Do most men think women don't approach or pursue men because most men aren't tall/handsome enough?

no_bling_just_ding · 2023-02-19T20:21:41+00:00

no not really

most men think it's just not something women do the same way apples don't fall up because of their male solipsism ("it didn't happen to me so it doesn't happen to any man"). when you're chad, if and only if you're chad, everything your boomer dad thought women don't and wouldn't do for men goes out the window. female solipsism is believing that you're the victim and men's problems don't matter because it would shatter your victim complex, male solipsism is believing that you're so awesome no one is getting better treatment than you or has it better than you because it would shatter your ego.

EDIT: misread title and fixed my comment accordingly.

SedTheeMighty · 2023-02-19T21:17:58+00:00

Not most men. But that is pretty true. Seems like a woman is only approaching a guy if she sees him and just can’t pass him up.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-02-19T21:17:29+00:00

Yes.

I've had Chad friends. One just was dancing at a club and had a girl walk up and try to take him to her place to fuck. Wild. Meanwhile, I've had girls 'like' me but too shy to even ask for a date. I also was significantly more attractive than them (i'm fit, they're obese).

I've approached hundreds of girls, usually a girl will only approach a guy who is way out of her league, and usually for sex over relationships as they feel sex is the easiest sell (it is to most men).

FortniteAbobus · 2023-02-19T21:36:18+00:00

kekscreen

Females approach me only if they need something from me. They never interested in me as a man or my company.

debatelord_1 · 2023-02-19T22:25:58+00:00

Hell even I've been asked out before and I don't socialise much.

Definitely happens. Also have female friends who approach.

"Women don't approach" is a cope because women don't approach you.

Grapestheanswer · 2023-02-19T22:22:30+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rtsh4v/women_in_a_nutshell

h1shman · 2023-02-20T01:49:32+00:00

Women in general don’t approach. Most people dislike rejection and because women are approached more often the cost benefit analysis doesn’t lead them to take the risk. Add in women like men who are masculine and approach and it makes the situation pretty rare.

However they make exceptions for men they find extremely appealing almost exclusively in situations involving alcohol. I have experienced the spectrum where probably 95% will give choosing signals (staring, smile, bump into you) and 5% will actually physically approach. However the girls that approach are extremely aggressive. Making it immediately apparent they want I fuck. Not so much girls that want to meet you for dinner the next day.

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2023-02-19T21:23:27+00:00

The memes just write themselves at this point.

FortniteAbobus · 2023-02-19T21:50:07+00:00

Damn she's fat now. Huge boobs, but what cost?

That was 10 years ago, when "femcels" didn't block their DM. You see, problem was solved after one message. Femcel = volcel.

RatDontPanic · 2023-02-19T22:44:58+00:00

She asked out a Chad and succeeded in one try. Why am I not wearing the surprised Pikachu face? I'm supposed to have the surprised Pikachu face! Why no can has surprised Pikachu face!

TaxNegative161 · 2023-02-19T20:19:37+00:00

Introspection is hard. Looking at your personality and realising bits of you are terrible and need to change is very hard.

Much easier to just blame it on attractiveness or height so there's no point in growing as a person.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2023-02-20T01:13:32+00:00

Well duh, it’s literally become a meme for a man to be approached..most guys aren’t approached and your an idiot if you think otherwise, yes looks will get women to come up to you, if you ain’t got em they don’t. Simple as that.

hari_hbp · 2023-02-20T07:39:30+00:00

Most women probably don't approach because they don't find him attractive enough to risk rejection.

Because why wouldn't you go after someone you are really attracted to and want to be with?

Title	Do most men think women don't approach or pursue men because most men aren't tall/handsome enough?
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Date	February 19, 2023 8:14 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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