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Girls, How do you SHOW that your current SO is more special than your last?

September 14, 2022
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I'm curious as to what do you do to show your current boyfriend that he is more special than your last boyfriend. I know that some guys show their current gf that they are special by DOING DIFFERENT things with their current gf than with their last gf.

So, i'm curious to hear what the women in this subreddit do to SHOW their current bf that they are actually more special than the last bf.

Thank you.

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Title Girls, How do you SHOW that your current SO is more special than your last?
Author _Duriel_1000_
Upvotes 1
Comments 16
Date September 14, 2022 10:17 PM UTC (2 months ago)
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[–]EulenWatcher 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I've answered this question on PPD - my husband is the only person I've ever dated.

I'm still curious why you think people should show their partners that they're more special. Why? How? Do you feel the need for your partner to confirm that you're more special?

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm still curious why you think people should show their partners that they're more special.

Do you show that your husband is more special than your friends?

[–]SwimmingTheme3736 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don’t do things to show it’s different.

But I do do things differently because the relationship is different.

We travel together a lot We have date night every week

[–]LiftSushiDallas 3 points4 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

This is a really immature mindset to be honest. Neither I nor my boyfriend are comparing ourselves to past relationships. The relationship is on our terms and if either of us isn't content with something or has an unaddressed need or issue we can discuss it.

Needing to be "more special" is some middle school mentality.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Do you consider your last relationship a failure, or are you not striving for a goal? Meaning if you consider your last relationship a success, you wouldn't change anything for the next relationship, correct?

[–]LiftSushiDallas 2 points3 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

My last relationship was a mistake on my part and I learned lessons from it. However, the mistake I made was getting in that relationship.

It has nothing to do with showing my man he is "more special" than my ex. That's IRRELEVANT to our relationship.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 2 points3 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

My last relationship was a mistake on my part and I learned lessons from it.

Okay, so the mistake was you getting into that relationship. Did you do the same things with the guy you made a mistake with as the guy you are dating now? Or what specifically did you learn from the last relatioship with the guy?

It has nothing to do with showing my man he is "more special" than my ex.

Did you treat them the same?

That's IRRELEVANT to our relationship.

You made a mistake last time. How do you show this new guy he isn't a mistake?

[–]LiftSushiDallas 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

No, I didn't do the same things because the mistake WAS the last person. Since my boyfriend is not him I didn't replicate that mistake.

No, I don't treat them the same because my boyfriend is someone I want to be with.

I show him he's not a mistake by not treating him like a mistake.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

they dont

[–]Rook_Cross 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

LOL, "If you REALLY loved me you would do even more sexually degenerate things with me than the last guy, and snappier!" (especially after you gave her gifts right?). This thinking is bad reasoning and transactional. It's not a competition to boost the new persons ego. you show you love someone by being loving, taking care of them, being encouraging, sticking with them.

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Who will you show is more special your bf or your husband?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you mean "more special" anything...then I will say this.

I am single.But I have been in two relationships.Latter one was more special.He treated me better than other.

First one actually knew how to cook and some special recipes so I got that recipe and tried it but made only for myself.

My second ex got to taste it.I don't know if you are going to count this.But I felt proud as he appreciated it.With him,I used to get more excited to dress for him.With first one,I used to dress for him too but not too much as I didn't felt much enthusiasm.

[–]space_dan1345 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

I think my GF does that by dating me, hanging out with me, going to my friends and family events, etc. And not to his.

Like WTF, it's such an immature attitude. I do different things with my current partner because she's a different person with different interests than my last. However, if there's an overlap of interest/desire, then I'm going to do it with my current partner even if I also did it with my ex

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I think my GF does that by dating me, hanging out with me, going to my friends and family events, etc. And not to his.

How do you know that you aren't just a substitute? A replacement?

[–]space_dan1345 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

I interact with her on a near daily basis and we always have a good time and are planning for the future.

But could I be? Sure, I guess. But then I'd just find someone else to be with if that happened

[–]_Duriel_1000_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I interact with her on a near daily basis and we always have a good time and are planning for the future.

You dont think she did that with the last guy?

But could I be? Sure, I guess.

Absolutely. You could just be a fill-in.

But then I'd just find someone else to be with if that happened

What do you mean? If you found out that she isn't treating you more special than her last, you would leave her?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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