I've been so fed up with the hypergamy among women on dating apps. That recently I just said "fuck it, some of these transgirls on these dating apps are kinda hot. I'm gonna try it." I super liked a femme passing CD (crossdresser) on Bumble back in late June. She must not have logged in until recently because she matched with me last Saturday (the 6th) and messaged me "Hii" at 10pm+. Since on Bumble women have to make the first move. This wasn't the first time I talked with a transwoman. The femme passing ones from my experience are often flaky and Chad-only or not serious about meeting.
But something just told me as soon as I saw "Hii" that I was gonna get lucky this time. Maybe there was just something in her eyes and expression in her pics that made me feel like she'd be my first transwoman. We chatted back and forth a bit but she stopped. I guess she was busy. I was hanging out with my friend. I went to the gym at midnight motivated. Then I got a message from her at like 1:40 AM. I told her that I had just been back from the gym and my muscles were sore. She said that I need a massage. I knew where this was going. She said too bad I'm far. I said that according to the GPS, she's only 4 km away.
She asks for a body pic of me. I send her one. She replies in the morning saying I'm so handsome. I call her beautiful. She asks me what my plans are for the day. I said I just came back from a run and gonna shower and I ask about her plans. She says that she doesn't have anything planned but she'd like to go to this festival. They make it so easy for me when they are actually into me. Most women it's like pulling teeth. I ask her if she'd like to go with me. She responds eagerly. She seemed so into me in the texts leading up to our date.
When we met, she asked me why I was quiet. I said I have social anxiety. She takes my hand and puts it to her bare leg and asks if I still have anxiety. ROFL I took her on a proper date and its a festival where the vendors are cash only. She was like "I didn't bring cash" (first red flag). I said "I got cash." I paid for her iced coffee ($7 CAD). I also put in 74km on my car that day driving to her place (5 km), driving to our date (30 km+), driving her home (30 km+) and driving back to mine (5km) which costs $$$ in Justin Trudeau's Canada. So I beta provided for her a little bit. lol. She seemed into me legit so I wasn't too bothered by that. She found $5 so she paid for her own churro.
Long story, we kissed, held hands, cuddled and we went to second base in my car. She was "massaging" me while I was driving her home and put her hands underneath my pants. This was my first experience with someone with a Y Chromosome and I liked it so I guess I'm bi. Though the experience left me feeling weird because she was already talking about the future. Like how she wants to move in together eventually. And how men use her for sex. And I'm just at the point where I don't know how far I want this to go.
Ciswomen are my first preference. I don't think I can ever give up pussy for life and be in a committed relationship with a transwoman. A lot of conservatives have this binary view of sexuality thinking that you can only ever really be straight or gay and that there is no in between. As much as I find the wokescold left to be very annoying, I disagree with conservatives on this. Ciswomen are my first preference. But I like transgirls too. I enjoyed cuddling with the CD and shared affection with her. It's more than just sex for me. But commitment goes further than affection and even love.
Sex with my favourite ex was amazing. I remember when I got hard when I cuddled with my ex, I knew in my heart that she was the one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. I don't have that feeling with the transgirl. And I was black pilled af back then. My ex made me rethink my black pilled views to a degree because she made me fall in love. I think pussy is over-rated. If I don't care about the woman attached to the pussy, fucking a pussy is no better than masturbation. My right hand can get me to cum far faster than a pussy ever can. But pussy attached to a woman you're in love with is amazing. Sex for me is very mental.
I had chatted with the CD daily since then. Fast forward to Wednesday and she asks me when I'm coming over to her apartment after I had wished her good morning. I said I'd come over after she's done work. Then in the afternoon she says that somethings come up, she was invited to a friend's birthday party and needs to be there by 6. She asks me to drop her off. Her friend's house is 20 minutes highway driving from her place and 18 minutes from my place. The CD's apartment is 11 minutes from my place. So it would take 49 minutes of driving for me to pick her up, take her to her friend's house and then go back home.
I hesitated to respond for 20 minutes. I told her, "but then we wouldn't have much time to spend together." And she said "we have an hour if you come up to my apartment before taking me to my friend's house." I hesitated for another 20 minutes and said, "that's okay, we can meet another time. Have fun at the party!" And she's like "ohh okay sure". Then later in the afternoon she's like "are you sure? even if you just drop me off?" I was so disgusted with her. I said, "we'll meet another day. It's okay." And she's like "okay sure." This was Wednesday afternoon.
And then I never heard from her again and it's been nearly a full 4 days and the weekend is almost over. I'm not her personal chauffeur. She is a user/taker. Just like many ciswomen in 2022. And from my experience courting other transgirls online, it seems like many of them have held onto the worst traits of ciswomen. Many of them are materialistic and want a guy to take her out to a nice dinner on the first date. Shower them with gifts. Is there such thing as a female dating strategy site for transgirls or something? Because FDS is transphobic. Yet transgirls act exactly like FDS femcels.
So if you think dating transgirls is going to solve the hypergamy problem, THINK AGAIN. transgirls are just as materialistic (if not more so) as ciswomen. They are just as likely to be users/takers, if not more so. Transgirls can be just as hypergamous, Chad only as ciswomen. And when I see non-passable transgirls get guys showering them with compliments online, I want to throw up. Why are men boosting the egos of non-passing ugly transwomen just like they boost the egos of ugly, landwhale ciswomen?
In a way I understand why this transgirl is a leech. She showed me her Grindr. She gets messages from all these men, some of them big dicked Chads, wanting to fuck. Men are so thirsty in 2022. If I won't give her a free ride some more desperate simp out there probably offered her a ride on short notice. I myself am on Grindr because I'm there to meet transwomen. And I get tons of messages from cismen too. Men will fuck anything. So don't be jealous of women getting Chad and Tyrone dick. Chad and Tyrone both love me too because I'm a handsome guy (though a 5'6" autistic manlet). It's not special to get attention from men. Dick is cheap. Pussy is expensive.
Men, we need to level up, we need to collectively set some standards and stop boosting the egos of these females. It's getting to the point where even transgirls and CDs are developing egos and feel entitled to rides, free meals, gifts and shit from men.