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Is there literally ANYTHING women can do that would make them undesirable?

Antisocial_Nihilist
February 26, 2023
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So many things that would essentially be a death sentence for a man's dating life, do not seem to impede women's dating life in an appreciable way. For example:

-You're really short? If you're a man, your dating options are slim to none. If you're a woman, the world is your oyster so many men love dating short women.

-You're ugly? If you're a man, you'd better be tall and have money or it's over for you. If you're a woman, your dating options will be fewer, but far from none.

-You're fat? If you're a man, you better start hitting the gym unless you enjoy being lonely. If you're a woman, you'll have endless amounts of chubby chasers on dating sites DMing you.

-You have mental illness? You have a personality disorder like BPD? You're poor? You have drug abuse problems? You have a criminal record? You have no job? You have no car? If you're some average man, you're shit out of luck if you tick any of those boxes. If you're a woman, there will always be guys out there for you willing to look past all your faults. The list just goes on and on.

So is there anything you can think of that would make a woman undesirable to the level of being an incel? I personally cannot think of any.

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Title Is there literally ANYTHING women can do that would make them undesirable?
Author Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes 7
Comments 26
Date February 26, 2023 5:14 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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Comments

[–]mcove97NeutralPill 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Of course. Bad hygiene for starters. No man wanna have sex with a woman that reeks and have a terrible stench and never showers, have greasy disgusting hair, greasy skin, doesn't maintain her appearance at all. Personally, I know someone like this born with FAS, so they were socially inept too.

However, being a walking trash can can repel any man. Or perhaps, they'd still be desirable by their fellow trash can man.

[–]Antisocial_NihilistRedPill[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I should have worded my title better. I don't mean less desirable, I mean completely undesirable. To the point of being an incel.

A woman having severe mental issues and terrible hygiene will definitely trim down her dating options. But there will always be some betas out there who probably have a fetish for mentally unstable women who smell like a trashcan. The same cannot really be said for men in the same boat.

I remember a sociologist who was a guest on Chris Williamson who researched incels decided to see if there was a female equivalent. In his entire time researching, he only found 2 women who would fit the criteria of being an incel. Even some of the most repulsive women he's seen still had some level of sexual access.

[–]Kappador66 4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Balding in women makes them completely unattractive.

[–]AbbreviationsMotor60 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They wear wigs. Society accepts this. However, balding men become baldcels and completely undesirable in most cases. I've seen how women treat me worse since I went from norwood 1 to norwood 2.5.

It's just factual that women are far far more judgemental when it comes to appearance.

[–]Educational_Ad4410 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Cope, there’s attractive women who have short hair that’s basically bald. Also women faking they looks is normalized in society, she can get a wig without any judgment.

[–]Pilling_it 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Going above the hot crazy scale.

Like really above.

[–]EulenWatcher 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Asexual, vaginismus etc.

Issues reducing the quality of dating pool or making one unable to vet well also can bring awful results, sometimes worse then staying single.

[–]Grapestheanswer 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No warmwethole

[–]_Throwawaylooksmaxx1 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

Be tall ; I’m tall and most guys aren’t into that

Have darker skin ; most guys aren’t into that

[–]bakedsunday -1 points0 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Have darker skin ; most guys aren’t into that

and most non-white women have to bleach to meet this standard. this post reeks of apex fallacy.

[–]inkwell545 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

As if there aren't guys bleaching lmao 😂😂😂 bleaching is something that's also pushed on to men as well as women.

[–]bakedsunday -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

ok then men are just like women and only want the top 20%

[–]keitaitonekoko#8 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

this is cope, white women support immigracy just to be raped by dark triad islamic horde.

[–]keitaitonekoko#8 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

i don't know about south asia but in the west, darker skin is genuinely more of a failo on women than it is on men, probably in south asia too tbh

but even if it's as big as a failo on men too, that still doesn't mean it isn't effecting the women in anyway.

[–]sebasTLCQG 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Testing a Man too much will make them undesirable as it shows lack of self-confidence in evaluating a man´s value in a practical and effective manner.

This is why we get relationships where a woman never ceases to Sh**test a man over never reaching a conclusion and leave well enough alone, before the whole thing crashes into the ground.

[–]red__hulkcerified male advisor -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Being feminist

[–]EviessVeralan 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

You're really short? If you're a man, your dating options are slim to none. If you're a woman, the world is your oyster so many men love dating short women.

Being tall as a woman can be a dealbreaker for some guys.

-You're ugly? If you're a man, you'd better be tall and have money or it's over for you. If you're a woman, your dating options will be fewer, but far from none.

I would personally argue that the fact that an ugly dude can get a better paying job to offset his looks makes men have it easier then women in this department.

-You have mental illness? You have a personality disorder like BPD? You're poor? You have drug abuse problems? You have a criminal record? You have no job? You have no car? If you're some average man, you're shit out of luck if you tick any of those boxes. If you're a woman, there will always be guys out there for you willing to look past all your faults. The list just goes on and on.

