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From your everyday interactions, and seeing people , peers and relationships around you. Which of the pills do you say is more evident or factual or based in reality in your opinion.

September 9, 2022
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Title From your everyday interactions, and seeing people , peers and relationships around you. Which of the pills do you say is more evident or factual or based in reality in your opinion.
Author NigHim
Upvotes 7
Comments 43
Date September 9, 2022 2:38 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]Glad-Discount-4761 6 points7 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Redpill.Always

[–]NigHim[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

In what ways

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Everything.Relationship, marriage, female nature.

In fact,I was applying rpw tips when I was new to rp in my previous relationship.It worked.

When I got in depth about it.I even understood break up.When someone I know break up,I immediately guessed reasons

[–]NigHim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

black pill and its not even close. if you were to line up everyone I know in order of attractiveness it will correlate ALMOST 1:1 with how many sexual partners they had. ugly guys are all virgins (with only 1 exception), only the attractive people have had one night stands or casual sex (again, with only 1 exception) and the guys with the most mental health problems all seem to be physically unattractive, probably from being treated like shit or just out-right ignored most of their lives.

for reference im late 20s and i started seeing this shit when i was about 11, way before social media/OLD/pill stuff.

[–]Peacesquad 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t really align with the black pill world but you’re right

[–]Pillan24 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

A mix of the redpill and blackpill. I see more NT acting or attractive guys with friends and relationships.

[–]ChazinGreatnezz 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Rate me dm bro?

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Blue pill is the cope pill. It typically gives you false rationales why things haven't worked out for you. It gives you false impressions of reality. It tends to give you the easy way out in life, which can work for some people, but it's typically not the correct solution. Most solution for fundamental problems in life require hard work.

Most people who are looking for easy solutions will fall prey to the blue pill. It's an easy thing to accept. Most humans are lazy in their relationship. Example, blue will will suggest all you have to do is be a nice person and your soulmate will come "one day". This requires the very little effort. Or, just put your girl on a pedestal and she will respect you. This requires a lot of resources, but it's also the easy why out. Being compliant and worshiping someone is easier than being disagreeable on having boundaries.

Red pill is about taking ownership of your problem. This is based more in reality, because the way I see it, you are responsible for your life. Red pill address this issue to some extent. It's kind of like the introduction to self ownership. Even though it doesn't dig deep into the underlying psychology of why it works, in practice, it works. Working out, learning game, earning wealth and status, all of these things require more effort. And as a general rule in life, anything worth having is difficult to obtain.

Black pill isn't so much about what you can do, but it still hits on the truths about the world. Looks matter. A lot. And this is evident if you ever improved your looks. People just treat you nicer. Here's a cute story. I told my wife about the black pill, and she didn't really believe me. But as soon as we had our 1st daughter, she started to notice that the black pill is legit. Me and my wife are 6/10 in looks. But I specifically choose my wife because she had a nice jawline that I lack. So her features complimented mines. Our kids are benefiting from this. My 2 year-old daughter is super cute. My newborn son which is 3 months now is also super handsome and cute. He has a more square jaw from his mom which is a + for guys. My daughter went to a wedding last week with my wife. There were 5 other kids around her age. EVERYONE pay attention to only my daughter. Even the kids wanted to play with my daughter. There was a 3 year old boy following my daughter asking to hold her hand and play! We go to the supermarket or a hardware store, the workers like to give my daughters free gifts! Everyone always compliments my daughter about how cute she is! I understand exactly what's happening, but many people are unaware of their bias towards beautiful people. Anyone who denies that looks matter is either ignorant or in denial.

White pill is for me the solution. It's not well define, but I'll make the distinction here. I believe it's about how to live your life. Similar to red pill, but more about personality and morals. This sounds like blue pill, but it's not. It about adjusting your personality in the most difficult of ways. This has helped me mend my relationship with my parents as well as build a strong relationship with my wife. I still accept the black and red pills ideas, but I go beyond money, status and looks. I seek a more spiritual way of living life. I seek to understand the fundamental ideas of our existence to bring one out of depression and to seek glory. I think my existence alone has proven it to be true. I'm not a wealthy man. I make 50k a year. I'm not super handsome. I'm a 6/10 at best. I'm not tall, I'm 5'8". I don't have status or prestige. I'm not built like an roman statue, though I'm definitely more fit than your average person. Yet I still managed to build a successful relationship with my wife who's 9 years younger than me. Most people will say that it's impossible. I know if I was blue pill in my thinking, my wife would have left me long ago. It's thanks to the red/black/white pill that I've manage to maintain this relationship.

