It all started three years ago. Met this bitch, she was a virgin, we hooked up and had sex after some months of "meeting" each other and foreplay. Long story short I hadn't seen her for one year now, and we talked some days ago. She had broken up with a soyboy so I invited her into my house. We talked and she said all kinds of shit, that she really used to love me back then and that she's bothered by how I'm living my life, meaning I've changed because I lift, I dress nice as always, I smoke weed and do whatever the fuck I want, behind the cover of " I'm worried for you " later yesterday evening we started cuddling and finally kissed after a few moments of LMR. We stripped and it went so on but not completely and properly done as she had to go attend her class. So I dropped her by the cabs and on my way. Meanwhile before we started kissing she started talking about the soyboy she broke up with, her feelings and that she still misses him and he left her or something, so I payed no attention and interrupted her saying : I'm not your friend or your best gay friend you go shopping with so we can discuss this, otherwise I can speak about the girls I bang. She immediately froze and was curious about all sorts of things for me. Whatever

Next morning (today) I got a message from her saying all kinds of things like I don't want to fool you but I don't do what we did yesterday, I shouldn't give you home because I'm in love with another man this time we parted ways and I can't just do anything I want, we shouldn't go into a relationship blah blah blah. AWALT.

I just replied saying I know and that I should've told her yesterday, that it's not my part to get into a relationship as I promised my self I'd be very selecting when it comes to this. So it's fine if it stays so because I understand. Agree and amplify then dump her.

Once I dumped and stopped watching her stories on Instagram, a direct message popped up from her saying how cool my photo is and how nice my hair looks. I ignored, not even read.

Am I doing right to leave and let go? I don't want to feel like trying too hard for a girl even if I had feelings for her in the past, it's a choice I have to make here.