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Is it even possible to wife up chick's anymore?

August 18, 2022

I hope to get input on this from men with some experience. Men that been through shit.

I've been wondering lately if it's even possible anymore to wife up (not necessarily marriage) the modern woman anymore. Because to me it's really starting to seem like it just isn't possible anymore. Like That's just an antiquated concept and we should just learn to accept non committed relationships or even arrangements.

For example most average women I know it's just a non starter. Either she's completely delusional from spending too much time on IG where she thinks a relationship is just a man showering her with luxuries. Completely obvious to the inflation that us that live in the real world have to deal with.

Then other females just want to wait until they are completely used up before even considering a relationship. Many of them just want more they can get (or keep). Like they demand a man to be a 10 while they are a 6. Even the men that do manage to become a rich fitness model isn't going to want a 6.

Then woman today have absolutely no respect for men. They been conditioned not too. They fully expect to be able to disrespect men as much as they want to and the men are just supposed to take it.

Then something else I seen is that there's a lot of chameleons out there. These are the chick's that act right at first sometimes even for years and then when you have a child with them, they change. Females today know that the system is there to help them and fuck you over. So it empowers them to act whatever way they want. They know that you can't hit them or even kick them out anymore.

I even see a lot where females are out to move in with a man just to push him over the edge. They want to start a fight with you hit you so that you can lose it and hit her back. Then she can become a domestic violence victim and get section 8 housing. Then she'll be set for life.

I seen some men make relationships last be just putting their heads down and do whatever she says. These are the guys I've met that don't want to leave work because they don't want to go home anymore.

The only men I seen that are truly happy is in the immigrant demographic. These are the people that just stay in their own culture even though they live here.

I see some guys try to be like the immigrants and get themselves a foreign girl. Those usually fail because the women come and get under the influence of modern women.

So I ask again is it even possible to wife a chick up anymore? Or should we all just refuse to move in with women and just have casual relationships? Because I honestly don't know anymore.

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Title Is it even possible to wife up chick's anymore?
Author MAGA-Latino
Upvotes 4
Comments 19
Date August 18, 2022 1:02 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Advice from a married man?

Don’t get married.

Just don’t.

[–]Marzipan-Happy 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link


[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

There are no benefits any more.

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

I see married men and I know they’re miserable as fuck lmao

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Not all. Just operating at a different difficulty level.

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Most are.

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

The bluepilled ones, yes.

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women's standards are only going to rise from here. If you aren't making the cut now, then you probably aren't going to down the road.

You should check out this video I posted here on the sub

[–]TryLambda 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Brother…you have written an accurate thesis, worthy of any social science degree at university……. Your conclusion is correct…that’s why their are hordes of men going Mgtow…and the population of lonely cat ladies s an exploding new demographic reaching exponential scales

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 2 points3 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

It's very competitive for men nowadays.

Ideally, you want a traditional girl, who's conservative and religious. It's becoming more rare as time goes by. If you want to stay in the USA, you'll have to move to a more conservative area (I don't know where you live, I'm guessing USA because of your user name). Otherwise, you have to fly to a foreign country, maybe Mexico if you're Mexican, Brazil if you're Brazilian, and so forth.

Next, you have to have a good screening process.

What I did with my wife was, I based my decisions on her habits/actions. It's the old adage, don't look at what they say, look at what they do. She's decent looking, but that wasn't what I was basing the decision on. If she was a little less attractive, I could give that up if it meant a good wholesome girl.

You also need to be masculine. There's no point finding that "good" girl if you can't 1) attract her, and 2) retain her. That's where the red-pill advice to better yourself comes in.

On a side note, you should look up your state divorce laws. Try living in a state where it's still at-fault divorce. You can do a prenup to top it off.

[–]MAGA-Latino1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

Yeah it is very competitive these days for us.

I just don't know if we can bring a wife here. The Mexicans can do it because they keep their culture where the women still appreciate men. I'm Puerto Rican so that shit ain't happening for me. Those chick's come here and within a year or two they're just as bad as the "city girls".

You also need to be masculine.

How can you do that with the laws we have today. Once you move her in the law is on her side and she knows it. She can have you leave until you can evict her. Then she could even steal or destroy everything if she wants to because females never get any jail time. She would just say it's your fault and everyone would believe her.

That may work before you move in with her or have a kid together, but definitely not after. After that it's really just a bluff. She doesn't have to respect you if she doesn't want to.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

You make all fair points about divorce rape.

That's why I suggested at the end you live in a state with at-fault divorce laws. And I also suggest a prenup.

[–]MAGA-Latino1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not even married. Just have a baby moms that is driving me crazy but it's such a hassle to remove her. I'm worried it's going to get a lot worse before she leaves.

[–]HodgekinWhitePill 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would recommend listening to Andrew Tate on his advice on screening woman for relationship. I'll give you a quick example.

You have a GF and she wants to go clubbing with the girls. What you do is say in a calm and respectful voice, "I do not agree with that activity, if you respect me as your BF, you should not go". And then she has two choices. She either disrespects you by going or she respects you by staying. If she does disrespect you, then you end the relationship.

You do this very early in a relationship. This way you screen out bad girls from good girls.

Just have a baby moms that is driving me crazy but it's such a hassle to remove her.

That's a whole different issue. I wasn't expecting that. I think if you applied the rule above from the start, you could have avoided this issue. Many of life's problem is best dealt with by prevention.

[–]KirthWGersen 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would advise against getting a wife or living with a woman. They are both really bad options for a man, unless you prefer a woman being more like a sister and less like a lover.

Relationships can be really pleasant and easy these days, if you don't go down the traditional path.

[–]Admirable_Bee_8714 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

In the west no. Same reason why you wouldn't bring trash into your home, why would you bother wifing up a whore? Makes no sense.

[–]h1shman 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I’ve met a handful over the years and am currently with a total wifey material girl. I can describe her characteristics in detail but in summary she’s pleasant, giving, kind, right leaning, traditional, sexually open/giving, body count is 3 including me with both being BFs. Likes to travel (with her family lol). Zero provocative social media. Parents are both great. Get along with her siblings too. Told her from the beginning she’s had to travel the country to follow my job as I’m highly paid and she was onboard. I could go on man

I dare say she’s perfect other than not being objectively as attractive as me. I’m 8-8.5/10 so finding women of that quality is pretty rough. She’s a pleasant 7 and naturally thin so definitely good enough for me especially thinking long term when we both age.

I think the key to finding these women is dropping most of TRP strategy. These girls don’t need much push/pull or game. Dating multiple women at the same time is off the table unless you’re a millionaire. If your doing OLD your bio should be balanced between being fun and serious. Match and Facebook dating attracts more of these women than tinder.

[–]250umdfail 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

If you want a tradcon wife, you need to be the traditional husband as well. You should be out earning her by 4x. You should have a house, buy her a car, pay for your kids and what not. Basically, to wife up someone on your looks level, you'll have to be insanely rich, compared to her.

I see a lot of happy couples this way, the husband earning 250k as a software engineer, and the wife being a local performing musician for example. He's the tech bro, and she's the artsy chick, and they're looksmatched.

[–]Peacesquad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The juice isn’t worth the squeeze lol

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