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For all men who think cold approaching women works

RatDontPanic
February 10, 2023
8 upvotes
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/10ygabi/how_do_you_feel_when_a_new_guy_is_approaching_you/ (No brigading, please!)

Only two posts so far but watch this one as it unfolds. It's going to be a looong testimony by women that they hate this.

Next time you hear other women complaining about men not approaching them, rear your head and laugh.

Under no circumstances should a man approach a woman he doesn't know. Period. This is the way.

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Title For all men who think cold approaching women works
Author RatDontPanic
Upvotes 8
Comments 49
Date February 10, 2023 6:43 AM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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Comments

[–]Hyena_UtopiaBlackPill Janitor 6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

The only men who can successfully cold approach women are the genetically gifted ones IE good looking. And good looking people don't need to cold approach when theres tinder, so forget about it, its redundant.

[–]NotARussianBot1984 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I remember my Chad friend walked up to 2 hot girls on the street when he went to grab some pop. 15 mins later both are back at my place, and in 10mins the hottest one was making out with him.

Meanwhile after 300 cold approaches I've yet to even get a date lol.

Rule 1&2.

[–]Libah05 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Even good looking men get fuck all from cold approaching. They’ll get a number and get ghosted. It’s over

[–]BitsAndBobs304 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

And even if youre good looking, cold approaching is still shit unless you're at a party hitting on drunk people which is just ab ugly thing

[–]mackerelslab31 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol, comment straight out of r/seducingwomen

[–]Hyena_UtopiaBlackPill Janitor 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

All the posts and comments on there seem like the polar opposite of what I wrote, predictably because its a bluepill sub. Could you elaborate on what you meant because I've got no clue.

[–]Isitwhatitisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Chad Only

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 4 points5 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

For cold approaching to be effective you need to an objectively handsome guy, like a 8 out of 10 at worst. Anything lower than that and your literally playing the numbers game.

For example, this is my former co- worker's little brother https://www.instagram.com/p/BhCJ3abgb1Y/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=. When all of us would hang out at after work he would literally cold approach tables full of women and get numbers, kisses, free drinks and if he wanted to hookups. It never failed. I can count on one hand the amount of women(single or taken) who flat out rejected him. I could really black pill a lot of the guys here if I told you some of things I've seen and experienced but I won't, too many guys on this reddit aren't in the best mental shape so I'll leave it alone.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

For cold approaching to be effective you need to an objectively handsome guy, like a 8 out of 10 at worst. Anything lower than that and your literally playing the numbers game.

The cold hard truth.

[–]Annual-Dentist-7529 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yea cold approaching is cope for the most part.

personally I don’t do it really. if your going to do it then only do it when you get IOIs

[–]TaxNegative161 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Just saying, if I found out my brothers coworker was posting my insta on reddit, I'd beat the shit out of you. Have some respect for the privacy of others you lunatic.

[–]Last-Post2085 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd beat the shit out of you

/r/iamverytough

[–]orbstnedifnocdesab 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

chad doesnt care

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

He's actually trying to gain more follwers and build his social media presence, but go off dumbass.

[–]no_bling_just_dingrip GD4761 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

lot of people on the internet acting like lawyers aggressively defending the cases of strangers they never met

[–]TaxNegative161 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

As long as you've got permission, that's fine, but if you saw someone do what you just did and thought it was normal you're a freak.

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Dating is literally a numbers game.

[–]Wide-Illustrator2906 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There's a difference between being the best version of yourself and speaking to women you find attractive then literally approaching random women in public until one says yes.

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re right, but there’s no way I’m believing your connection to that guy.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It works if you were born lucky, that is, with the right molecular composition.

[–]TaxNegative161 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow a whole six replies saying 'approach me where?' in one link and a woman talking about not being approached in a bar, the place where it is universally ok to talk to strangers in the other riveting stuff.

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s not riveting at all, actually.

[–]ElectricBugs -1 points0 points  (20 children) | Copy Link

Men here are in denial about the very real dangers for women in interacting with strange men who approach them.

[–]zastale 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

These women are more likely to be in harms way from someone they know, rather than a complete stranger.

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

You're focus is not on the right component. A stranger is an unknown quantity. At best you don't know if the guy will just be weird..at worse he could kill you for rejecting him.

It doesn't matter that some of these events are less likely than others overall because there is a full range of negative experiences that a man approaching you can lead to and very little, if any, positive.

So the net gain is in the minus column

[–]zastale 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

At best you don't know if the girl will say no…at worse she could take a picture of you and lambast you on social media, and call the authorities to have you arrested.

