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best books for "art of seducing men", for women?

November 12, 2022

reading robert green's book but im hoping to learn how to flirt and how to talk to men better in a way that can generate attraction. =) something that will help in the dating to marriage process. thanks!

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Title best books for "art of seducing men", for women?
Author ifiniasms
Upvotes 4
Comments 28
Date November 12, 2022 8:01 PM UTC (2 weeks ago)
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[–]EnteFetz 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As a woman all you need to do it to look good, be friendly and to show interest in him.

It is super easy to turn on men. Just show interest in them and they will all yours.

[–]MegaGigaTeraBased 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

As a woman all you need to do it to look good

not even that tbh. even ugly women still have hordes of men chasing them

[–]Chalkie_ 6 points7 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Seducing men is easy. Be nice and hot. Show interest.

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

um, you need to elaborate. what is "showing interest"

[–]EnforcementX 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Be present in conversations. Don’t talk exclusively about yourself. Ask questions. You don’t have to lead the conversation, but you shouldn’t require him to, either. Smile and be engaging. That’s the start.

If you’ve attracted him and now you want to keep him, you’ve got to find ways to fit in his life. Can you cook? If so, cook some of his favorite meals. I’m not saying you have to deep clean his apartment, but if you’re spending time over there, just casually tidying up will go a long way in how he views you. Basically, if you can find gaps in his life that you think you could help improve, do it. Just taking the initiation goes a LONG way.

Be open to trying new things, particularly HIS hobbies. If you’re someone who likes going out and partying and drinking all the time, you’ll need to stop that, or at least significantly reduce it.

Attracting men is the easiest thing in the world for women. Keeping a man is another story.

Good luck, OP.

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

hmmm. i appreciate it =) wondering if youre okay if i message you if i have some questions

[–]EnforcementX 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Chalkie_ 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Heres the thing if your actually attracted to them your gonna show interest anyway naturally.

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

well, actually. im very passive so im trying to create more opportunities for men. and i want to find out what type im interested in or would be compatible with. overall this should help me gain confidence in social areas. maybe

[–]Secret-Ad8479 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol we all know you only want tall men with big penises, you NPC

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[–]Chalkie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm dyslexic fuck off bot.

[–]Wide_Result9679 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

As a woman, I've found nothing turns men on more than making them feel needed.

Ask for a favor. Tell them you need help with something. Let them play hero occasionally.

Also be kind, appreciative, and dress in a subtly sexy way.

Men rarely get compliments so give genuine ones and make him feel appreciated.

How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You has a dumb cheesy title, which the author admits her publishers made her do, but it's good. She recommends smiling multiple times at a guy in public if you think he's cute cuz one smile can be taken as just friendly. Men are easy, it works really well.

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

thanks sister =) yes i agree.. will try to keep it in my mind.

[–]upalseBogPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Seducing is hardly a rocket science for a woman, given that most men have universally low standards. Finding the right man is the hard part.

[–]debatelord_1 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link


Improve your looks. Get fit in the gym (don't be afraid of real weights), get long beautiful hair, fix your skin if necessary, etc. etc.

[–]Green-Quantity1032 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why is this downvoted? It's 1-dimensional but it's perfectly valid advice and takes care of one important seduction axis.

[–]Green-Quantity1032 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Work on your body language.

Confident posture, confident gait.

Relaxed face, relaxed eyes, not darting around when started at, calm.

Look your best (gym, nutrition, clothing, hair, natural-looking-makeup).

If by this point men aren't seduced then I can't help you.

If getting a relationship rather than attraction is the issue then I don't know if seduction is the right word.

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would you need a book? Don’t you get a gazillion matches online?

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

you remind me of someone I know

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ask r/redpillwomen.

You seems to be looking for marriage or serious relationship.So that sub will help you. Also don't go with guy your age because they will be dating women younger than you,go for guy at least 8 years older than you since you are in 30s.

[–]ifiniasms1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

i guess im not surprised about the terrible advice from redditors =)

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

dont know enough to help but ill go ahead and say this is the first time i ever saw a woman that actually asks about how to elicit desire from guys instead of asking what men are willing to do for her

[–]ifiniasms[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

i want a great man and i want to make it easier for him to be in my life and vise versa.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

that is admirable ngl but you might find yourself competing with a lot of other women if you want the exact same thing everyone else wants

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus Christ come on people, women don't need books for that. She just needs to show up. WTF is wrong with this generation? I defend Gen Z a lot but now this is too much.

[–]MegaGigaTeraBased -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

bruh literally just talk to him, be nice to him, and act genuinely interested in who he is/what he has to say. that's literally all you need

[–]mcove97NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't need books, you need to be confident.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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