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It appears people are doing gender swap experiments on /r/socialskills. On a side note, Reddit is probably the worst place to learn social skills from. Dear God do I hate this website...

August 14, 2022
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Title It appears people are doing gender swap experiments on /r/socialskills. On a side note, Reddit is probably the worst place to learn social skills from. Dear God do I hate this website...
Author Liberated_Asexual
Upvotes 20
Comments 28
Date August 14, 2022 8:05 PM UTC (3 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/it-appears-people-are-doing-gender-swap.1139680
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/wofcpo/it_appears_people_are_doing_gender_swap/

[–]CoverYourAwrahMaroon Pill 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]Ambassadior 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Perhaps there are differences between genders?

Also, if you're really a liberated asexual, aren't you absolved from this gender conflict? If I was asxual I'd live peacefully from worrying about this stuff

[–]Liberated_Asexual[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Liberated asexual is more of a philosophical idea. I am very low libido from PSSD though. Either way, hypocrisy is still hypocrisy.

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I couldn't imagine being very low libido. Though my libido is kinda low at a base line to begin with. I feel like life has no meaning for me without love. Without love all there is for me is consumption and wage cuckolding.

When my ex contacted me 3 months ago, I was getting morning wood almost every day for 7+ weeks straight. And my mental health improved (and my physical health too. Because my appetite decreased after the oxytocin hit my brain. Then I started consciously restricting my calories and noticed I lost a lot of weight. Then I went hard in the gym).

Its so obvious I am so incredibly lonely. I am a mix of black and blue pills. The black pill is so depressing that I feel like I need to hold on to some blue pill (desire for LTR and romance) to give me HOPE and will to continue living. My cock was giving me a sign. The universe must be giving me a sign. (and yes I did try to chase after my ex because I felt like that is what the universe was telling me to do. She didn't want to take me back. She's with some other guy. And I had a Marvin's Room moment). My cock was basically dead during the pandemic because I had largely given up on love.

[–]Peacesquad 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women lmao

[–]lostwanderer28 2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

I didn't understand. Where is the issue?

[–]Liberated_Asexual[S] 8 points9 points  (9 children) | Copy Link

Exact opposite advice is delivered for the same exact situation with the only difference being the genders are swapped. Yet this greater website wants us to believe in fictional ideas like gender equality and that there aren't any major differences between the sexes.

[–]lostwanderer28 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Now I understand. Yes!

[–]Wide_Result9679 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

They're different situations though. Approaching a stranger in public is not the same as approaching a classmate.

[–]Liberated_Asexual[S] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I really doubt the overall responses would have changed that much tbh. Just look at any other post on the subreddit where someone is asking about approaching a woman (as a guy), and they all say don't. I've even seen people on subs like /r/dating say things like "be an adult and use an app" (I think the post was about a guy who sees a girl regularly at the gym they both attend).

Part of why I'm making this post is because people get mad at TRP for what it is, but they don't realize pretty much all other dating advice related subreddits are complete and utter garbage and will lead to no results if followed. TRP at least has a chance of getting you in the game.

[–]Wide_Result9679 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

We can agree there, I almost added that to my comment.

People tell men to leave women alone because honestly the vast majority of men who have hit on me in public were irritating as hell. When 2 strange men your entire life haven't been completely awful trying to talk to you, it's fair to advise men to leave women alone. Yes, this applies to the gym too.

Most guys who try to approach a woman treat asking her out as a goal and ignore her cues when she's not interested. Many get angry and rude. Just this month I had a man in a Walgreen's yell and insult me because I wouldn't tell him where I worked in the neighborhood after he hit on me.

Does this mean men shouldn't talk to women? No. But the male mindset of "I have to shoot my shot" isn't just bad for women, it's bad for men. I don't like dating apps. I think meeting people via socializing is ideal. But most women are on a slower timeline than men, so it's not "cool we just met let's instantly want to date each other," it's "sparks developed over time as we got to know each other in this group."

Guys think "I'm in this Meetup cuz people said I should meet girls that way, better hit on the girls in the group!" When a better approach would be to expand one's social circle via said Meetup and see if eventually a girl is met that way.

Most women aren't gonna hit on a guy, expect an immediate response, and insult or threaten him if he isn't immediately into her. Neither are most men, I'd like to think, but there's a reason men & women are given different advice. I don't know any dudes who were insulted by a strange woman at Walgreen's this month because he wouldn't tell her where he worked.

[–]catniagara -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It would make sense if it worked but they’re clearly both still alone so?!?

[–]DreJ-X 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Damn i didnt realize it until u ppinted it out and u are 100 percent right

[–]warramite 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Approaching is only an issue when they don't find you attractive, literally 98% of all relationships happen cause the man made a move

[–]Mrs_Drgree 0 points1 point  (25 children) | Copy Link

You have two different scenarios and got two different responses. Duh...

[–]Liberated_Asexual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

The general rhetoric and sentiment all throughout Reddit is basically the same — "men, don't approach women in public". For women, "go and shoot your shot girl!"

You'll be very hard pressed to find an example to the opposite. There's plenty of other situations on subs like AITA or dating_advice, where completely opposite pieces of advice when the genders are flipped. These people are also largely the same people who subscribe to progressive communist values and actually think gender is "literally a social construct" — well, their subconscious reaction says otherwise.

This is why, regardless of how flawed TRP may be, TRP is the best dating advice subreddit for men on Reddit.

[–]zoloftabuser 1 point2 points  (19 children) | Copy Link

Why am I shadowbanned on the main sub?

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

this isnt relevant to apd

[–]zoloftabuser 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s not, but I was curious and I wanted her to answer publicly so others can see.

[–]Mrs_Drgree 1 point2 points  (16 children) | Copy Link

Ban evasion.

[–]zoloftabuser 0 points1 point  (15 children) | Copy Link

What’s my previous account?

[–]Mrs_Drgree 1 point2 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Your probably the rape apology guy. You've had so many names at this point I can't track them anymore.

[–]Lovers691BlackPill 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Two different scenarios


[–]Mrs_Drgree 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

One is a man walking down the street with a random woman. The other is a woman who is familiar with the man and in the same social settings. These are two unique situations.

[–]Lovers691BlackPill 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

But she hasn’t talked to him before they might as well be strangers

[–]Mrs_Drgree 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, they go to the same school, take the same classes, live in the same location... She already knows a ton about him just through observation. Unlike the man who just sees a hot chick and wants to talk to her out of the blue.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

this is why redditors don't reproduce sweaty

[–]mymanhenry84052255 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Reminder that women typically have horrible game as they never have to try too hard to get a boyfriend or hookup.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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