If this is true then guys really need to have better standards. Overlooking red flags like this is a recipe for divorce.

To answer your question, being a single mom, and having an std are other things that can harm your dating prospects.

[–]Educational_Ad4410 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

A tall woman can still attract a lot of men simply because dudes are simps and she has a vagina, you can’t compare the struggles of a short man to a tall woman. Most runway models are tall even, bad faith argument to even put short men and tall women in the same pond.

Additionally, an ugly woman doesn’t need money to attract men, so that argument doesn’t make sense. She can attract tons of men without money while a ugly man has to get money, you can’t compare at all.

A woman’s SMV is almost infinite since a lot of men simp over vagina.

[–]EviessVeralan 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

A tall woman can still attract a lot of men simply because dudes are simps and she has a vagina,

How many would actually wife her up though? The fact that a guy would pump and dump her is worthless to most women.

Most runway models are tall even,

Runway models are picked by whats considered beautiful to women and some gay men.

Additionally, an ugly woman doesn’t need money to attract men, so that argument doesn’t make sense.

The fact that an ugly man can still land a hot woman with money is a male advantage.

A woman’s SMV is almost infinite since a lot of men simp over vagina.

This is using a male mentality. Women arent men. Women have different goals when it comes to sex.

[–]Educational_Ad4410 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

A ugly woman doesn’t have to use a resource that isn’t her to attract men. The hot woman dating the ugly rich man is dating his money not him, the ugly woman is being dated for her not her resources. She will always be her ugly self while the rich ugly dude can lose his money.

Again, can’t compare, women obviously have it a better since a ugly man would have to literal join the top 1% of men while the ugly woman doesn’t have to do anything, never mind join the elite.

Additionally, many men find runway models attractive what are you even talking about? How many men would look at a Victoria secret model and think she’s ugly? And yes tall women can get into relationships just like any other woman can, she just has to select a partner that will settle down with her instead of chasing f boys.

[–]EviessVeralan 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

A ugly woman doesn’t have to use a resource that isn’t her to attract men. She will always be her ugly self while the rich ugly dude can lose his money.

The ugly woman will only have x amount of options available to her. While a man can lose his money this doesnt change the fact that he has the option of increasing his options while she doesnt.

Again, can’t compare, women obviously have it a better since a ugly man would have to literal join the top 1% of men while the ugly woman doesn’t have to do anything, never mind join the elite.

In this scenario being able to land a better job and increase your options is a male privilege. Women have a set number of options and if you lose the genetic lottery as a woman youre fucked.

Additionally, many men find runway models attractive what are you even talking about? How many men would look at a Victoria secret model and think she’s ugly?

I was referring to fashion models not Victoria secret models. Fashion models are picked by women to showcase womens clothes whereas, until recently Victoria secret models also had to be attractive to men.

And yes tall women can get into relationships just like any other woman can,

Its harder when youre taller. Especially if youre at the 5"11 and up range. Men tend to want women shorter then them.

[–]Educational_Ad4410 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The rich man will have X amount of options too. Not all women want to have sex with a ugly rich guy. Definitely nowadays since women can provide for themself now that’s why so many dudes are struggling in dating since they can’t just be a provider anymore (some demographics of women make more money than men even and plus single women have more houses than single men).

Regardless, you seem to not fully understand my point here. The ugly woman is being dated for her, this is a more genuine relationship than the ugly rich dude who is being dated for his money. The ugly woman doesn’t have to join the top 1% of women plus gets a more genuine relationship since she is being dated for HER while the ugly rich man has to join the top 1% of men to get a superficial relationship since the woman is not dating HIM but his money that can be lost. The ugly woman has a much better deal here.

Also I am talking about a normal runway model, I don’t know what you may be talking about but your average runway model is found attractive by most dudes. Regardless, Victoria secret models are tall so this defeats your point of men not finding tall women attractive. Even if she’s ugly she still more desirable than a ugly man and has tons of men to pick from.

And again, tall women can still get relationships, tall women still have tons of men to choose from that find her attractive, she just has to take some responsibility and choose men that want to settle down.

[–]Last-Post2085BlackPill 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Dumb thread. I wouldn't date an obese stinky woman and neither would billions of men

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

well that only show us how much you don't have enough info about the majority of men in the incelosphere.

for years ,i saw incels using every chance they got to date even the filth of the bottom and i have used fake tinder accounts as an obese ugly woman just to get ton of like and matches within hours

[–]Educational_Ad4410 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It doesn’t mean you won’t date her, no one else would. I don’t personally find fat women attractive but there’s tons of men who find that attractive, BBW gets millions of views and comments on porn so there’s millions of men around the world who find fat women attractive.

Also there’s men who have fart fetishes, pee fetishes, just weird stuff so the woman you mentioned will still be able to attract men, some guy might clean her up first then have sex with her regardless women have almost infinite SMV.

[–]keitaitonekoko#8 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

outside of people on dating apps loking for a hook up, most guys don't like hairy, obese or hideously ugly women.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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