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice post. I agree. Looks matter.

[–]Hekinsieden 1 point2 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

I think you're all completely consumed by your socially constructed lives and all the mainstream pills are mega-copes. That's why I made my own pill called the "Empty Pill".

[–]Peacesquad 1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I got Platinum Pill

[–]Hekinsieden 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Ooh, tell me more please.

[–]Peacesquad 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

It’s a pill I started. I got banned from PPD for trying to….”advertise it”. It’s pretty much a Pill I also call a Chameleon Pill. It can adapt to any pill to get you what you want.

[–]Hekinsieden 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

How does it "adapt to any pill to get you what you want"?

[–]ChazinGreatnezz -1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Cope

[–]Peacesquad -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No u

[–]Hekinsieden 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

no u

[–]Peacesquad 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol

[–]IHateNormis 3 points4 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Black pill

[–]NigHim[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

In what ways

[–]IHateNormis 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Ugly guys are almost always alone and every female has sex and relationships on demand

[–]NigHim[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Can I get rate in dms g? I want to know where I stand Lmaoo. Dm me

[–]IHateNormis 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m bad at rating, you can dm if you want

[–]RStonePTRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

in that he's 20

[–]fnonpm 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Blue pill in the front

Black pill in the back

Ask the dudes who were ugly then got a glow up

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

absolutely blue pill ( to a reasonable extent ) every day I see average even below average guys dating and getting married and also in my life ( I am middle-upper class ) I never see this WoMeN onLY mARry a GuY SuPErioR tO tHeM nonsense I only ever see them marry guys that are their level now a days they are marrying people who are less than them my own parents are both dentist but my mother is a college professor as well and has a PhD and makes more money than my dad and guess what they have been married happily for 22 years.

Also I never see assholes with women or at the very least not the same level as the TRP would like you to believe I guess the only reason they may get more sex by some studies ( getting sex and actually being liked and having quality sex is a different thing) is because that is all they care about while as normal people have better things to do or they are so ridiculously good looking I don't think they are getting sex because they are assholes.

Honestly the only place that the red pill advice work is in an American hood and I have even noticed most red pill creators are black American or mixed so in a way if you consider the environment they grow up in it kind of makes since but only in that environment as to way it is that way we'll the black community in the USA has more problem and issues than my country ( Iraq ) so they have my sympathy

[–]RStonePTRedPill 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

red pill advice work is in an American hood

You're watching people adapt to their specific situation. There are UMC white couples with redpill husbands and single guys, but you don't look for their content, thats why you don't think it exists.

Also, youtube is a horrible place to get your cues over what is or isn't redpill.

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I didn't mean to assume that only black Americans are red pill content creators but that the advice of the red pill in my opinion only works on a specific subset of women the kind that is frequently found ( but not exclusively) in American hoods not well adjusted middle class women hell even working class women who don't live in that environment the red pill advice doesn't really work on them

[–]RStonePTRedPill 3 points4 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah yeah, 'this only works on damaged women' schtick.

The tools are hypothetical and universal, or they wouldn't resonate. Hypergamy is Monogamy e.g. women can only be loyal to one man at a time, and it's you, until it isn't. This is how monogamy can even happen. Guys don't have it because some guys can have a mistress, sleep with hookers, and still love their wives dearly (extreme example to show the rule) but when a woman cheats it's becuase she's disatisfied and looking to trade.

Dr. David Bus and Cindy Minson have some pretty solid research into this as well. I can't recall exactly, but it was 85% replicatable in their studies based on divorces and fidelity.

So when I hear someone say 'this only works on damaged women' I think it's because someone is listening to youtube 'brands' who just preach to a choir of synchophants. There's nothing redpill about being a new Jordan Peterson telling men what to do with their lives in hopes of a problem free life. Thats a Covert Contract and one of the first things any Red Pill guy is supposed to learn about (dr. Robert Glovers work e.g.)

For a guy to understand Hypergamy is his way of noticing if his relationship is monogamous (and she's invested) or not. A way of seeing if he has covert contracts (if I do X, she will reciprocate but we don't talk about my expectation) and getting rid of them. If they didn't work they wouldn't be on the sidebar and they wouldn't still be around a decade later.

I do think there's a real need to separate RedPill™ from the Red Pill. Because black dudes rambling about 'if this 304 has colored hair and a tattoo she belongs to the streets!' is just nonsense. Whores don't wear the uniform, and are only whores because they aren't invested in you.