I reworded your response to flip the roles, reframing it to situation where a man is considering approaching a woman. Does this seem like a normal thought process or is it a bit unhinged?

It doesn't matter that some of these events are less likely than others overall because there is a full range of negative experiences that a man approaching you can lead to and very little, if any, positive.

So the net gain is in the minus column

I see, you’re one of those.

[–]ElectricBugs -1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

I mean none of that is comparable to what women go through and this is the problem. Men do not get how inherently unsafe women feel around strange men.

[–]zastale 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You’re right, we can’t. Such is life, but fortunately for you women are succeeding in practically every other metric. Life is unfair, as you know.

[–]Perfect-Complaint831 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why stop at men? You don’t know if every black person you meet is a criminal or not, better to be safe than sorry

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not a lot of difference between feminism and racism...

[–]no_bling_just_dingrip GD4761 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

sounds like those women who feel inherently unsafe in indoor spaces with cops and security need bromazepam or etifoxine because you cant call the national guard to just physically remove every man you dont like

[–]ElectricBugs -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Who's the hysterical one now. Lol

[–]no_bling_just_dingrip GD4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

welp you got me dead to rights ✋😎✋

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

Then women complain about men not approaching them. Fuck 'em. They're scared of us, so we don't approach. They can't have it both ways.

[–]carpetfoodie 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

They want Chad approaching them not subhumans

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well then hell, these women can keep crying. My violin gets smaller and smaller every day.

[–]no_bling_just_dingrip GD4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

yuo are not entitled to approach women whose minds you cant read in advance with precognition powers inkler

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s the whole secret truth, women are never actually scared of men as men, they are scared of sexually undesirable men.

[–]33V33_1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Not all woman are the same. Just cuz one woman doesn’t wanna be approached doesn’t mean the others don’t.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

But you can't tell until you step into that potential shitstorm.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

What dangers in public? Very rare to be dragged into a car in broad daylight with other people around. At night the risk is higher but unlikely inside a Walmart. Women can still scream and tell others nearby of the threat. Keep that in mind.

[–]ElectricBugs 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't need a man to tell me what to keep in mind when it comes to my own safety. I live it so I know it. I have big breasts. I have since I was 8 years old. I have experienced a lifetime of men objectifying me in little and big ways. You have NFI what it is like to be literally on the look all the time because the reality for me and most women is that men do rape and hurt us. A man calling out to a person nice tits can soon escalate. Men who think they have the right to just grab your breasts is a lot higher than you would likely think. the risk of things happening are ever present.

[–]Wirlix00BlackPill -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are no ''real dangers'' for women in interacting with men in the real world. As much as a man is able to kill a woman, a woman is able to a kill a man. There is no amount of meat in your bones, height or weight advantage that's gonna stop someone with a simple kitchen knife to completely fuck you up in 5 seconds. And I'm not even talking about the fact that guns exist, and any woman with functional hands and proper training is capable of using them. The physical diffences between a man and a woman are only relevant when we are talking about non-lethal ''fights'', like bar fights, sports(mma,boxing,etc). Women just dislike when someone they find unattractive approaches them.

[–]Mark_Jensen -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

I Think a man should cold approach because who gives a fuck? You are gonna die anyway ,it doesn't matter, just be polite and accept the rejection and move on.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

No way. The moment you cold approach a woman you already give her a ton of power and validation. She will always have power over you throughout the relationship. Never feed a woman unsolicited validation. NEVER. It always goes to their heads.

[–]Mark_Jensen -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Can I ask you a question? How did your father met your mother? How did your grandfather met your grandmother?

Did they just rot in their rooms playing videogames and suddenly their future partners just appear in their basement and asked them to marry them?

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Father did the whole dancing and performing while my mother gave thumbs up or thumbs down. I ain't playing that game. I'm worth more than being some contestant for a woman's affections. Hell my wife approached me first on match.com.

Here's the deal, dude. Men do all the courting and women just sit there and play Caesar with their thumbs up or thumbs down act. This is a wildly uneven playing field. That's not acceptable and I'm not buying into the traditionalist or feminist indoctrination that the man has to make the first move and do all the work in courting a woman. Fuck that. If I had to play that game by those rules I'd have stayed single. Women aren't worth that. Men ain't worth being courted like that. No one is. Courtship needs to be more balanced and it's far from that.

[–]Mark_Jensen 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You met your wife on a dating site? C'mon.

have you check your testosterone levels? They surely must be freaking low, this is just insane.

I wonder how your wife must looks like, to being on a dating app, lol.

Just get outside man, and be masculine.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I fathered three kids while you're sitting here talking shit and dreaming of fucking women. How about you go fuck yourself - wait, no, you're too impotent to even do that.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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