So many things that would essentially be a death sentence for a man's dating life, do not seem to impede women's dating life in an appreciable way. For example:

-You're really short? If you're a man, your dating options are slim to none. If you're a woman, the world is your oyster so many men love dating short women.

-You're ugly? If you're a man, you'd better be tall and have money or it's over for you. If you're a woman, your dating options will be fewer, but far from none.

-You're fat? If you're a man, you better start hitting the gym unless you enjoy being lonely. If you're a woman, you'll have endless amounts of chubby chasers on dating sites DMing you.

-You have mental illness? You have a personality disorder like BPD? You're poor? You have drug abuse problems? You have a criminal record? You have no job? You have no car? If you're some average man, you're shit out of luck if you tick any of those boxes. If you're a woman, there will always be guys out there for you willing to look past all your faults. The list just goes on and on.

So is there anything you can think of that would make a woman undesirable to the level of being an incel? I personally cannot think of any.