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Do bisexual women have lower standards for women than men?

October 14, 2022
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I’ve met fat / ugly women who say they attract and have sex with other women. Meanwhile, fat / ugly men are unable to attract women. Do women have lower standards for women than they do for men?

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Title Do bisexual women have lower standards for women than men?
Author LuciaFromGTA
Upvotes 8
Comments 17
Date October 14, 2022 7:19 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]No-Improvement-8205 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dont think too much about the LGBTQIA+ community when thinking about attraction, and all that. Its seriously a whole other "game" getting played there, just the mere fact that they're a minority, where they really dont have much chance of attracting the majority(they might get the occasional bicurious person, but getting a real monogamous relationship within the community is somewhat harder than getting one as straight)

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 1 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

I’m bi and weight isn’t an issues in either sex really

Women are prettier and in general put in a lot more effort, I meet more attractive women than men

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

lol but what about height? Man that must be a perplexing one. Which one is going to have to be taller?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m not fussed about height as long as they are not either loads taller or shorter it feels weird that’s men and women

[–]shreyastalpade 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

What kind of effort?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

Effort in how they look, more grooming dress better

[–]shreyastalpade 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Makeup is not effort.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Yes it is

It takes time and money to do and it improves your looks

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm betting this isn't about "lower" or "higher" standards. More like "Different" in some way.

Heterosexual attraction is influenced by Dawkinsian genetic imperatives. Homosexual attraction probably doesn't work the same way.

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Bisexual women are attracted to a wider array of body types.

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Bisexual women do on average have lower standards for everyone according to statistics. More likely to be attracted to a multitude of body types, more likely to have casual sex and wanting sexual variety.

[–]caption291 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Seems like that could be survivor bias. A girl that is less prudish is going to explore her sexuality more and be more likely to describe herself as bisexual than a girl who is equally bisexual but doesn't explore her sexuality...That would skew the data.

[–]sparklyyblueberryy 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s associated with higher testosyerone to be bisexual though so there is a biological component.

[–]caption291 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You are probably right, but if there's a correlation between higher testosterone and a desire to explore sexually we run into the same problem.

[–]EviessVeralan 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In terms of physical appearance women tend to have more lax standards of what theyll date. This is why youll occasionally see younger women with older, uglier dudes if theyre rich.

[–]caption291 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If a woman partners with a man, she is (subconsciously) evaluating him on his genetic quality as well as other things like his ability to provide for a kid, take care of a kid etc...

If she partners with a woman, there is no reason why she would care about her genetic quality because she isn't going to reproduce with her. If she reproduces it's going to be with a third party and her female partner is going to help raise the kid, so she will only care about the genetic quality of that third party, not her partners.

So yes, women have higher standards for men because reproduction is on the table with men but not women so it's literally more standards.

There are also other more practical reasons but that would be the core reason.

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

men are generally uglier than women on average

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