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Do you know "Chads" or unattractive womanizers?

November 8, 2022
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(Although I'm especially interested in men's answer anyone can answer. Well, it's obvious that will happen).

Do you guys know in person one of those quite attractive men also called "Chads"? That kind of dude who, according to the androsphere theory, could easily have sex with all the women at the party that same night. Maybe it's because of the kind of environments I (don't) frequent (lol), but I've never met anyone, I don't think I'd like to either. I have met men who could be considered handsome, however, although they all did well in terms of dating, none of them was a womanizer as such; maybe I never realized they actually were because I was never close to any of these people.

In contrast, women and blue pill men love to talk about those ugly dudes, without much money, maybe short too, who are inveterate seducers thanks to their confidence, charisma and game. Do you know an unattractive womanizer in person? I don't: it's always "a friend of a friend" or "an acquaintance of someone I know" or something like that.

Anyway, I look forward to your answers. For me, both types of men are just an idea, a myth or a rumor, although, pessimistic as I am, I think the only one that could exist is the former.

Be well.

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Title Do you know "Chads" or unattractive womanizers?
Author Purple-Heiss
Upvotes 7
Comments 23
Date November 8, 2022 3:09 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]Glad-Discount-4761 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I am woman but I do know Chads.

My boss is not that good looking but is womanizer.He knows how to flirt.Thats why he get women' attention.Men not giving shit about women and their opinions are Chads.He puts himself in priority and don't let woman distract him . They only do pump and dump women

Do I know attractive Chad?My brother.He is blessed with good jawline and took lessons from red pill content.He is doing well with ladies.

[–]FastBananaViral 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I have met Chads but they were all tall, white and had a square jaw. Non-Chads I know are either incel or very close to it. I have never met a non-Chad womaniser, female preferences are very uniform and I don’t think a non Chad womaniser would be possible as a result

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most girls i know liked by men also have similar features, liking ''thicc' ' vs' 'skinny' ' is literally the only variation.

[–]platinirismsBlackPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A Chad isn’t a womaniser, it’s just a name given to any highly attractive man that has the potencial to sleep with most single attractive women.

Wether he actually wants to sleep with them or not is irrelevant. The biggest ‘Chad’ I know is a anime loving D&D playing autist, but he’s 6’3, blond, white, male model looking dude. Dude attracted women wherever he went when he didn’t even want to talk to them.

Meanwhile I have never met an unattractive man who could pull attractive women regularly, the closest I can think off is a 6’ obese dude who pulled obese women.

[–]kokorwqac 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Anime is normie stuff nowadays tbh

[–]Hyena_Utopia1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I know chads, one is a cousin, one is a childhood friend. Witnessing their effect on women and hearing of their experiences if fun but does make me a little envious.

Every PUA-grifter sais they know an unattractive womanizer, but I have yet to meet one myself.

[–]Purple-Heiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I know chads, one is a cousin, one is a childhood friend. Witnessing their effect on women and hearing of their experiences is fun but does make me a little envious.

I would also be envious of a man who is very successful with women.

Maybe it's because of the kind of environments I (don't) frequent (lol), but I've never met anyone, I don't think I'd like to either.

However, the real reason I wouldn't like to meet a Chad or a womanizer is because, probably, at some point he would tell me some story involving a married woman or a woman with a boyfriend. I'd feel morally obligated to ruin the party for him and the woman(s), especially if I know the cucked guy(s). This could end very badly for everyone, including me.

I'm not saying all Chads and womanizers are like this, I even think some of them are good people, but I'd bet many of these men take it as sport to have sex with partnered women.

[–]takethelovepill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’ve known dozens like that in person. Might not be a thing now but there were ugly, broke guys I knew years ago who had gotten 3-4 different women pregnant who lived on the same block in the same neighborhood.

Of course these guys were from my generation (GenX) and they weren’t socially awkward dorks who couldn’t talk to women and had poor hygiene like they are now. Even ugly GenX guys could get women and get laid no problem. These days all these young guys are so poorly socialized they can’t get any woman to even talk to them. So yeah ugly womanizer guys is a thing, it’s just not all that common today because 1/3 men today are virgins at the age of the 30. This problem didn’t exist in my generation at all whatsoever.

