How do I get rid off my hatred for women

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-12-14T08:29:16+00:00

i doubt its appropriate for this sub but just try interacting more with women offline away from this sub and the purple one, the ones that come here regularly are a bit special

KirthWGersen · 2022-12-14T08:57:18+00:00

If monogamy and an absence of cheating are essential to maintain your mental wellbeing then you should never have a sexual relationship with anyone.

Not because all woman always cheat or are out to get you, but because it is an aspect entirely outside of your control.

What you can do is arrange your life in such a way that infidelity will barely affect you in any way, either by:

- Not having relationships.

- Not having relationships that can affect your financial and mental wellbeing.

- Changing your mindset.

If you truly find yourself hating half of humanity simply for following their nature, I would strongly advise talking through it with a good therapist. Having such a mindset can only drag you down and impair your life and the lives of those around you.

EnteFetz · 2022-12-14T09:24:55+00:00

If a woman says something like that about men in public she will be applauded for her courage.

I just accept that women are like they are and I try to live my life in such a way that I am not too much negatively affected by their behaviour.

Try only going for FWB and never commit to any woman. Always talk to at least two women at the same time and if one of them gets flaky immediately try to find another one. If you always talk to at least two, you will not get too attached to any of them and you will stop caring about the fact that she is getting her back blown out by Chad 3 times per week, while she leaves you on read.

revente · 2022-12-14T12:41:02+00:00

believe women are biologically program to cheat and that they hate relationships at and only marry because of patriarchal conditioning.

Even assuming that's true. (I don't think so). You basically admitted you hate them it's because they don't want to give you something that you want.

Do you hate Bill Gates because he won't wire you half of his fortune?

Do you hate David Letterman for not inviting you to be a guest on his show?

Do you hate Joe Biden for not making you his secretary of state?

You just want to be given something that doesn't belong to you and are angry because others won't do that. Especially when it basically means sacrificing their whole lives to live on your terms.

Greedy af!

Also who says that marriage is supposed to be some kind of 'moral standard', a proper way humans function happily or something that's natural to our race?

This institution has been so successful because it benefits the demography, and helped societies pump out more footsoldiers, not because it will make you happy in some magical way.

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-12-14T08:38:15+00:00

Imagine asking a biologist what makes women specifically monsters when the only difference between the sexes is usually the hormone wash in the endocrine system in the womb.

Your outlook is insane and facts are unlikely to fix it. I suggest listening to women. Not rage bait fringe psychos, just normal women on YouTube and just listen. They are normal people. As capable of being good or terrible as any man.

Best_Illustrator_137 · 2022-12-14T13:41:26+00:00

Bro your trolling and it’s not even subtle..this is like every incel point just conveniently wrapped into 1 post..maybe go outside and develope social skills so you don’t have to troll on the internet and get a dopamine hit from it.

FortniteAbobus · 2022-12-14T10:19:32+00:00

Just don't interact with them, glowie.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-12-14T16:12:58+00:00

I went through similar phase for men.Even as woman, I start getting harted for women.And I hated it

I wish I have tips but what I did was just let out frustration, walking alone on park,eating nice foods.These sound stupid and cliche but it kind of helped me.

HateSpeechFanBoy · 2022-12-14T22:19:05+00:00

Hatred and anger is good as it gives energy. You can channel that energy into productive things. I channeled that hatred and anger in my career and now I make 6 figures

EulenWatcher · 2022-12-15T04:20:48+00:00

Stop seeking rage fuel online and drop all social medias for a few months. Get some female friends, find happily married couples around you, get a hobby, work on your own life instead of seething about women.

Considering life-long monogamy, 2/3 of married couples who have higher education stick together. Things aren’t as grim as your online spaces make them seem.

Title	How do I get rid off my hatred for women
Author	dolphinboat
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	December 14, 2022 8:08 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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