Sorry to ramble, but I kind of give a shit about this stuff. I guarantee the same triggers that affect a girl like you will affect some hood rat. The only difference is in How they are implemented. Social status and pre selection to you looks different than it does to Shiniquoa, but both of you respond to it.

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Hypergamy is Monogamy e.g. women can only be loyal to one man at a time, and it's you, until it isn't. This is how monogamy can even happen. Guys don't have it because some guys can have a mistress, sleep with hookers, and still love their wives dearly (extreme example to show the rule) but when a woman cheats it's becuase she's disatisfied and looking to trade.

I mean sure that is your explanation but I could say that for most of history man held all the power in a relationship and the woman was basically a glorified maid and so a man cheating on his wife has no incentive to leave his wife because she is providing more services to him in other forms than just love and plus extra pussy why pass that up while for a woman if She is the satisfied in a relationship she has an incentive to leave that relationship because it is draining to her ( plus men who cheat absolutely don't love their wives they would not have cheated if they did the reason they keep their wives and not tell them is to use them not to love them )

Dr. David Bus and Cindy Minson have some pretty solid research into this as well. I can't recall exactly, but it was 85% replicatable in their studies based on divorces and fidelity.

I hear a lot of bad things about them but as a medical student a lot of the Evo psychology studies are notorious for their lack of replicability but none the less I would like to see this paper about infidelity

So when I hear someone say 'this only works on damaged women' I think it's because someone is listening to youtube 'brands' who just preach to a choir of synchophants. There's nothing redpill about being a new Jordan Peterson telling men what to do with their lives in hopes of a problem free life. Thats a Covert Contract and one of the first things any Red Pill guy is supposed to learn about (dr. Robert Glovers work e.g.)

What do you mean by this paragraph can you explain it I didn't quite get what you are getting at

Sorry to ramble, but I kind of give a shit about this stuff. I guarantee the same triggers that affect a girl like you will affect some hood rat. The only difference is in How they are implemented. Social status and pre selection to you looks different than it does to Shiniquoa, but both of you respond to it.

First of all I am a man ♂️ , but this is exactly the opposite of what I am seeing , only hood rats are the ones doing anything resembling "hypergamy" because in the end they are like that due to the circumstances they find themselves in they have to be hypergamous to survive, rarely do I see hypergamy outside of that

[–]shreyastalpade 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

How do you know these couples are happy?

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

From what I can see they are happy, no point in assuming the worst in everything

[–]shreyastalpade 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

From what I can see they are happy

High chance they are being told "she's not in the mood"

[–]Play_MutedDark Red Pill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No you dont stop lying

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you don't believe me that is fine but this is my life experience and op ask for it so here it is

[–]None0fYour8usiness 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Redpill generally

[–]RStonePTRedPill -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Take a fucking guess. Thats by definition.

If something isn't useful, I disregard it. If it's helpful, I internalize it. Red Pill isn't meant to be an ideological set of principles, it's a praxis. You literally can't have a blue pill life thats successful

[–]Eyesofmalice 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say black pill.

[–]Asianarcher 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is useless. You don’t believe what you see you see what you believe. People always say their pill is right

[–]BumblingBeta 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're asking how I observe the world - online, it's 90% black pill 10% red pill. Real life, more like 70% red pill 30% black pill. Clearly online, you are rarely getting anywhere without good looks. In real life, you have more leeway to build status and money and for people to see your social skills and how you interact with others, but looks still play a strong part.

If you're asking how I observe other people living their lives, it's a mix. A lot of people preach blue pill thinking to others, but clearly live a red pill life (eg. women who say you are perfect just the way you are to other people, then they themselves are in the gym most days, getting cosmetic surgery and wear a ton of makeup).

Then there are naive blue pill idiots, both male and female. Males think that women are perfect and can do no wrong and put them on a pedestal. Females think men don't care about their looks, admire their career achievements, don't care about their sexual history and think they can lock down a Chad if they keep trying.

Other people live a mixture of red pill/white pill, but they won't virtue signal with blue pill thinking.

I don't observe black pillers in real life. Although I'm not sure how you spot a black piller. Black pillers are always male as well.

I'm not familiar with any other pills like pink pill, purple pill, orange pill, yellow pill (not sure if some of those pills even exist).

[–]Opening_Pattern_301 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

all of them

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’a Redpill by default. The most successful attractive men(lawyers, professional athletes, actors, musicians) are RedPill by DEAFAULT after they reach a certain level they see women's true nature

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