A good post for incels on how to overcome shyness/social anxiety

You can view the original post here, but the post is quite long, so I'll briefly summarize it.

The general gist is that unspoken social rules dictate us incels to know our place, which is why we're so shy and quiet. Our shyness and social anxiety is not self-inflicted, but rather a product of our social awareness and treatment by society. But instead of "staying in our lane" and accepting our treatment as a second-class citizen, we should externalize our hatred/anger and refuse to conform to a society that oppresses and discriminates against us.

So in practice, this means acting confident in our interactions with others, refusing to be bullied or walked over, being confrontational when we need to, and saying what we want- even if this behavior is "out of line" for us. This will help us overcome our shyness and anxiety, though it may make people hate us even more (which is why it's recommended only for those who are truly at the bottom of the social hierarchy and have nothing to lose).

TLDR: Act more confident to spite society.

Of course, I glossed over a lot of details and nuances here, so I would recommend reading the original post I linked if you have the time. It's one of the few long Reddit posts that I've found genuinely insightful and relatable, and I think a lot of incels could really use it.