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Girls, are you okay with dying alone and having not one man find you worthy enough to at least TRY to marry you?

_Duriel_1000_
January 4, 2023
5 upvotes
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I know most women, admittedly or not, want to get married. Or at least be considered wifey material by men. However, most women are never considered marriage proposal material. That means, on your current trajectory, you'll die alone. Is that what you are striving for?

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Title Girls, are you okay with dying alone and having not one man find you worthy enough to at least TRY to marry you?
Author _Duriel_1000_
Upvotes 5
Comments 28
Date January 4, 2023 11:00 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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Comments

[–]Blame_the_Muse 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls, are you okay with dying alone and having not one man find you worthy enough to at least TRY to marry you?

No.

However, most women are never considered marriage proposal material.

Don't know where you're getting this idea from. Among educated people (my dating pool), most people get married eventually.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 4 points5 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

I’m in my 40s, I do not know any woman who has not had several marriage proposals.

I only know 2 single woman and they are by choice so I don’t think you have a clue what your talking about

[–]debatelord_1 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

He is very deep in the "all the women who rejected me will die alone and miserable" cope. It's probably just projection because that's exactly the road he is heading towards.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

I’m in my 40s, I do not know any woman who has not had several marriage proposals.

Are you married?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Yes I am

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Okay. Your experience is not the norm across cultures. Thank you for your input.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

So I don’t fit in to what you think?

Who are all these unmarried women who want to be married?

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Who are all these unmarried women

More than 70% of Black women are unmarried

Let me know if thats not enough for you.

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Have you got a proper source in that?

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I literally linked to a source. Not sure what your definition of a "proper source" is.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 2 points3 points  (17 children) | Copy Link

>are you okay with dying alone?

Of course no.

>Is that what you are striving for?

No,but you cant control things or fate,we can only control ourselves.I personally dont believe in having hope so you just have to find happiness within and the things you decide to do with your lives outside of romantic relationship.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (16 children) | Copy Link

you cant control things

Yes you can. You can control what you want to bring to the table that men want.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

I mean like you can't force someone to like you or something.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy Link

People can make themselves more appealing in many ways.

Guys: Workout, eat well, dress well, get social skills, get money, drive nice cars, etc.

Girls: Workout, get healthy skin, stay fit, be submissive, learn to cook extremely well, etc.

Plenty of things for people to like.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (13 children) | Copy Link

I see what you mean.

I am talking about like there is no guarantee in life.You can do all these and still be get cheated on,failed relationship or whatever.In short,you cant control someone to make stay loyal or commited etc.Thats what I mean.

Lets say you are unable to bear children but that doesn't mean partner will still stay with you.Either they will stay or leave.You can't control that

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy Link

I am talking like there is no guarantee in life.

Well, of course.

You can do all these and still be get cheated on,failed relationship or whatever.

This is true in anything in life. A person could earn 1 million dollars and get robbed or cheated out of his money. Sure, its possible. But, the more money he accrues, the less probable it is to happen.

If a person builds themselves up to where they are valuable to many people, its not probable they will end up alone. But its possible.

Lets say you are unable to bear children but that doesn't mean partner will still stsy with you.

Not everyone wants kids.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (11 children) | Copy Link

I think it is true for men than women

Not everyone wants kids.

Well I am surprised you said this lol

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy Link

Well I am surprised you said this lol

I want kids, yes. But many of my friends dont. Sure there are plenty of guys who dont want kids.

And, many women fuck up by having kids, getting tubes tied, and then try locking down a man that wants kids. Nahhh, thats not going to work.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

many women fuck up by having kids

I think you mean not having kids?

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy Link

No. They have kids with two different men, and then tie their tubes. Then they look for a another man to help raise those kids aka step father-land.

[–]ummizazi 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Most women get married eventually.

[–]puririnpa 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

honestly i'd rather be cute or pretty then single and virgin forever than be ugly and marry, too bad becoming cute is harder, pretty much impossible compared to marrying or having sex

also i never want to raise kids ever.

[–]KirthWGersen 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why would you die alone when you are surrounded by many people who love you rather than just one (who will probably die before you)?

[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m not a female but I have overheard conversations a few times between females talking about how they worry that they might become too old to have kids or a husband and that it is stressful to find a man before the clock runs out.

[–]Throwaway77426016888 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think you should be worrying about what kind of woman would willingly choose to spend her life with you instead of worrying about the proposals women are getting.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

go away throwaway.

[–]WestinghouseBaromete -4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Man you must be a blast at parties...

[–]nyctophxlic 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

i am 17 therefore i can’t bring that much life or dating experience into this, but i am really afraid of not finding love. but i wouldn’t say that i‘m afraid of men finding me unworthy for marriage, bc wtf. this shouldn’t be about the way others see you, it should be about your own self perception. i would not want to die thinking bad of myself. that’s why you should always keep on trying to become the best possible version of yourself. i hope that you will find someone who sincerely loves you when you just stick to your plans and follow your goals. if not, then that’s not bc i am unworthy, but simply bc i’d didn’t happen. ig?

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