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Asperger’s, ADHD, Dyspraxia, should I cease to attempt finding a relationship?

November 6, 2022
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Hi,

I’m 24 years old (which feels weird to say, I still feel like my lonely 18 years old self).

Over the years I have attempted to try and form relationships, i.e by joining dating apps, losing weight, learning “self improvement “.

Despite my attempts, it just doesn’t work, I joined dating sites two years ago and till date haven’t had a single date or conversation that lasted longer then a week before I got ghosted.

I’m starting to think now that maybe it’s not meant to be. I’m an ethnic person who does not fit in with his ethnic people, and likewise I do not fit in with my national people either (I have an old fashioned way of life and beliefs, I spoke to some.

Dude at work who was shocked I don’t even have a social media).

Maybe the world has moved on from my type, I’m not sure exactly what I’m looking for in this post but I’m guess I’m looking for advice at to whether or not I should accept things and die a single man.

I don’t attempt to find status, I see it as worthless and care more about learning. About religion and philosophy, the subject of the single man.

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Title Asperger’s, ADHD, Dyspraxia, should I cease to attempt finding a relationship?
Author Major_Local_2325
Upvotes 2
Comments 4
Date November 6, 2022 2:33 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]debatelord_1 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think trying to get education/career figured out so you can make a decent living is important. Gym is also very good.

Imo yes I think you should focus on other things. Women do not want men on the spectrum. Stop trying to please them and cater to their desires. Focus on your other interests and get yourself into a position financially in which you can afford escorts/sugar babies etc. if you want that

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

probably

[–]infinitofluxo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are also women struggling with their own issues, try meeting them in forums, Facebook groups or better places than these. Look for people with similar issues so you won't be exposed to as much rejection as the regular people. Don't give up, you are part of an expressive side of society.

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I have autism too. Probably ADHD as well. I know I have social anxiety disorder and generalized anxiety disorder as well. And of course depression. I might even have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Though pretty much every woman I get involved with has BPD. It could just be me mirroring their energy. Dating is a struggle when you have neurological and mental health issues like that.

Only reason why I'm not a virgin is because I have a handsome face. And recently I lost weight and got gymcelled. But autism, ADHD and my mental health issues are still a massive failo. I've been slow faded and ghosted recently by women I've hooked up with. I've been dumped last week by a woman I was dating.

I definitely do feel fortunate that I have sexual and relationship experience. But do feel depressed that I can't hold down a relationship to save my life. My history is full of one-night stands, flings and short-term relationships. And my long-term relationships weren't very good.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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