Men should protect women ( and do other things ), women should provide sex (ADOT). There's nothing wrong with that.

Women can serve in the military

Men innately want to protect women. Way more men statistically even try the route of military. The number of women who try that route is almost insignificant.

Having women in the military creates further problems in the safety of the country, but since you're not ready to listen, I'll leave it here and maybe explain it when you ask for it.

Alimony and child support laws were made my men who realized that the financial struggles created by men who fathered children outside of marriage were a burden on the government.

Single mothers are a financial burden to the government as well. But they are paid for life. And in most countries, if not clearly specified in the contract, even without kids the woman will receive the fruits of the man's job for life.

and not all men even do those jobs.

Wow. Best counter argument. "But not all men". Just start reasoning with your head instead of repeating whatever you read on internet by feminists.

More men now are wanting to go into office jobs that are not dangerous or physically demanding at all.

Almost 100% of dangerous jobs are worked by men. 80% of work injuries are in men.

Im a woman. I can say I get zero benefits from being a woman.

That's because by being a woman you don't need to understand men's struggles.

Maybe a free meal or drink every now and then, but even then I have to constantly consider what the man’s motives were for buying me those things.

Wow so you'd prefer not doing anything. The man needs to set up the date and pay for you when most of the times can't even do sex with you because you act precious. If he managed to get a date with you it means he already brought value. You instead, don't need to bring value as a woman to get dates. Any woman can't eat dates. Not every man can do that.

Mens protector role is dying.

It's not dying at all. In your experience it is. Which means that you don't succede on finding gentlemen/you are not grateful.

You don’t get sex by just being able to provide anymore because women can now do that themselves.

Exactly. Men need to do a lot more than providing basic resources in this modern time in order to get sex. They need to have extra resources and a awful lot of other things that women find in a package when in reality it took years to get to that point.

Stop minimizing your privileges. I just said that it's fine. I'm not complaining about those privileges. I really think it is fine, but when you minimize men's efforts like that you only make yourself look ridiculous.

Edit: I looked at your comment chronology. Take care.