[–]Wide_Result9679 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

As a woman I've known plenty of womanizers; most were attractive.

Two were not. One of them was in a punk band, dressed punk, and was one of the nicest guys I've ever met. Also very confident and forward. He was chubby, had a giant beard and long hair.

The other wasn't ugly, but certainly wasn't handsome. He just had this very personable way with women, very playfully persistent and nice but clearly flirting with you.

A lot of Red Pill guys seem to think if a guy's Chad or whatever, that means every woman wants him, but that's not how attraction works. Guys I've been super into were not impressive to some of my friends; guys they've been into I found to have bad personalities or just weren't my type physically. Just cuz a guy works out or is tall or handsome or whatever doesn't mean all or even most women want him.

ETA: A lot of guys do underestimate how far personality goes imo. A guy with charisma who's super nice AND flirty does better with women than a guy who doesn't have those things. It's not all hitting the gym and having money, since I know plenty of dudes who do both but suck with women.

[–]Purple-Heiss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

but that's not how attraction works.

While I understand your point, and to some extent I might agree with it, I think attraction does work that way.

You yourself have said that most of the womanizers you have met are good looking men, don't you think there is an obvious correlation? There are certain physical traits that are universally attractive: a guy over six feet, muscular, with a strong jaw and chiseled face will probably be very desirable to the vast majority of women.

[–]FastBananaViral 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re right I know a 5’2” bald Indian janitor with a hell of a personality, charisma and sense of humour. He only pumps and dumps models

[–]debatelord_1 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Status is so underrated here. Being in a band or a barkeeper/bouncer in popular bar/club etc. will open many doors.

[–]upalseBogPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

very personable way with women, very playfully persistent

This. Having a non-threatening, yet persistent mojo somehow eludes PUA bloggers.

[–]SmarmyPapsmears 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I wouldn't say I'm a chad but I def fit all of the stuff you said. I have a buddy who is more of a womanizer and less liberal than me who pulls basically any time we'd go out (before we got married to our wives).

He can't turn it off and still gets a lot of attention when we go out and we're mid 30s.

I don't know personally any ugly womanizers who get laid.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He can't turn it off and still gets a lot of attention when we go out and we're mid 30s.

If that's true,I wonder if he regrets marriage

[–]h1shman 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m a chad, but I’m not fucking every girl at the party lol. Chad is just a term used to describe outward appearance. Nothing to do with womanizing.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

i never saw a womanizer that wasn't taller and wealthier than myself of the few self-proclaimed ones i've met that i'd believe. my sister claims to have seen an ugly one once that she hated because he bullied her in school but that's it

[–]debatelord_1 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I may know one guy, my trainer.

He has a kid now etc. but has hinted at a more adventurous past. Not sure though as I never saw it first hand to confirm. Does have the more extroverted, cool personality for it.

[–]RStonePTRedPill 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Chad doesn't exist. he's a concept people use to describe various phenomenon.

[–]De_Carabas_of_Below 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That... Is correct, I think.

[–]RStonePTRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]caption291 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I did have a drug dealer frenemy(I hate how that word sounds but I guess it's the best way to describe it) that was essentially disliked/hated by everyone he knew because he was a douche but slept with basically every woman he wanted to.

I think the moment it clicked that he was a Chad in my head was when he deflowered a super "pure" girl that would "never" do something like that during a 30 minute break after literally meeting her that same day.( I had never heard about the term Chad at that point but the concept was made clear)

He would routinely go on insulting sprees against women that were talking to him just so that they would leave him alone. The spree part is important because just insulting them once or twice didn't work because women just assumed he was joking pretty much every time.

Of course, you can always increase the requirements for someone to be considered a Chad so maybe he doesn't fit what you imagine specifically...but to me the massive difference between how he was treated compared to the average man was enough to justify putting him in a completely different category.

I definitely don't know an unattractive womanizer... Every guy I knew that women thought fit that bill were really just overall attractive guys that just happened to have a trait that was very hit or miss with women and women confused that high variance with the guy being unattractive overall.

[–]Purple-Heiss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It always blows my mind that the worst men are always the ones who seem to be very successful in these matters. Seriously, even though these types of stories are no longer unexpected to me they always give me a very visceral reaction.

Humans are rotten and I think it's best to laugh about it.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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