I think it's hilarious when women give advice to men, and I think it's disastrous and depressing for men to actually heed it. While in high school, women had told me to be a nice guy (and it obviously was disastrous), not to worry, and to sedate my concerns of inadequacy.

Concerns of inadequacy, I know now, are a message. These concerns are messages to take action, to improve, to do better, to live guilt-free. People often advocate building up others with language, but I think it's impossible. The only way to improve self-esteem is to take action and produce a result you yourself are proud of.

I began to work out, finally decided to start producing music seriously, and started to clean my life up. I created a quality of life I was proud of, and the feelings of guilt disappeared almost entirely (they never go away, and for good reason, for there is always somewhere you can take your life). I decided to allow feminists to hamster, instead of assisting in spinning their wheels. My feminist friends noticed their wheels lost momentum, as I became a stronger red-piller. They began to question feminism.

Maybe because we were in high school and still developing the faculty of sexuality, I noticed that feminists all had shame surrounding their sexuality (men and women alike). However, I noticed that feminine women and masculine men had no problem with their sexuality. I began to realize that it's ok for women to want to be fucked, and that it was ok for me to want to fuck. I noticed jocks and alpha males at parties, and recognized that they came in to conquer. I heard girls gossiping about their man crush in the hallways, and recognized that they wanted to be fucked, especially feminists. For proof of this concept, I suggest you posit the following to any heterosexual feminist of your choice:

"If Channing Tatum, while sitting, crossed his legs, looked up to you with pouted lips and fuck-me eyes, and said 'I want you to consume me' to you, would you be attracted to him?" The answer, after momentarily soiling their image of him, will obviously be no. They want to be consumed by Channing Tatum, they want to be fucked and have their hair pulled and tossed around and submit to explosive, dynamic sex with him. To the blue-pillers out there: go to /r/ladyboners and think about the objectives of the men in the photos. Their objectives are to conquer, to fuck, and to claim, and women love that. Those men are not looking to be taken care of, to be told they're beautiful, or to be held by the hand. Women and heterosexual feminists fantasize being fucked by them, and feminists ought not take issue with that.