’s that hooked on the cock ##

A key that fits into every lock is a master key, a lock that fits every key is a bad lock.

I know, it’s a run down analogy, but it works fucking well. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and when their lock just let’s in anyone in who can jiggle it right, you can be confident that most the treasure that lies behind those gates has been looted long ago. If any woman ever tries to femsplain to you that she’s different now, she’s fixed the lock, and now she has some Fort Knox grade security, just roll your eyes. Who cares if she now has the best security on that pussy. Her goods have still been looted. And even if she has something left that someone forgot to loot, be rest assured, she has some backdoor security vulnerabilities that aren’t likely to get fixed anytime soon. Don’t waste your time trying to patch those holes.

One thing that’s terribly frustrating is the solipsis nature of women. Many find it hard to ever consider the other side. They look at their situation, and instead of trying to look deep inside and figuring out why they aren’t doing so well -- such as not being able to find a good man because she’s a huge whore -- many women will try to change the rules of the game to fit their situation. I think the most glaring example of this is the ridiculous double standards they are trying to place on men when it comes what we find attractive. Women will generally define a quality man as: influential, powerful, a leader, confident, calm, successful, ambitious, motivated, a family man, attractive, in shape, wealthy, and great in bed. Let’s be real here. Many of what I just listed are hard to achieve. That’s the full package here, and it’s going to take a lot of work to fit into all those categories. But, we as men don’t complain. We understand that’s the game; it’s simple economics of supply and demand. If you want a quality woman (high in demand) then you have to make yourself a quality man (low in supply). It’s hard, but we will work on it.

Now, let’s switch this for a moment. Women are allowed to have their standards for men, which is perfectly fine, so let’s have our standards. Men want: Beautiful, in shape, loyal, honest, educated, affectionate, second in charge, caring, and supportive in his life. Simple enough right? All is fair. This is what us men want. But if you ask a feminist, you’re wrong. You aren’t allowed to have THOSE standards. THEY don’t agree to those standards. You have to have the standards they agree with, even though you have no say in which standards they are allowed to have (Because let’s be honest, if guys could choose the standards for women it would include something wildly different. It would probably start with the type of guys that hang out in libraries that no chicks are paying attention to). For starters, they will try to tell you that having a standard of beauty is wrong. You must include lazy fat chicks as beautiful. If you aren’t getting a hardon for a 300 pound tub of lard, then you are a bad person. If you want a woman that will help you get through life as a team who puts family first, you’re a patriarch that wants to oppress her. If you want a woman that won't fuck some other guy when she’s drunk, well, you just aren’t accepting of her sexual freedom!

I’m just trying to point out that men and women have different preferences in the opposite gender. There is nothing wrong with that. Yet, women still seem to throw a hissy fit when men don’t prefer a woman that sleeps around with any guy that seems suitable to offer them pleasure. I mean, men do it all the time, it seems unfair that women are looked down on when they do it. They live with a sense of entitlement. The saddest part is that they don’t even realize it.