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A friend sent me this article and I want to hear your all thoughts

August 18, 2022
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https://bridgetphetasy.substack.com/p/slut-regret

She basically talks about the negative side effects of hook up culture from a feminist perspective

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Title A friend sent me this article and I want to hear your all thoughts
Author gardenfan167
Upvotes 6
Comments 22
Date August 18, 2022 1:32 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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[โ€“]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 12 points13 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

"The dark side of the sexual revolution is that even though it liberated womenโ€”unyoking sex from consequences has primarily benefited men."

I'm going to go ahead and stop her right there. Yes, it has benefited men. But only like the top 20% or so. I hate how she fails to acknowledge this at any point in her article.

For the vast majority of men, the sexual revolution has been a rude awakening to female nature in regards to sexuality. Monogamy is not the natural state of human relationships, hypergamy is. There were times in our ancient history where only 1 in 17 men got to reproduce, and this wasn't because there was a mass die-off of men. It was simply because they were not selected as mates by the women in thier society.

There is a book called "The Moral Animal" (great read, btw) which theorized that monogamy was really just a sexual redistribution strategy. It was deliberately implemented to placate this underclass of single men. Because hypergamous societies tended to also be hyper-violent, and less productive.

Chris Williamson had some excellent discussions on this topic, if any of you are interested: https://youtu.be/DiTGyZ_it7g

https://youtu.be/sHf-DuiqbC8

[โ€“]SaltyGeekyLifter 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Mate, I was about to start typing exactly this when I saw your comment. Youโ€™ve saved me a few minutes - nice one! ๐Ÿ‘

[โ€“]kokorwqac 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Firstly ancient women didn't have much rights in the choice unless they were wealthy, they were mostly underage girls sold to whoever their parents wanted.

Secondly sexual liberation benefitted men in that they wanted whores again, and they can easily pay for some escort or e-girl now

[โ€“]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Eh?

[โ€“]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Just what i said in reply to the commentor

[โ€“]cryptothrow2 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hoe vs Plough societies

[โ€“]RealNiceLady 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There were times in our ancient history where only 1 in 17 men got to reproduce, and this wasn't because there was a mass die-off of men. It was simply because they were not selected as mates by the women in thier society.

This is the result of polygyny and the women back then did not choose their partners. Their fathers chose their partners and men forced women to be their partners.

[โ€“]Search-United 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

This make a lot of sense

[โ€“]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Firstly ancient women didn't have much rights in the choice unless they were wealthy, they were mostly underage girls sold to whoever their parents wanted.

Secondly sexual liberation benefitted men in that they wanted whores again, and they can easily pay for some escort or e-girl now

[โ€“]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Firstly ancient women didn't have much rights in the choice unless they were wealthy, they were mostly underage girls sold to whoever their parents wanted.

Secondly sexual liberation benefitted men in that they wanted whores again, and they can easily pay for some escort or e-girl now

[โ€“]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

i donno you seem to be describing women of lower classes like untouchables (whose men were similarly indesirable). noble families didn't sell their girls like a pack of toilet paper on ebay

[โ€“]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Again, part of the nobles

[โ€“]SaltyGeekyLifter 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hereโ€™s another elephant in the room.

Due to the way human male and female dating strategies operate, there is an effect that women perceive as โ€œunfairโ€. It is this:

Men who have sex with lots of women are perceived (unconsciously) as more attractive for sex BY WOMEN. Why? Because he must have good genetics, and โ€œI want me a piece of that for my babyโ€ says the Dawkinsian drive in the back of the female mind.

Women who have sex with lots of men are perceived by other men as unattractive for relationships because their Dawkinsian drive is telling them that the woman is a Paternity Fraud risk.

[โ€“]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm a dude and I'm often times not comfortable with casual sex. I like affection, cuddling, kissing, etc. And if you are into that with a woman who just sees you as a jump-off, it's seen as "beta." But I really can't enjoy affectionless sex. It's hard for me to get it up for a stranger.

[โ€“]Glad-Discount-4761 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I feel her especially when she wrote" would take a look around and decide:Iโ€™d rather be a man. Or more accurately,ย Iโ€™d rather not be a woman. There were time(even now),I was thinking of participating in hook-up culture.But I knew I would probably feel dull and empty.

At least,she is now living fine with husband and her daughter

[โ€“][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Some parts of her article so too painful to read that line definitely hurts to read. More women should be exposed to these articles honestly I think it's really important. If I have kids I would want them to read these articles regardless of their gender. I am glad you took something from this article ๐Ÿ˜Š

[โ€“]Wide-Illustrator2906 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

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[โ€“]Wide_Result9679 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It depends on the woman, just like it depends on the man. A guy in our friend group in our 20s did not enjoy casual sex at all; I'm a woman who enjoyed hook-up culture.

I'd say a woman who's expecting hook-ups to call her back and getting bummed out they didn't is lying to herself. And a some women seem to have a hard time enjoying casual sex or speaking up as to what they want. I never had that problem tbh; I've had some amazing sex during hook-ups. And sometimes hook-ups turned into actual dating, other times there wasn't that kind of chemistry.

And now I'm in my 30s and in a relationship. You definitely calm down with age so I don't miss my single phase, but I do look back on it fondly. I had gotten out of a serious relationship so I didn't want anything serious at that time. Doing anything out of peer pressure rather than because YOU want is never a good idea, and that applies to hook-up culture as much as anything else.

[โ€“][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So what's your point? What does it exactly depend on though? Why did you spend your adolescences hooking up and then decided to get a relationship in your 30's. Aren't you using romance as an after thought? Why not keep sleeping around for rest of your life?

[โ€“]Wide_Result9679 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Have you not heard the term "sowing your wild oats"?

I wasn't interested in romance for most of my 20s, mainly because I'd just left a serious LTR and wanted some fun. I had a lot of it.

Eventually the young bar scene gets old. It does for the vast majority of people. And then I met someone amazing who's interesting enough for me to be fine with just being with them. He's the same as me. Slept around a ton while younger. He'd never lived with a woman before he met me, but we both love each other's company, so here we are, happily taken when we didn't want to be before.

[โ€“]HodgekinWhitePill 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I didn't read the whole article but I think I got the gist of it.

If a young women ask me what I thought about sleeping around, I would say...

"Don't go thinking that you can treat other people as casual sex partners without doing the same to yourself."

It's a shame that they don't realize their mistake till years after.

[โ€“][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It really is a shame because there are articles like this in past but no one listens until it's too late

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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