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Is online dating better than meeting someone IRL?

August 26, 2022
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Here's my scenerio:

Would you prefer to date a guy you meet daily for like 3 months but his like a 5 in looks, or would you prefer going online and dating a 6-7?

The reason I'm asking is because of the risks woman have to deal with when meeting new people, One is relatively safe but the other has some risk, Now to those who have dated online, are online people you've dated more crazy than IRL guys you've dated?

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[–]Play_MutedDark Red Pill 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

why you assume she isnt on tinder while seeing the 5 guy for 3 months

[–]TryLambda 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

she is doing all of the above... and also running a train with the football team,,,,modern women are effectively using their bodies like a hyperloop tunnel...

[–]upalseBogPill 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

A bit like buying used car from a friend vs one off craigslist. The latter offers potentially a better deal, while in practice, it's a net loss for a lot of people who end up buying lemons.

[–]TryLambda 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

yep why buy a broken down heap, when you can ride multiple sleek and sexy models without any commitments...

[–]Ambassadior 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Best way to put it

[–]shreyastalpade 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The reason I'm asking is because of the risks woman have to deal with when meeting new people,

Copious amounts of cope.

[–]BlackPillPusher 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The "risks" women take while dating are so miniscule they're the rarest violent crime statistics in the west.

[–]Ganajin 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I would rather meet guys on dating sites, which is where I met my partner.

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer offline.Some online dating can be good like first you chat ,there is some excitement to meeting offline.

But most of apps or website seems to be Hook-up or married people looking for another partner.Again,it depends on area

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If I'm being real, online dating work as an opportunity for enabler to meet people that you wouldn't irl. The issue being people use it as a substitute for social skill when the proper thing to do is to meet asap and take it from there.

I'm against using it for the sole idea of using a company as a third party that have a financial incentive to keep unsuccessfull.

Also to note that while many women use old, you're going to meet a more specific subset of them online. I'm usually able to find someone more attractive irl than online, but you got to have the social skills.

[–]SwaySh0t 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

There are inherent advantages and disadvantages to OLD but meeting someone in IRL will always be the preferred method for most. OLD allows you to cast a wide net and potentially get more options with the least amount of effort but those options are more likely to drop off sense there’s less skin in the game and little consequence for doing so.

Meeting in real life is better because women can’t play as hard to get without phone screen protecting them. There are other things in a real life encounter that you can leverage to make yourself more attractive (social proof/ social status)

[–]Sea_Particular_9086 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree, as well as people catfish showing angles or old picks. I dislike dating apps, as it takes away the social skills of an individual. I

like to be direct and approach the women I find attractive. Read their body language, gauge their interest, see if we have similarities, what their personality is like. And can we have a mature conversation.

[–]ImAGhostOooooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I prefer offline

OLD in my area, no matter the platform, is just military guys looking for hook ups 🙄

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