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Blue pillers don't know how privileged they are

January 24, 2023

They always give advice like "get therapy!" When therapy is extremely expensive and difficult to afford or they assume you're average and it's just in your head so they tell you to hit the gym. Honestly if you can afford therapy and you're in college you're extremely privileged. Not everyone is born rich tho. Not all of us were guaranteed a meal every day as children.

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[–]TaxNegative161 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Very good point. Mental health is inaccessible for some. And if desperately needed health care is not affordable, dating would be harder in general because having fun is often expensive.

There is no easy fix to this. But it is not a matrix pill issue. If you need therapy and cannot afford it, no dating philosophy is going to save you.

If I were to give mental health advice to someone with an internet connection and a budget of zero dollars, my advice would be research and journaling. Researching mental health topics may help give you the vocabulary to understand a bit about yourself, and the journaling will give an opportunity to practice.

Good luck.

[–]TsugaC 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Meditation, exercise, and getting away from the echo chamber would help as much as any therapy.

[–]zastale 3 points4 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Therapy is pointless for men, and here’s why.

It’s once again women projecting and failing to empathize with men. Talking out their problems works for them, but obviously not for men. They know this, as every woman at some point has experienced a man interrupting her rant to actually try and solve the problem, which enrages them.

Most men are better off going to the gym; simple as.

[–]TaxNegative161 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Therapy is pointless for men, and here’s why.


[–]qaadeleted 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think generally a lot of times therapy is trying to solve issues which simply cant be solved through therapy. It has been generalized to be assumed to work for everyone everywhere for any mental condition regardless of the factor and the external reasons led to it/behind it.

I think tho there is truth to say that a larger portion of women than men find it usefull at some level. The reasoning for this is that as stated by op, women more often find value in the procress of getting a perspective to their their condtition through conversation and solve the issue anyway more themselves as men expect the results to arise from rhe therapy itself.

One could argue of course that there are multiple types of therapy, some way more self discover orianted and others more clinical results. But i think it rendera again to the first problem. As there are shit which therapy cant help there is some whoch certain types could only help. As psychology generaöly again is more female orietated and the discussional style cheaper, it is way more favored default.

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting take. I can see your point.

[–]OberOst -2 points-1 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Most men are better off going to the gym

Only if they're tall and have a handsome face. Otherwise, it's a waste of time and money just like therapy.

[–]zastale 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

If you’re sole purpose is to build a physique that will attract women? Agreed.

But, exercise releases endorphins, which is a great feeling. There are few things in life that will give an equal output for an equal input; exercising is very satisfying and the results speak for themselves.

[–]OberOst -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

It would have the opposite effect on me. I'm short, so muscles on me would scream, "I'm compensating!".

[–]zastale 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Probably, but who gives a fuck? You’re in a catch 22: damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

Short and skinny: weakling; wimp

Short and jacked: compensating; insecure

You literally cannot win with these people, so you might as well do whatever the fuck you want. One thing is certain, that people will be vary of fucking with you if you’re jacked.

[–]skipsfaster 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cope. Sure height matters but lifting helps everyone. People treat you better when you’re fit. Also you’ll put on muscle faster.

[–]IHateFernales 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You’re better off spending the therapy money on hookers

[–]OberOst 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Therapy would only work if women therapists were having sex with their male clients.

[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s very contextual and depends on your country and income. People generally assume that if you complain about dating as your major issue, you don’t necessarily stragglier financially though, because maybe otherwise you’d be more concentrated on it and not on red/black pill etc.

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