Imagine if getting water was as difficult as getting affection and sex, controlled by women's preferences. If she likes you, you can quench your thirst.

Affection and sex may not be as urgent as the need for water, but they are certainly important for a person's well-being and development. Therefore, if I have a plethora of unpleasant physical traits such as being short, having a small penis, being skinny, being ugly, I am doomed to be unhappy and unfulfilled by not submitting to the hegemonic tastes of women. Even if women were paid for sex, I would be controlled.