I usually go around either an air of joyfulness or serious stoicness, carried within my facial expression/gestures/body-language. It seems like when I am in my most focused/concentrated/serious moments is when they come out. Men come around trying to AMOG or being cocky/arrogant/loud/irritating, like they want to break this stoic frame. It's when I have a serious face, when it looks like I am getting things done is when they come out. Has anyone else dealt with this before? It's like people don't want me to be getting work done/concentrating/focusing being serious. So then people see if they can "break" me out of this.