Men we need to stop reinstating our preferences against promiscuous women

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-10-06T23:44:57+00:00

Yea honestly idc if women wanna argue about it. You can't argue my ick away.

Hyena_Utopia · 2022-10-06T23:47:10+00:00

Don't try to repair something you didnt break. Breathe a sigh of relief and let it go. Theres nothing we can do anyways.

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-10-07T10:55:28+00:00

promiscuous women are having plenty of fun good for them (except when they spread diseases and we have to pay the price uh oh) and obviously the men who bang them arent gonna stop because we said so

id just rather be alone than with an honest one than with a lying one and id only engage in hookups if i truly felt like there was nothing else worthwhile

RatDontPanic · 2022-10-07T01:03:27+00:00

Being promiscuous as a man is just as damaging to men as well as women.

Necessary-Worry1923 · 2022-10-07T00:35:07+00:00

Only a small % of women are promiscous. Only a small fraction of women use Tinder, which explains why 75% of Tinder is male users, majority of women are staying out of OLD. So eliminating hook up culture will only affect a tiny % of women.

Median N for the average American female is around 3 to5.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-10-07T00:58:36+00:00

I mean, to me it makes intuitive sense with zero understanding of neurochemistry that having sex with several different people very frequently vs. having sex with a select few people exclusively would devalue the subconsciously assigned value to sex in the first place.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2022-10-07T01:30:52+00:00

You can't destroy hookup culture because it's what both men and women the people. Women want access to the top guys for sex at the very least and will only stop when that option is closed off. The top percentile of men want no strings attached sex and will not stop until they've had their fill.

These two facts will always lead to hookup culture. This isn't anything new, girls have always hooked up with the hottest guys, you just didn't know about it. Dating apps just made that information public and enhanced the reach women had too attractive men.

What guys need to do is become the best version of themselves and stop worrying about what other people are doing. If you want low count women you will need to be high value to be able to attract them, especially if you are older than her.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-10-07T01:08:58+00:00

Nothing is going to change.Promiscuous is not allowed for women and allowed for man because sex is designed for man.There is no consequence for man regarding it.Women have to deal with it as female biology is very weak and crazy.Thats how it is going to be.If became acceptable,men will still not date them even if they are high n count themselves.

Even you don't want to date prosmicious woman so why do you care others not dating them?If you have high n count,are you seriously going to want high n count woman,no.We are just built for pump and dump and young virgin is only winner.

To change hook up culture,we just need to be conservative and keep shaming for it.It works in my area.

BlackPillPusher · 2022-10-07T09:09:04+00:00

Good luck trying to dictate others what they should and should not do, men naturally do not like promiscuous women, you won't change that

tonyrehmatdemir · 2022-10-07T12:59:41+00:00

There is not much men can do, most women will lie about their promiscuity.

De_Carabas_of_Below · 2022-10-07T13:17:56+00:00

I have no prejudice against promiscuous women. They can take my load and I'll have fun doing it.

But have one as a girlfriend? A wife? Start a family?

Are you kidding?

Such a person would be a massive paternity fraud risk.

FastBananaViral · 2022-10-07T03:10:53+00:00

Why shouldn’t one be allowed to state their preferences?

hdksndiisn · 2022-10-07T18:04:55+00:00

I agree with you. But the problem is there are more men blindly enslaved and content in this world than there are those willing to change it, and many that can’t imagine a different world to live in so wouldn’t know where to even begin thinking about changing their actions.

What one can do is rise up in the social structure, create belief systems, marketing schemes, etc…and infiltrate the masses; basically study & learn PSYOPS and trick people into changing their perceptions.

Well, that’s one way. But as I originally meant to say the problem is that even if men don’t “date hoes” there will be 1000x more that fuck them.

Everything is cyclical. Hoe-culture will die out to conservative beliefs which will be overtaken by liberal systems, like a pendulum, swinging back and forth.

What red pill gurus should do is stop teaching men to bang sluts & marry virgins, and instead teach men to honor themselves AND women, and not perpetuate the cycles they so adamantly and vehemently detest.

The other “problem” is - there is no “problem”. What is morality in relation to sexuality anyways but a means of social control instituted by decaying religious bodies & outdated social norms which represented ideal state-driven family units existing that are no longer necessary to hold society together?

If women don’t want to change their behavior and men continually reinforce that behavior by participating in it, nothing will change. I don’t even know what I’m saying anymore I’ve been on my phone too long. I’m going to the gym. Where some chick in yoga pants will doubtlessly be taking photos of her ass in the mirror.

herefortheparty01 · 2022-10-07T21:10:01+00:00

Naw. Im good.

Admirable_Bee_8714 · 2022-10-08T22:32:20+00:00

Society created and upholds hookup culture, it encourages it along with feminism which serves no one but the oligarchy. Society can burn down for all I care, I've gone fishing.

classicliberal1 · 2022-12-02T08:59:14+00:00

pseudoscience like promiscuous women aren't able to pair bond

That's science, not pseudoscience. It explains one of the reasons why you are evolved to not want to commit to a promiscuous woman and why those evolutionary reasons still apply today.

What you can say is that men are hard-wired to not want to be monogamous to a promiscuous woman and ultimately that emotional need for paternal confidence is inherently important and no further explanation is necessary.

Instead we need to actually deconstruct and abolish hook up culture.

You have no power to do this. Nor can you form a large enough coalition of men to accomplish this. The best you can do is forgo long-term reproductive strategies in favor of short-term ones.

The only way the hook-up culture will end is if the environment ends it with some kind of economic, political, social, religious, or other external force. No movement can override market forces, and those market forces are really just biological forces acting in a new environment.

Title	Men we need to stop reinstating our preferences against promiscuous women
Author	roseonyxa
Upvotes	7
Comments	54
Date	October 6, 2022 10:35 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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